How to Date a Libra Man if you are a Libra Woman


Picture this: You are a love goddess, and he is a love god. Generally, you are a physically attractive couple and both of you appreciate the finest music, food, art, and conversation that life has to offer. On the surface, this appears to be a match made in zodiac heaven; however, with the numerous similarities in this astrological pairing you may find the two of you are too much alike. With that said, the Libra man and Libra woman are the lovers of the zodiac and could make a beautiful romance as long as you are willing to acknowledge your similarities and compromise on a few things.

  1. Recognize & Acknowledge Similarities. It is best to acknowledge your similarities up front in the relationship – especially if there are any negative similarities. This will alleviate your mate being caught off guard later on in the relationship when he finds out you are lacking qualities that he wants in a woman. Both partners will be sophisticated, have a refined taste, have a love of the finer things in life, and enjoy debating. Libra men may come across as needing more time and attention than the average guy. As a Libra woman, you may have a similar quality. It is best to acknowledge this and figure out ways to work around it. Solicit help from other friends and family, rather than asking your male Libra. Generally, attempt to keep your requests to your Libra mate to a minimum. Otherwise, your partner may start to feel inadequate if you are always asking for things that he is not accustomed to providing.
  2. Be a Partner. The Libra male is always looking for a partner. As the Libra woman you should strive to view your relationship as a two-person team. All decisions made for your home should be approached as you would a team and as you would your team mates. The Libra male can be very indecisive, and he will feel more secure and confident in his decisions if he has a teammate to help him make decisions. In a sense, the Libra male would almost prefer that his mate take the lead role in the relationship. From the very start of the relationship, if he is truly interested he ask you to accompany him to places and you would want him to do the same for you.
  3. Division of Labor. The Libra male likes to pamper his significant other by cooking for her, keeping the home clean, and waiting on her, but he will eventually expect you to return the favor.With the Libra male it’s all about balance – when he does something nice for you he doesn’t expect you to return the exact same favor; however, if he asks for your help or asks you to go out of your way for him, he will expect you to readily assist him as he has assisted you. Now, be aware that your turn to return the favor could last for a while. After he goes out of his way for you, it could take days, weeks, or months before he feels the two of you are back in balance. During this time period, the Libra male may appear to be lazy and irresponsible, but rest assured knowing that he can’t remain off balance for too long, and the scale will eventually tip back in your direction and give you a chance to relax. As a Libra woman this period of imbalance will affect you just as much as it affects him, but if this is the man you desire, give him some time to even out the scale again.
  4. Finances. Dealing with lavish spending will be an issue for the Libra male and Libra female couple. Libras are known for freely spending their hard earned money equally on others and themselves. The Libra male tends to be very generous with his money, spending freely on his mate, his family, and his close friends. If your Libra man has not learned the fine art of money management, you will have to take the reins. As a Libra woman, your financial decisions will be equally challenging. If your Libra mate is a lavish spender, you will have to be the one to curb your spending, and try to rein in his spending habits. You can make this suggestion to your mate, but only in a respectful and helpful way, otherwise the discussion could lead to conflict. You may have to be the one to compromise until he catches on. First off you will want him to trust your abilities to manage money, meaning you may have to take a course or two in financial management yourself. Once his trust is established, you can start to give him some tips and advice on money management that will benefit both of you.


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Sure2purr 3 years ago from southern CA

my husband is a Libra born in late September. I'm born first part of Oct. A really great book to read that breaks down the signs even further is the Zodiac big book for Birthdays. There it tells you whether you're for example a Libra 1, Libra 2, or Libra 3. My husbands a 1 and I'm a 2. Ive been with my husband 20 yrs. I play the male role a lot while he is the emotional female . It's weird I know but it is what it is. We have strong bonds together but our battles he handles sometimes like a total jerk when not getting his way and he will say hurtful things that aren't nice, fair, true, or promote balance at all. Any constructive criticism he takes as an attack. He needs more attention that most other people. He has a lot of emotional affair type friendships and he is an ego stroker (car salesmen for 40 yrs) with lots of ego stroking friendships he tried to keep under wraps. On the same token if reversed he would have a fit but after 10 yrs I learned to just be myself first and foremost ignore it. Surround myself with what my ego needs were, and he had to get over it. So today we both seem happy with our personal lives. For Libra women I don't recommend this match up unless you are one tough cookie!!!


ironcakes 2 years ago

@Sure2purr , My boyfriend and I are both Libras as well and when you said your husband handles battles like a total jerk and he says hurtful things....that's EXACTLY like my boyfriend...yes its emotionally abusive..i hate it..so i;ve learned to just keep quiet and not argue back because at that point he wants to feel like the ALPHA. lol sooo i let him. I am sooo glad I came to this site and im glad that I am not the only one whos partner is the same way. Its hard to be in a Libra and Libra relationship but its one of the top compatiblities.


Lindsay 2 years ago

My bf is an Italian Libra male, I'm a Libra female. I'm not sure what number. But I agree 100% you have to be tuff when it's good its great when it's bad it's bad. He says very hurtful things and calls me names He said in Italy the woman is submissive to the man. I'm from Georgia and am a very strong Southern woman so submissive is not in my Vocabulary. I'm constantly nursing his ego so that he feels like "The Man". I would not recommend two Libras getting together. There other signs your more compatible with because you will find yourself working really hard and sooner or later you will ask your self "if something is this hard to do is it going to work" I'm emotional exhausted and have answered my own question's.


Libracute 2 years ago

Yes! It can be an amazing experience. I am a late libra almost scorpio cusp, (but not as verified by an astrologer/leap year). My libra man is my dream. I find we are perfect together. We have had just a few fights, but always resolved them peacefully and learned from the experience. We have friendly debates. libra males are very animated at times, i love his sense of humor. I am always laughing... it is a beautiful thing! go for it :) (we also have compatible aspects in our chart which i believe helps this mix) My sister and her husband are both libras too, and are married happily with a child.


libraness 2 years ago

I find a libra +libra relationship rewarding.I think it is just like any other zodiac sign.It is about knowing your mate and how you handle compromising with your significant other. I find that when people are in a relationship they act as if they are in a relationship with themselves you cant expect your partner to know what you want you have to be able to communicate effectively male or female and sometimes that may require you changing your approach from the way you normally are use to doing things.My libra male requires attention but so do I.He likes to feel like a king and I like to feel like a queen. It doesn't mean that I am a submissive women to everything he do but I definitely can relate most women like to be pamper for their work they put in

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