How to Love Your Lover

Love Your Lover The Right Way!

Love is a wonderful feeling; it floats through you like wine. A smooth cocktail that is warm and melting all at the same time. Being in love is beautiful and delicious but how to love your lover is very different from being in love. Being in love is a feeling of bliss and your heart is pumping blood so fast through your body that you can’t keep your body still, let alone your brain. Being in love makes your blood boil, your brain gushy and your legs wobbly. However, that is a completely different feeling then knowing how to love your lover; the feelings are two very diverse emotions.

Know Your Lover

So if you have a lover and want to make sure you keep you lover, here are the steps to know how to love your lover;

Compliments; sincere, deep felt compliments are perfect to give to any lover. Own your lover through your heartfelt compliments that pour out of your body for theirs.

Touching; rub them, light rubbing underneath the arm, top of thigh, erotic rubbing that sends thrills through their bodies is perfect to love your lover.

Kissing; know how to kiss, very important. Because kissing is the most sensual emotion to trigger the liquids of lust. Kiss softly behind the earlobe, kiss slowly around the mouth, kiss often to make them want you.

Listen; listen to what they are saying, hear what they want. They will tell you what the need and want if you just listen to them.

Learn; learn their behaviors, if they like a certain position, enhance that position. If they are not morning people, leave and give your lover that time to wake up. Simple learning of your lover’s behaviors will do wonders for your time together.

Give; give them what they want. Yes, after you listened to them, give them what they want, a foot massage, a back rub, a large bubble bath, with a full body wash. Give and then give more.

Sexy; be sexy, make it real but be sexy. Wear the sexy clothing, walk the sexy walk. Talk the sexy talk. Whisper and purr at your lover, make them want you.

Games; yes, play games, act like other people, dress like another person, play a game, the cat and mouse game, it’s fun and erotic, make your lover want you like no other.

Be fresh; try new positions, be open to new ideas, energizing the sex is better when you are open minded and willing to try new things, so be fresh.

Confident; be confident, you want your lover to want you, then always be in control and be confident, you may not feel confident but if you portray that emotion because it will come across. Being confident is sexy.

Talk; talk to your lover, understand their interests, what motivates them and then talk about those interests, hobbies or thoughts. Chat with your lover, communication is critical to appreciate your lover.

Play; play with your lover, send a racy picture of yourself, send a dirty flirty text to your lover, play the flirty, sweet, nasty lover that you can be. Keep it real but keep it entertaining, so play.

Love your lover from the inside to the outside. Understand their needs and know their wants. These steps above will help you to love your lover like no other. Enhance your skills, improve your appearance and most of all, be open minded to change. Be the sexy kitten that has the bad boy side; keep it fresh, different and playful. Revitalizing your relationship is a good thing and it needs to be done to keep it original. Don’t worry about what your friends say or family; do want feels right to you. It’s your lover, treat them the best you can, learn to give in many different ways. Once you start learning to love your lover, you will be the best lover. So keep it airy, fresh, sexy, and naughty however, only way to do that is to know your lover so you can love your lover.

More by this Author


Comments 37 comments

I*n*v*i*c*t*u*s profile image

I*n*v*i*c*t*u*s 6 years ago

Beautiful hub, Ladybird! Nicely laid out and wonderful advice! :)


tantrum profile image

tantrum 6 years ago from Tropic of Capricorn

Good hub ! I enjoyed reading it ! A lot ! Thanks ! :)


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

i*n*v*i*c*t*u*s, Thank you so very much, I love this compliment! Thanks again.

tantrum, awwww...I love hearing that..Thank you!!!


gramsmith profile image

gramsmith 6 years ago

Very interesting and entertaining information. Thanks......


bingskee profile image

bingskee 6 years ago from Quezon City, Philippines

oh, a lot will be needing this heh!


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

gramsmith, thank you and I hope it is entertaining.

bingskee, thank you so much and yes, hope people will be needing this :)


maggiebeans profile image

maggiebeans 6 years ago from London and Lyon

Great advice, the problem with excellent advice like this is that it is the people who would benefit the most who may never find this advice because they are not looking to improve and that is fundamentally their very problem.


prettydarkhorse profile image

prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

nice advice, touching and listening as I am a very touching person too, thanks for reading my hub, BTW, have a good day, Maita


Coolmon2009 profile image

Coolmon2009 6 years ago from Texas, USA

Good information and few things i haven't thought about before thanks Ladybird33


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

maggiebeans, thank you so veyr much, I hope people will benefit from it. Thanks again.

Prettydarkhorse, Hope you have a good day too, also, I am touching too :) Thanks for reading and commenting.

Coolmon, I hope this helps, thanks for commenting.


James McV Sailor profile image

James McV Sailor 6 years ago from Northern California

You left the best to last..... PLAY is always important. Thanks. JM


sexeducationnow profile image

sexeducationnow 6 years ago

Very Very sexy...amazingly written Ladybird !!


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

James, Thank you, yes, Play is the best part, no doubt. Thanks for stopping by and commenting, much appreciated.

sexeducationnow, love your name and thank you for the AWESOME compliment, made my day, thank you, thank you!


AuthorLMS 6 years ago

Great hub, thanks for the tips! It is very informative, thanks for sharing. :-)


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

AuthorLMS, hope the tips help. Thanks for reading and commenting.


Harvey Stelman profile image

Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

I could add many things, but Hub wouldn't allow it.


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Harvey, I bet you do :) Thanks for reading and commenting.


Harvey Stelman profile image

Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Still NO pic of you.


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Harvey, well, what can I say...it's me and my family


zzron profile image

zzron 6 years ago from Houston, TX.


Cheeky Girl profile image

Cheeky Girl 6 years ago from UK and Nerujenia

Aw...love is special and so rewarding with the right person in your life. A nice radox bath together is sooooo soothing and relaxing. Yes, this hub has warmed up my day here! Thankyou Ladybird33!!!


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

zzron, Thanks for reading and commenting, hope you are well.

Cheeky Girl, love is special and can be very rewarding :) Hmmm, bath, I will need to add that one. Thanks for sharing!


Harvey Stelman profile image

Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

Lady,

The latest pic isn't your family. Hate to say it, I am a leg man. You've also been very quiet lately, are you ok?


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Hi Harvey, it was my family (just for the record) and I have been busy that's all. How are you? Thanks for stopping by and checking on me, I do appreciate it.


Gigi2 profile image

Gigi2 6 years ago from UK

Great hub, it really enforces what I believe. Sex is great, but love makes the world go round. Great to 'meet' you.


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Gigi2, You are so right (and me) love does make the world go around. Thanks for stopping by!


serialkisser4u profile image

serialkisser4u 6 years ago

Ladybird...the name itself has a charm. your hubs r really practical & stuffed....nice write up buddy...


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

serialkisser4u, thank you for stopping by and reading, glad you liked it.


De Greek profile image

De Greek 6 years ago from UK

You are giving advice as a woman to women, believing that men think like women. You might want to reconsider some of your advice by looking at it from the man’s point of view :-)


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 6 years ago from Georgia USA Author

De Greek, you are so right! I am working on that idea, thanks for sharing your thoughts! Hope you are well.


Neverletitgo profile image

Neverletitgo 6 years ago from Minneapolis, MN

Oh lady! you are very experienced lady. I like your hubs and this is something everybody needs to know inorder to keep your lover closer.

Thanks for your great information.


Rudypal 6 years ago

Nice one.. keep writing.. :)


The Associate profile image

The Associate 6 years ago from Southeastern USA

Very, very sensual and stimulating.


RichardCMckeown profile image

RichardCMckeown 5 years ago

Interesting and very useful hub.I have a naughty smile in my face.


jeremejazz profile image

jeremejazz 5 years ago from Philippines

very nice hub .. I like your suggestions.. very playful, romantic, and fun :D


Ladybird33 profile image

Ladybird33 3 years ago from Georgia USA Author

Thank you all, I love this hub and really enjoyed writing it!! I appreciate you reading and commenting!


DREAM ON profile image

DREAM ON 2 years ago

The first hub I read today. You gave me lot of ideas to start in the morning and practice all day. Communication is so important. To see your lovers reaction and use your imagination to make them want you more.

    Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account.

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No HTML is allowed in comments, but URLs will be hyperlinked. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites.


    Hub Challenge

    Click to Rate This Article
    working