How to stop your husband from looking at other women: Dealing with your guy's staring and ogling
How to stop your husband from looking at other women? While some believe that staring at other women is in a man's genes, it is not impossible to make your guy stop ogling at other women at least when you are around him. For wives and girlfriends alike, here are ways on how to stop a husband or boyfriend from glancing at other women all the time.
1) Don't pass off staring lightly: Reprimand your guy for looking at other women
If you are really serious about stopping your man from staring at other women, don't take it lightly. Pull him up whenever you see him looking at other girls and refuse to take any excuse or pass it off as something amusing.
Don't laugh the matter off and don't accept silly reasons which often include that such behavior is in a guy's genes. Stand your ground and reprimand your guy for checking other women out in front of you.
2) Maintain constant eye contact when you are out on dates
Maintain continuous and constant eye contact with your boyfriend or husband whenever you both go out for dinner or on a fun date. Use your eyes to grab his complete attention, just like how you did when you first started dating.
There is a lot that can be communicated by your eyes. Use the power of expression to pull him like a magnet. This will also make him aware that your eyes are on him all the time.
3) Make a move: Give him reasons to ogle at you
Make a naughty move or pose sexily when you know that your husband is looking at you. It will grab his attention instantly. Don't make it apparent that it was deliberate.
Little things like these can leave a lasting impression. Apart from giving your husband reasons to stare at you at that very moment, this trick will also make him look at you from time to time in anticipation of catching you in yet another attractive pose.
4) Refuse to go out with him
Put your foot down and refuse to go out with your guy if his habit of looking at other women does not go away. Let it be an excuse to miss parties, social functions and family gatherings with him.
This will show your guy that you are unwilling to budge until he keeps his side of the deal.
5) Communicate: Express insecurity, rejection and depression
Have a candid conversation with your boyfriend or husband about how insecure and rejected you feel when he looks at other women.
Pour out your emotions in front of him and explain to him that it breaks your heart to see his eyes dart at other women. An emotionally charged plea should get into your guy's psyche. He is likely to consciously make an effort to stop staring at other women.
6) Walk out on him if he looks at other women again
If you have already told him many times before, walk out on your boyfriend or husband when he looks at other women again. This should send a very clear and strong message to him that his ogling will not be tolerated.
Refuse to accept an apology and don't budge regardless of how many times he says 'I am sorry'. Simply grab the car keys or hop on to the bus to leave the spot immediately. Any explanations from his side can be given after he reaches home.
7) Flirt with your guy as if you were teenagers falling in love
Give your husband a chance to fall in love with you all over again by flirting with him, just like how you did when the both of you met for the first time. Stroke your guy's ego by telling him how handsome he looks and whisper naughty things in his ear.
Apart from grabbing your guy's complete attention, flirting is also very healthy for your relationship. It will rejuvenate your married life and make you both feel lucky to have each other.
8) Increase the sexual quotient in your relationship
Your boyfriend or husband may be looking at other women because the sexual quotient of your relationship is non-existent. It is easy for partners to take their sex lives for granted especially after they have been with each other for a couple of years.
Spare some time out from your busy routines when you and your partner can be with each other without any distractions. Increase the physical intimacy in your marriage to get him to focus all his attention only towards you.
9) Let him know how it feels when other men stare at you
You can counter the feeling you get when he stares at other women by showing him how it feels when other men stare at you. Watch him boil from inside as guys get distracted when you walk by.
Use this trick with caution because doing it repeatedly can really annoy your boyfriend or husband if he knows that you are deliberately dressing provocatively to irk him. Don't test his limits with this.
10) Give him a sexy visual image of you to remember
Give your husband a sexy visual image of yourself to remember. Wear your sexiest lingerie or bring out the short black dress. Parade your beautiful self in front of him and allow him to soak in your beauty.
This exercise will leave your husband starry eyed and he will have no reason to look at other women for a long time. Keep giving him these doses of sexiness every now and then.
11) Refuse sex and intimacy until he stops his habit of looking at other women
Refusing to get intimate and having sex with your boyfriend or husband may be used as a last resort if his habit of looking at other women does not stop. Tell him that you don't feel like getting intimate because you are in a bad mood triggered by his ogling habits.
Refusing physical intimacy is tricky. This has the potential to dent a relationship. You may want to re-think before you decide to use this as a bait to make your guy stop looking at other girls.
12) Look at other men in front of him: Show him how it feels
Look at other men in front of your husband or boyfriend to show him how you feel when he looks at other women. He is likely to have a sudden realization of how disgusting his habit is and how it affects a partner on a deep emotional level.
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