How To Write a Naughty Love Letter
The great thing about writing dirty is that some people feel uncomfortable or silly talking dirty and honestly texting dirty is impersonal and the abbreviations (text speak) just don't translate the same. As much as writers like to consider themselves gifted, truth is anybody can write if given the proper motivation...oh God the time!
Writing a love letter with a little bit of sugar and spice and everything naughty, will make your partner feel extremely desirable. Follow these tips and see where it gets you- you won't be disappointed. Just consider me your naughty muse.
Naughty Love Letter 101: Use Adjectives and Verbs
Step 1: Flatter With Descriptive Words
Get to know your subject. Hopefully you already know the recipient of your love letter fairly well-- Anything less than "well" is subject to creepiness factor. Study this person carefully and notice small details about them. the more you know a person the more you will tend to overlook the small thoughtful stuff. The more specific the details, the better because it shows romantic admiration, and it's just plain flattering.
Say my name! There is nothing sweeter than a person hearing (or reading) their own name- it's backed by science!! Try to use the person's name in your letter in a personal way.
Some points to study are their smell, their movements, their favorites, how they sip their coffee, and their quirks that most people wouldn't usually notice (i.e. the way you wrinkle your nose like an unruly school girl who cheated her way to my heart).
Great adjectives to use are: smoldering, deep, taunting, wicked, fervent, spicy, curious, adventurous, playful, enticing, enchanting, silken, lush, impassioned, sultry, torrid, dirty, white-hot, feverish, impressive, insatiable, unstoppable, addictive. Make sure to include some adjectives unique to this person about their actions or appearance.
The reason for using tasteful and creative adjectives like the samples above are to create a desirable feeling within your partner- you don't want to chase them away with anything vulgar or distasteful. Think of love poems or letters as foreplay and foreplay is best when you are in the moment, not thinking or expecting anything, but simply paying attention to the details and your partner.
Step 2: Animalistic Action Words
Think like the animal you are and how this person makes you react to them. A naughty love letter must have action and animalistic action is raw and intense, engaging and taking no prisoners. It's not degrading to use verbs related to animals if used tastefully in a passionate way. Words like taste, arouse, tempt, linger, savor, ruthless, tremble, hunger, lick, attack, attract, sense, pounce, enhale, devour, prey, excite, anticipate, hunt, and pursue.
3. What do You Want to Do?
This is where you combine your descriptive and action words and explain what you would do with (or to) this person the next time you get a moment alone with him or her. Everything you mention should be non-threatening and flattering, especially pleasurable, for your lover (i.e. I thought of your silken skin pressing hungrily into my eager flesh, which only served to remind me that I need everything about you before my self-control erupts. You delight me, you tempt me, but most of all I enjoy every bit of it and I want to show you just how much I crave you).
An extra special naughty love letter is not purely about sex- it's a combination of sexuality, class/taste, and love/lust. It's perfect to renew a spark in a long-term relationship or a new relationship in the starry-eyes romantic love stage.
Sell Yourself- Put it all out there!
Do you know why we buy more than we really need or want? Because of sales techniques, including the use of trigger words. Selling words are also useful in writing a love letter; it's all about selling yourself and your "services" (wink wink), and to make yourself appealing and simply irresistible.
Selling words include: revealing, powerful, gripping, luxurious, genuine, daring, lavish, deserve, unlock, guarantee, obsession, emerging, monumental, fascinating, superior, pleasurable, fresh, authentic, stylish, ample, and compelling.
Do's and Don't's
Do write this letter with an accurate representation of what level of intimacy and commitment your relationship is at.
Don't mention the word love for the first time in this letter. It's meant to be playful and hot, not deep and involved. Likewise, if you love the person and they love you, do mention this or something similar about how strong you feel for them- use feeling words along with sexy words.
Do consider who the recipient is. Write this letter to a lover, very special someone, spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend- not crushes, someone you barely know or anonymous stalking.
Don't speak only of physical needs- people are attracted on a mental level too. Speaking of physical needs, try to concentrate on phrases and words that describe meeting and satisfying your partner's needs.
Don't be a turn off. Don't be rude! Don't be disgusting.
For more inspiration: http://www.secretloveletters.com/
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