How to Date a Libra Man if you are a Libra Woman
Picture this: You are a love goddess, and he is a love god. Generally, you are a physically attractive couple and both of you appreciate the finest music, food, art, and conversation that life has to offer. On the surface, this appears to be a match made in zodiac heaven; however, with the numerous similarities in this astrological pairing you may find the two of you are too much alike. With that said, the Libra man and Libra woman are the lovers of the zodiac and could make a beautiful romance as long as you are willing to acknowledge your similarities and compromise on a few things.
- Recognize & Acknowledge Similarities. It is best to acknowledge your similarities up front in the relationship – especially if there are any negative similarities. This will alleviate your mate being caught off guard later on in the relationship when he finds out you are lacking qualities that he wants in a woman. Both partners will be sophisticated, have a refined taste, have a love of the finer things in life, and enjoy debating. Libra men may come across as needing more time and attention than the average guy. As a Libra woman, you may have a similar quality. It is best to acknowledge this and figure out ways to work around it. Solicit help from other friends and family, rather than asking your male Libra. Generally, attempt to keep your requests to your Libra mate to a minimum. Otherwise, your partner may start to feel inadequate if you are always asking for things that he is not accustomed to providing.
- Be a Partner. The Libra male is always looking for a partner. As the Libra woman you should strive to view your relationship as a two-person team. All decisions made for your home should be approached as you would a team and as you would your team mates. The Libra male can be very indecisive, and he will feel more secure and confident in his decisions if he has a teammate to help him make decisions. In a sense, the Libra male would almost prefer that his mate take the lead role in the relationship. From the very start of the relationship, if he is truly interested he ask you to accompany him to places and you would want him to do the same for you.
- Division of Labor. The Libra male likes to pamper his significant other by cooking for her, keeping the home clean, and waiting on her, but he will eventually expect you to return the favor.With the Libra male it’s all about balance – when he does something nice for you he doesn’t expect you to return the exact same favor; however, if he asks for your help or asks you to go out of your way for him, he will expect you to readily assist him as he has assisted you. Now, be aware that your turn to return the favor could last for a while. After he goes out of his way for you, it could take days, weeks, or months before he feels the two of you are back in balance. During this time period, the Libra male may appear to be lazy and irresponsible, but rest assured knowing that he can’t remain off balance for too long, and the scale will eventually tip back in your direction and give you a chance to relax. As a Libra woman this period of imbalance will affect you just as much as it affects him, but if this is the man you desire, give him some time to even out the scale again.
- Finances. Dealing with lavish spending will be an issue for the Libra male and Libra female couple. Libras are known for freely spending their hard earned money equally on others and themselves. The Libra male tends to be very generous with his money, spending freely on his mate, his family, and his close friends. If your Libra man has not learned the fine art of money management, you will have to take the reins. As a Libra woman, your financial decisions will be equally challenging. If your Libra mate is a lavish spender, you will have to be the one to curb your spending, and try to rein in his spending habits. You can make this suggestion to your mate, but only in a respectful and helpful way, otherwise the discussion could lead to conflict. You may have to be the one to compromise until he catches on. First off you will want him to trust your abilities to manage money, meaning you may have to take a course or two in financial management yourself. Once his trust is established, you can start to give him some tips and advice on money management that will benefit both of you.