The best ways to ask a girl to a school dance

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It's an art

High school is hard enough without the potential for rejection that comes with asking a girl to a school dance, unless if you're dating her (although even that may not be a safeguard).

You can't guarantee that the girl is going to say "yes." There are too many factors... she may have a previous engagement, she may be going with someone else, or she may just plain not like you.

For that reason, you can go ahead and get creative in asking a girl. What do you have to lose? There are other girls too, after all. So you might as well have a little fun in the process.

Below are some ideas that I've come up with and that I've heard were used in the past that I am offering based on my preferences as a girl asked to dances and also on how they have fared in practice... and some I found on the net :)

Just make sure no matter what the answer is that you don't get discouraged. I'd suggest if you're really crazy about this girl... don't use these!

1st Method: The Puzzle

This involves artistic skill and time.

1. Make a really pretty invitation/plea.

Get construction paper, make shapes, use glue and glitter and other pretty things (but don't make it too girly or anything, unless that's what you think she'd like). Make it look really nice and use nice messages; use her name and be generic otherwise. Don't forget to sign your name too or she won't know who you are!

2. Cut it up into puzzle pieces.

End up with as many pieces as you have locations for them. Which brings me to step 3.

3. Put each in an envelope with her name on it and with a clue inside each.

Make the first envelope easy for her to find, like have someone else give it to her. In that first one put a clue as to where the next one will be, and so on.

4. Hide each piece.

Somewhere she goes often and/or somewhere new. Eventually she'll end up with all the pieces, hopefully, and you'll get your answer in no time.

PS: You can be even sweeter and put yourself in the location of the last piece and hand it to her.

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2nd Method: The String

This one is adorable and fun and I would so fall for it.

1. Get a long long string.

Easy enough.

2. Write messages.

Write things like, "Just stringing you along" and "You're almost there" to tape along the string. Or you can write out a long message and the question of asking her to the dance and cut out each word to tape along the string.

3. Set up the string.

Start at her house or her work or wherever and make it lead to where you think she needs to be next, such as from home to work or to school. Or you can make it lead to you and you can ask her yourself.

3rd Method: The Shirt

I really like this one! It's so creative! And I didn't come up with it :(

1. Get the shirt and write on the front.

Write in permanent marker, "Will you go to the dance with me?" Also write, "Wash this shirt and look on the back to find out who asked you to the dance."

2. Now write on the back.

Write a bunch of random girls' names (try not those of anyone you think might like your girl or whom your girl might like...) in washable marker.

Then put your name in permanent marker!

She'll wash the shirt and your name will be the only one left :)

Other ways to ask a girl to a dance

  • Dress up in a gorilla suit, get a bunch of bananas, and go find her somewhere public and say, "I'll go bananas if you don't go to the dance with me!"
  • Get a bunch of keys and put them in a bucket. Take one and colour it and stick it in the middle. Put a note with it saying "Find the key to my heart" and with your address on it. She'll go to your house and you can ask her there.
  • Be cheesy and take chocolate Kisses and make a trail from one place to another where she usually goes. At the beginning leave a note telling her to follow it, and at the end leave a note saying, "Now that I've kissed the ground you walk on, will you go to the dance with me?"
  • Have someone trace the outline of your body on the sidewalk in front of her house and leave a note looking like a police report that somehow asks if she will go to the dance with you.
  • Get a fishbowl with a bunch of fish in it; the little guppie fish are good because you can get a lot of those without them eating each other. Then leave it at her house or her desk or something with a note saying, "Of all the fish in the sea, I choose you to go to the dance with me."

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Comments 238 comments

shea 9 years ago

wow. these are good. i used the string one.

its cute. and it worked.

he liked walking around his house at 630 in the morning.

haha

thanks for the idea.


fgfdgdfg 9 years ago

cool ideas


JONNY PRICUMPRESSER 9 years ago

THIS SITE WAS GREAT AND IT HELPED ME GET A DATE TO PROM AND NOW THAT GIRL IS MARRIED TO ME THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THE HELP, ASKING A GIRL IS HARD AND YOU MADE IT EASY, THANK YOU SO MUCH AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Imperator 9 years ago

This was awesome. I really like the shirt one. Very creative and was a hoot to watch this person go through.


abby normal! 9 years ago

think im going to do the shirt one but with a pair of nasty underwear........ for romantic purposes. and say something like...... i'd mess my pants if you would go to the dance with me!


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Warren Hayashi 9 years ago from Prince George, British Columbia, Canada

Why is it necessary for men to bear their soul, make fools of themselves. So much respect for other peoples feelings, right compared to women men probably don't have any feelings. Why can't people just admit that women need men as much as men need women, too many double standards involved


Miguel Gomez 9 years ago

I love the puzzle one, she did that puzzle, came up to me and kissed me in the lips. At least now I have a date to homecoming.


John 9 years ago

I just used the string idea. I bought a huge roll of yark and made a big maze around her whole neighrborhood. Worked like a charm. THanks


Klayton 9 years ago

I used the puzzle one and it worked like a charm. i am so happy that now i have a date!


luke 9 years ago

the puzzle helped me get a date to the fifth grade dance


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darenet 9 years ago

why just not ask her in a direct manner?


Mae girl 9 years ago

What's the fun in that?!


Amy 9 years ago

I would've never thought of the shirt one! Good thinking


Shamy 9 years ago

OMG!!! this worked. i used the string one and it was just like fishing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Cwgrl 8 years ago

don't be lame. High school is time for creative date asking and answering! Girls like the creativeness. its fun. ps the shirt idea is sweet! I might use it to answer my date though, rather than ask...


clubguineapig76 8 years ago

Thse are fab girl!!!!!


Andrew 8 years ago

i was just wondering if anyone has any other ideas to ask girls to dances...


Whitney 8 years ago

My sister got asked in a really cute way. Her boyfriend some how managed to freeze the top or a rose in a heart shaped block of ice and left it on our doorstep with a note. I don't really remember what the note said though...sorry! but it was so cute!


matt 8 years ago

put prom? in a fortune cookie and go to a chinese place and ask the waiter to bring it and when she opens it ur right next to her


Spencer 8 years ago

My friends brother Josh had a great way to ask: during one of the periods, i think later in the day, he had another student that was working in the office deliver a big chunk of ice on a tarp to the girl he wanted to go to prom with. He gave her a chisel and gave the instructions to get the note out from the middle. So she broke the block of ice little by little and the note said "will you go to prom with me" and when she got to the center, Josh walked in and asked for a reply.


joe 8 years ago

haha the shirt one is so creative


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sunstreeks 8 years ago from Western Washington

Aww. These are such good ideas. I always got the lame, "Hey were going together right? cause so and so wants to know if were going to dinner with them."

Great hub!


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drazhardaud 8 years ago

mmmm...i'm a shy guy....


Biggs 8 years ago

So this one worked for me last year.... i went to her house when she was away for a few hours. I brought the biggest rock my friend and i could possibly carry and painted "no" on it and placed it on her driveway where she could see it. I then got a small hand sized rock and painted "yes" on it and also left that next to the huge rock in her drive way. Along with the two rocks i left a large bouquet of flowers with a note reading "you+me=Prom? bring me your answer" luckly later that day she brought me the smaller "yes" rock and life was good!    BIGGS


bored 8 years ago

these are pretty good. really creative.


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Angela Harris 8 years ago from Around the USA

These are so much fun. And they would totally work!

In answer to a question you asked me, yes I do have a hub about Oscar Trivia here-

http://hubpages.com/entertainment/Oscar-Trivia


T-Rex 8 years ago

These are some pretty Bad A Ideas. I had know idea wat i was gonna do until i saw this site


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funnebone 8 years ago from Philadelphia Pa

I used the string one.....now I am in jail......for attempting to lure a minor and for blocking traffic...send me bail money please


Edgar  8 years ago

ah... these are all cool ideas, but im looking for something a little bit more crazy!!!! THANKS


Dallin 8 years ago

Great site! Thanks!


Ryan 8 years ago

On the shirt, you would right various guys names on the back(not girls right)? Sounds like a great idea =)


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esocial 8 years ago from California

lol! Those are funny. Sorry to say though, if I guy I didn't know handed me a ball of string or a puzzle, I'd think it was really creepy!


Indiacentre 8 years ago

great tips here for boys to ask girls out.


sharuk 8 years ago

Posted this link in www.surfurls.com.Its a social bookmarking site.


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abowie 8 years ago from San Francisco

I really like the puzzle idea. If you smile nice along with it you've got yourself a dance :)


Dalton 8 years ago

ok so you have to have a little cooking skills but it isn't that hard. go to the store and get five 8 1/2 in to 9 in round cake pans.(they all have to be the same size). make all 5 cakes. On the top of the first cake write ";(with me)"; then put another cake on top of that and write "the name of the dance or event"; then put another cake layer on top of that and write ";go to"; put another layer on that and put ";will you"; and then put the top layer on that so he/she cant see it. you are making a 5 layer cake. write on the very top of that cake ";sometimes, you go to take life, 1 layer at a time, love (your name)";.........the last part you might need some help if you cant get into her house. give the cake to a family member or friend that can bring it over to her house. put the cake in a grocery bag and tell your delever that you just got this really cute cake from the store.

im going to try this. so wish me luck. :)

send me an email if it works

Snappers21df@hotmail.com


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glassvisage 8 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks everyone, and for the idea, Dalton! It almost sounds like Napoleon Dynamite :)


Dalton 8 years ago

lol


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eugie17 8 years ago from online (everywhere)

Nice hub glassvisage

I liked the T-shirt idea


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Janet21 8 years ago from New York

My daughter was asked to her first dance last year. It was a 5th grade dance. It was a boy she had been friends with since kindergarten. He didn't do anything as creative as what is on this hub and my daughter told him she would have to think about it! Maybe next time he should hand her a ball of string! :)


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Christoph Reilly 8 years ago from St. Louis

There's a lot of cute ideas here. I like the T shirt one best. Just a note: Art supply stores sell blank jigsaw puzzles just like the real thing, only blank.

Thanks for a great hub!


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glassvisage 8 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks everyone! I love hearing about your stories :)


anonymous 8 years ago

im 14 and i asked her she laughed at then I cried good advice jerks.


crushed 8 years ago

ya.... don't try the string one. i ended up in jail with a 2x4 up my ass... or the artist formerly known as my ass


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Troy Centazzo 8 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

Those were the days...


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Kika Rose 8 years ago from Minnesota

Aww... If my boyfriend had done something like these for me, I would've melted. Then again, if my EX boyfriend did any of these, I probably would've shuddered. He was such a creep... But that's what ex's are for, right? :-P


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Shaan.S 8 years ago from Doha

u shud have told me this before.... missed them... :)


RAE 8 years ago

oh, come on guys!! use your imaginations!!

Go buy some glow-in-the-dark stars. Write you question out on his bedroom ceiling so when he turns off the lights to go to bed – it’ll be written in the stars. (if you want a romantic twist - "you're the light of my life, will you go with me to..." "You're my star, will you go with me to...")

Sprinkle water over a fourtune cookie and put it in the microwave for 15-20 seconds. open the cookie up, and add your own fortune. "sadies w/rae?" something like that. (also a fun way to answer. get a bag of fortune cookies and put papers in all of them saying things like "the answer isn't here" "keep looking" "don't give up!" "it's the next one" "if you stare long enough, maybe an answer will materialize!")

Find lots of random things like little rocks, pieces of candy, rope, flowers, etc. and position them to look like letters. make each letter from something different. take a picture of each letter individually. put the pictures together on a posterboard to spell out yout inquiry.

Go get a stuffed frog, put a crown on it, and have him holding a card "I've looked at every frog in the lake - and you're the prince that i want to take!! Will you go to _______ dance with me?"

Leave a trail of hershey's kisses leading from their front door to the bathroom. hang a boquet of roses from the shower head, with a sign "Now that i've kissed the ground you walk on, and showered you with roses, will you go to ____ dance with me?"

Leave them clues in various places, one leading to the next, at each place have an item for them to pick up along with their next clue. (items could be a light bulb with a note "I've got a bright idea!" a pack of red pens "so mark [day of date] as a red-letter day." toy army men "don't fight it" a balloon "we'll have a blast!) (make sure to leave a clue leading to your next destination too though.) lead them to a park or somewhere with a large tree or pole. get a friend to tie you up to the pole/tree and pin a sign on you that says "i've been tied up, as you can see, go to (dance), to set me free." or "my hopes for (dance) are tied up for you." or "Tie me up, Set me free, Either will work if you come to (dance) with me!" (the last one you may want to exersize caution with...)

anyway... i'm done writing the first things i think of, i hope some of these work for you. if you have any luck - email me!!

burkettschick@hotmail.com


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glassvisage 8 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks everyone for your comments, and to you Rae for all of your ideas! Let us know if they work!


TQ 8 years ago

Im going to ask a special girl to my homecoming dance. She plans on attending a volleyball game at school. i plan on having 3 of my friends deliver flowers to her at three different times. The first flowers delivered will have a note attached saying "will you....". The second set of flowers will say "be my...". The third set of flowers will say "homecoming date?" Then I will appear with a huge bouquet of flowers wearing a shirt that says "heart tyler" (WISH ME LUCK!)


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glassvisage 8 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks for adding that, TQ... three sets of flowers! :D


Ericn 8 years ago

Very nice tips. Thanks!!!


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Starscream14 8 years ago

Thanks very much for information. I like the string idea :)


Mari~Ru 8 years ago

Me and my friend are total music junkies, but he always likes going through the pictures on my mp3 player... So I had an awesome idea one day and decided I'd make picture on my computer and put them on there. They were stick figures, each holding a sign with one word on it... it went... Jack... will... you ... go... to ... harvest.... dance.... w/ me? and then the classic but cheesy Check... yes... or.... no... The next day he put a picture on my mp3 that said YES!!


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glassvisage 8 years ago from Northern California Author

That's a great story, Mari!


uncapitalized 8 years ago

theres lots of good ideas. simple ones are good to. play hangman with them and just put formal or prom.


Saurav 8 years ago

how nice of you sharing these nice effective thoughts which most of us forget.


christian 8 years ago

my school is having a fifth grade dance and im in 5th grade and clueless i already know who to ask that's what im doing 2morrow


cwboy 8 years ago

mmmm....i'm a shy guy


Alex 8 years ago

you guys are all soo rude...im a gay guy and i find this very intimidating to ask another boy to a dance. please keep it down on the comments. my boyfriend and i would appreciate that!!!(:


Kale 7 years ago

alex shut-up your gay... -_-'


jaimee 7 years ago

i want to ask this guy to prom. we're best friends.. but theres always been this weird tension between us in a good way. like we're 'secretly in love..' or something weird.

we're really close and i want to do something cute for him and make it hard for him to say no. lmfao

helpppp!


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks to everyone for your comments. Jaime, it's hard for me to try to tell you the best way to ask because I feel like it should be something personal for the both of you, like an inside thing. I have these ideas on this Hub, but I think what you need is to think of what you both have in common and what he would most positively respond to.


loverboi2011 7 years ago

thnx dude, i used the shirt one, i used my lockpickin tools and got it in her locker, it worked!!


7 years ago

It's really fun to put paper inside blue and yellow balloons and then stick in your question in all of the yellow ones. have a poster next to it that says something along the lines of returning the blue balloon to you if the answer is yes and a yellow one for no.... make sure that all of the yellow ones are gone. : )

just an idea.


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Thank you! s, that's a great idea!


Simsys 7 years ago

ha ha... nice ideas... might be useful in near future... :)


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livelovecoffee 7 years ago from Georgia

Great Hub. Wish I had these tips back when I was in school


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Matts88 7 years ago from Canada

Damn wish I would have read this before I was out of high school could have been handy. I don't go to too many dances these days, its not like you ask a friend that's a girl if she'll go to a club with you and dance, not the same I'm afraid.


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roastedpinebark 7 years ago from Iowa

Wow, there was some great ideas on here!!! My favorite is definitely the string one, I'm gonna use it some time. These tricks can also be used in other situations then dances, however, as ways to spice up a relationship or to show a sweetheart you care. Thanks for the awesome hub glassvisage!


cantgonowwhat 7 years ago

I was asked to morp but I just cant go. Not a scheduling conflict. I just am too nervous to date. How can I creatively decline so I don't hurt her felings?


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Thank you, everyone! cantgonowwhat, I wouldn't get too creative unless if you think she would like it, because it might seem like you're making light of something she would take seriously. Just be honest because being nervous is a pretty legit excuse... though you should give it a try!


Aaron 7 years ago

I used the shirt idea to ask a girl out once, she loved it, was like 2 years ago and she's gone out with a few ppl since then and she still keeps the shirt. =) But all mine said was "(girls name) will you go out with me" and i had it under a collared shirt and when i saw her i said. "hey i gotta ask you a serious question" and i stood up and lifted up the shirt and said will you go out with me. =]


orionsky60403 7 years ago

Just be a man and tell her who she's going with. Don't ask. It makes you look weak. Be assertive.


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RYPcontent 7 years ago from Chatham, IL

Some nice ideas, there! :-) The comments are the best part, though. LOL.


Joe 7 years ago

LOL, orionsky60403, good luck with that strategy.

anywho, all cool ideas


iMindMap 7 years ago

Great tips.


Logan  7 years ago

im using that rock one that is such a b.a. idea she will love it :)


princess 7 years ago

omg totally desperate.

i mean if a girl wants you u will totally knw

y bother making an ass of ur self


peter 7 years ago

these are really great tips. next time i ask a girl to a dance should be better. i tried doing a funny note on her car but i got nervous and pooped my pants when she asked me about it.


Joe  7 years ago

Fill up a bunch of water baloons and put various pieces of you asking (permanent marker on an old cloth, or something else water proof) inside each of them. This way she has to pop a bunch of water balloons to find out who's asking.

Put your answer in a big thing of butter and leave it at her doorstep.

Get a bowl of water with a small boat at the top, with a message saying something like, "it would float my boat if you'd go to _______ with me.


Ryan 7 years ago

yall cant get laid without this shit that's fuckin sad pussys


Nicole 7 years ago

I got asked to prom one year where my guy put up big bright unmistakable signs that led from my house to the school. Each sign had a different word saying "Nicole".... "Will"... "you"...." go".... "to".. and then the sign with "prom" was right outside the entrance of the school. The sign with "with" was right outside the parking lot and he was sitting in a lawn chair inmy parking spot with the last sign that said "me?" on it. It was the cutest thing ever and a crowd of people were huddled around my parking spot to watch!


Mitch 7 years ago

I asked my gf to prom the other day and this is how i did it:

got a bunch of fake poop (ones you get at the stores for pranks) and threw them at her when she came out of her house. She freaked out but then she realized. than on my shirt it read: "It would be the shit if you went to prom with me."

it worked well.


mike 7 years ago

im in theater and im planning on having the light technician to go to blackout put a spotlight on me and go over to girl and give her the invite. should work


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

lol


Michaeljb 7 years ago

Some ideas that i have had are too...

1. is to get a rose a violet and a packet of sugar (preferably from your favorite restaurant/her favorite) then have a note saying roses are red violets are blue sugar is sweet and so are you(classic saying). then skip a couple lines on the paper and say "will you be mine this homecoming" ** if you cannot find a violet get a blue sheet of paper and say roses are red this paper is blue sugar is sweet...."

2. This is another for homecoming preferably. You first ask from one of their parents to get a spare key of theirs. Also you need streamers (the schools colors) and car markers and a blank cd with "check yes juliet on it" And then get to their car before school ends (use an excuse like a doctor or something to the office). So then on the front of their car you make three check boxes. one saying yes! another saying no and another maybe. Leave a marker so they can get it and respond.(be within range to see their answer. when they answer send a text or some type of communication saying you were glad about there answer) Then you put the streamers all over the car and inside. Then lastly you stick the cd in their car and make it so that it is blasting when they start the car up.

This could be for any dance i think.(but you have to be in the almost dating stages) you first have to talk to her about it and be like lets hang out this... and i'll ask you then. be very open about it. but then be like.... if i don't ask you then i changed my mind. so you hang out with her that day. don't bring it up at all the whole time. beforehand though you have to put a note on her window(assuming she is on the top floor. she has to be for this to work) it should say something like "will you go to (insert dance here) with me?" then let her go home and have it so her mom distracts her before going to her room. then while she is talking to her mom send her a text saying "check your window" in curiosity she should head straight up to her room and look at your note. (also on the note add something about now look outside.) then be standing outside looking at her window waiting with a boquet of roses.

hope these help and goodluck!


suckassss 7 years ago

i used the shirt idea she loved it... that was ten years ago and now were getting married im soo excited....


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itsmollyy08 7 years ago from in my mind.

the shirt idea? haha! oh goodness me. that's so sad. boys please do not do the shirt!


thissiteisawesome 7 years ago

i am doing the shirt idea tomorrow hopefully it works


Joe shmo 7 years ago

Buy her a cheese pizza and write on it " i know this is cheesy but will you go to prom with me? From your name "

then give it to her at lunch during school.


Idkyet 7 years ago

So I'm going to do the classic side walk chalk and idk if I should wait outside for her answer or wait at school for her ideas?


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks everyone! Ok, Joe, I love the cheese pizza one :D


Bmoney 7 years ago

The shirt idea is pretty legit...i think though you should put in the front " will you go to the dance" or watever.. then on the back write you own poem or something in washable marker.. put the letters of your name in permanent marker throughout the poem but have them a little separate from each other...and at the end of the poem say wash this shirt and put the letters together :D totally getting some after that..


Jessica 7 years ago

I got asked to homecoming in a really cute way.

around the outside of my house were huge balloons taped everywhere and a big poster that said "pop the question!" i popped all the balloons and inside were a bunch of ping pong balls with letters on them. i had to put together all the letters to figure out what it said. "bounce with me to homecoming" and then the person asking me's name was in a different color! it was fun and made me smile. im still searching for how to say yes.


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Thank you Bmoney and Jessica! I love those ways!


Jessica 7 years ago

so i figured out a cute way to say yes.

ya know how at carnivals theres that balloon popping game where you throw darts at the balloons to pop them? well i made one of those and wrote a poem telling him instructions. then he popped all the balloons and inside the balloons were little notes like try again and stuff like that. when he realized the answer wasn't in the balloons he looked at me and i handed him a balloon that said love jessica on it and he popped it and it said yes inside :)


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Great idea, Jessica! Hopefully you get the answer you want or the darts can backfire, lol


Da Beast 7 years ago

Mitch, that poop idea was the funniest thing i've ever heard and i love it. i wanna do that so bad!!!


megan 7 years ago

i accually asked my boyfriend to my homecomming since he cant go, because he already graduated so while he was at work me and my best friend decorated his car in bows and streamers and ballons and glitter and window paint said "HOMECOMING?" on both of the sides then "LOVE MEGAN" on his back window. Then we waited for him to walk to his car and played his favorite kinda liike a love song really loud. Theres no way he could of said no hah


james 7 years ago

what im going to do is bake 8 pices of short bread and write in pink icing will you go to the prom with me i hope she says yes though


Meghan 7 years ago

I read all these comments and ideas and i think jessicas idea was by far the cutest of saying yes. i like all the balloon ones one of my friends got asked that way :)


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glassvisage 7 years ago from Northern California Author

Thank you guys and gals for your input and ideas! I love reading what you all come up with :)


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learnandmaster 7 years ago from CA, USA

You could go all romantic and leave a note with a flower in her locker or even intentionally leave a note where you know she's going to walk home. or you could just straight out walk up to her and ask her out. See more about dancing here http://www.learnmasterballroomdance.net/


Great Ideas 7 years ago

I love all of your ideas my favorite was the tshirt one and my favorite comment was the cheese pizza one, my boyfriend did that one but he put it on the ground and hid when i opened it he came out with a bouquet of cheese to look like flowers. it was so sweet and well... CHEESY! I loved it!!!


Candace 6 years ago

i think if i found string that said follow me i would be creeped out


cora laki 6 years ago

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PrincessPea 6 years ago

Aww

I think its soo cute when guys do these things!

I would soooo fall for one of these!


maddcow 6 years ago

i have a great idea!!

make a poster using candy bars in it.

for example...

"dear SUGAR DADDY,

please don't SNICKER, but it would be a LIFESAVER if you went to the dance with me.

love your, SWEETART"


Edubs 6 years ago

I understand that this one would only work in very rare conditions... but it happens to be the cutest one I have ever thought of!!

Before turnabout last year, my friend (now boyfriend) happened to be going on a school trip with myself that happened to require a plane as transportation. Before we got on the plane, I went around to several of my other friends who were also going and told them to tell everyone that they should listen to the flight attendant announcements. When they asked why, I said b/c they are for our safety and it is very important that we listen. When the flight attendant message finished saying we are now free to move about the airplane, she said "also a very special Message : _________, will you go to turnabout with _____?" worked like a charm


giovani41510@yahoo.com 6 years ago

Can anyone tell me how i could do the puzzle?


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Maddcow and Edubs, thanks so much for your ideas! I love the creativity! giovani, follow the instructions for the puzzle one above... I hope it works because I haven't tried it myself :)


who knows? 6 years ago

Coming straight from a girl, these are pretty good ideas, but I'm going to a valentines dance and my big, NO, HUGE crush is most likely not going and i need to talk him into it! i mean i don't wanna be pushy but love him alot! and i, well, I LOOK REALLY HOTT IN MY DRESS AND I WANT HIM TO DANCE WITH ME IN IT !!! any suggestions besides BACK OFF!? help please!!!


sonny 6 years ago

or write the question on the shirt in permant markers and fit all the letters in the question in a poem ending with a question mark of washable marker, besides the letters from the question of course. and then tell her to call u later when u give it to her


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Who knows?, that's quite a predicament! I tend to be on the pushy side...Have you asked? Pick him up while you're in your hot dress! :)

Sonny, thanks for the suggestion!


SK 6 years ago

The best one that i have ever seen was when we took a quiz in history over a book that we had to read and the guy had the teacher type out the 10th question as "Jordan will you go to prom with me? - Ben" and all of the answer choices were yes. :)


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

I love it!


travis 6 years ago

i bought a bunch of rose petals, went to her car while she was still in class and spelled out "prom?" on the hood of her car with them. couldn't have made her happier.

Also, girls love chocolate and strawberries, make a bunch of chocolate strawberries and spell out will you go to prom with me? and leave them on her kitchen table.


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

For realz! I know it seems cliché, but I love chocolate and strawberries! Thanks for your comment and idea!


thegirlimgonnaaskcallsmeanerd:)(a cute joking way) 6 years ago

My idea...?

put a rose on her doorstep with a note (and a flashlight if its dark so she can see)

saying something like "will you..." then next to it (maybe) have a note saying

"now go straight and take the first left you possibly can onto your lawn (keep the notes and roses)".

around the corner put another rose with another note

saying "go to..." and "keep going take another left" so now she is on the

side or back of the house. put another one so she goes to the left side of

the house (if you are facing the front of the house it is your left) the note

on the left side of the house should say "prom with...." then another note saying

"go to your front door" where you are then standing with a boquet of roses.

(a good thing to do would be put glow sticks around each flower so they are

clearly visible) in order to get the timing right when you have everything

ready ring the doorbell and dash across the street or somewhere where you can

watch everything happen when she disappears behind the house be ready at the

front door with the boquet of roses standing


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Awesome! Great idea! Definitely nothing wrong with being a nerd :)


satchmo 6 years ago

i had one last year that worked pretty well. she was in my french class and i got there early and put fowers and a note at her seat that said "mademoiselle est-ce que tu veux aller au prom avec moi?" Which was asking her and left boxes for her to check for yes no or maybe


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Ooh, always a great option for a language class crush! :)


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sweet kitten 6 years ago from United Kingdom, England

wow...

I don't really have dances at schools, and If They did, I'll be too embarrassed to ask anyone out..

And I bet the boy I kinda like will say no.


Michela 6 years ago

So I straight up told my crush I liked him. All my friends tried to get him to ask me. So today I I.M.ed him and asked him about all the girls talking to him. I asked if he would ask me eventually. He said that he liked someone else but was really nice about ir.


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks for sharing and for dropping by, ladies!


not sure baby?? 6 years ago

ok so i really wanted this guy to ask me to ths one dance and soon enough he did. but he was to nervous to just stright up ask me so he wrote a note that said "willyou please go to the dance with me? - aaron" id it weird that he wrote a note or should i be flattered?


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Some people are just too nervous to do it in person! lol like all the people who ask via Facebook and such :) I like it better in person, of course, but it's not the worst thing!


I'm lame 6 years ago

dear glassvisage how old are you? will you go to prom w/ me?


justwondrin 6 years ago

i wish my bf would have done these....they are amazing=)


MEGAN 6 years ago

so my boyfriend asked me to a dance by sneaking over to my house while i was at my volleyball practice, and he sticky noted my whole room, and on one wall spelled out HOMECOMING WITH ME? but instead of the "me" he put a picture of himself with baby sticky notes with "me" written all over them.

it was really cute an unexpected!!!


rody  6 years ago

if any guy did that to me i will accept


NATE 6 years ago

what the heck is this. why don't you just man up and ask her if she'll go out with you, she might be too hard core for this. This is like for third graders!


Shelby 6 years ago

I would LOVE it if my bf did any of these for me! Except the string that's a little creepy :) but any others I would for sure say yes!


tehhe 6 years ago

blehblahbleh. i period like you


Jon 6 years ago

My problem is that we arent dating or anything, but we are really good friends and i know she'll say yes...i just need a way that is simple and cute :)


putmeincoach 6 years ago

Ive got an idea. I kinda put these together. I put roses at the door to her room while shes gone with a note "start poppin" because her room is filled with balloons. A select few have pieces to the puzzle that is shaped as a heart and spell out "will you go to the prom with me?"


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Ah, great balloon idea! Hopefully she isn't scared of popping balloons :)


maria 6 years ago

these will work if you like the guy. if you really don't like hime though, it will really creep the girl out. im just saying....


 6 years ago

It's Really Awesome


Rose 6 years ago

I'd say yes to a guy in a heart beat if he asked me like this.(any tips?) But sadly I have no date for the October upcoming Homecoming. I'm kind of sad but will probably go with girl friends instead. I know some girls last year who didn't get dates and made it a girls night out. THey looked like they were having the most fun at the dance out of anybody!!! Plus they asked each other by leaving notes on the front of each other's lockers saying: Will You Join Our Ladies Night? (insert time here) at Livey's house! Dance Time! And put a word on each of the girls' lockers in order it was hilarious and they started a school trend.


BringTheNoise 6 years ago

Alright, this one takes a little bit of setting up and preparation before hand, but is TOTALLY worth it. The first thing you must do is acquire a whole bunch of items that have to do with music, i.e. posters, CDs, records, band t-shirts, etc etc. You assemble all of the items in a creative fashion, and invite the to where you've done this very casually. (Make it so he/she has to walk through it to get to you) At the end of all the music-ness, make a poster that says, "All this music is pretty good, but nothing sounds better then you going to [dance name] with me! and your standing to the side with flowers waiting for the person. Super cute and works every time


TipOfTheDay 6 years ago

Get a large Little Ceasers pizza (the hot and ready kind) and stick a note on it that says, your hot, im ready, will you go to Sadies with me? All the guys I know would love it (:


Veeze 6 years ago

So one of my best friends just got asked to homecoming by a guy. She had a practice that ran late so her dad went in to stall when the guy was preparing... When she walked to the car she saw 8 red ballons numbered one to eight then tee was a note on the hood of the car saying pop me with this pen. So she had to pop all of the ballons in number order and in them were little notes saying .will u go to homecoming with me? But then with the last ballon it had the guys name in it.... It was so adorable, now that he has a date now time for me to get one :)


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glassvisage 6 years ago from Northern California Author

Great ideas!! Thanks for stopping by!


Turekboy 6 years ago

I used the shirt idea and it worked great! I bought a pink fitted t-shirt, wrote her name on the front in big letters and under that in smaller letters "will you go to" and under that in big letters "HomeComing" and under that in small letters "with me". Then I wrote the instructions under that, but I wrote them in washable so if she ever wanted to, she could wear the shirt. One more alteration that my dad came up with was to hide the letters of my name, in permanent marker, inside of the other boys' names, so she had no idea that it was going to be me. I delivered it folded and wrapped in cellophane with some roses tied with a ribbon that I picked from the rose bushes at my house. It was perfect.


daf 6 years ago

yaaaa... im just going to drop a note in her locker...


bonnnernoi 6 years ago

it didn't work i used the string one and thought it was candy so i kept eating it.. imagine pooping that thing out


Heart Broken 6 years ago

Yeahhhhh I did an idea where I spelled out her name, my name and homecoming with a bunch of weed. I would not recommend any of you try that one, it didn't work.


TE 6 years ago

k I heard about this one at school the other day.

apparently this girl asked the guy's math teacher who she also had for math just during a different period, anyway she asked the teacher to put a question on the test saying something like, " If ( the girls name) made a banner to hang in the cafeteria that was 2m by 10m that said (guys name) will you go to the dance with me; what would his answer be?" the teacher did this for her so the day after having the test the guy put a banner up in the cafeteria that was 2 by 10 saying "yes (girls name) I thought that this was pretty sweet!! It would only work if you share a teacher and the teacher is nice enough to cooperate.


girlaskingbestfriend. 6 years ago

okay, so i am asking one of my best guy friends. & i have NO idea how to ask him and i need to ask quick before someone else does.. This dance is called "Santa Switch." obviouslly, the dance is in decemeber. He loves oreos so i wanted a cute creative way to ask him with something to do with oreos! any ideas?! pleaaaase help.


Sue 6 years ago

Heard of a couple cute ways to answer a date. Get a pair of your pants and pin little papers with the letter P all over them, deliver them to the guy asking with a note saying I was so excited you asked me to the dance that I P'd my pants. I'd love to go with you!

The other idea along the idea of the shirt is have a picture of you with your arms held out ironed on to a t-shirt . Write yes in one hand in permanent marker and no written in washable marker. Attach a note saying to wash the shirt and they would find out the answer.


scholarshipsformo 6 years ago from California

Thanks for sharing this!


no one 6 years ago

put oreos all over their car and decorate the inside. you can arrange the oreos into the question or put the question insid ethier car. you stick the oreos on by taking one of the cookies off and sticking the cookie on the car frosting side down


HeyIt'sMe 6 years ago

Good ideas, I'm a senior girl in high school and I wouldn't say no to anyone who asked me creatively.

My guy friend asked me to prom last year in a super cute way! He had one of my friends pull me out of my study hall, blindfold me, and lead me around the school. When she took the blindfold off of me, we were standing by my locker facing 15 of my girl friends who were each holding a flower. They all yelled SURPRISE and handed me their flowers and he stepped out of the middle, handed me more flowers, and asked me to go to prom with him! I loved it!


sim 6 years ago

crap, i better ask out my crush before i go to vo tech next year


rachel 5 years ago

okay some of these are really cheesy but sweet at the same time


afzal hny 5 years ago

HeyIt'sMe 3 weeks ago

Good ideas, I'm a senior girl in high school and I wouldn't say no to anyone who asked me creatively.

My guy friend asked me to prom last year in a super cute way! He had one of my friends pull me out of my study hall, blindfold me, and lead me around the school. When she took the blindfold off of me, we were standing by my locker facing 15 of my girl friends who were each holding a flower. They all yelled SURPRISE and handed me their flowers and he stepped out of the middle, handed me more flowers, and asked me to go to prom with him! I loved it!

sim 3 weeks ago

crap, i better ask out my crush before i go to vo tech next year

rachel 36 hours ago

okay some of these are really cheesy but sweet at the same time


Reejh 5 years ago

Omg! I'm so excited, I'm going to use either the string idea or the hangman idea to ask my boyfriend to turnabout! I'm glad I came across this site!!!! Thanks so much!


Ham 5 years ago

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??? 5 years ago

I'm in 6th grade and i'm going to use the string one on a girl to see if she'll go to the dance with me. Except i put th string in a small box with hole on the bottom and the string sticking out. the first note says "pull the string" and there are other notes after it. at the end it says, "will you go to the dance with me?" hope it works and thanks for the idea person who came up with the string idea. I'll reply if it works and if i get a girlfriend i will be overjoyed!!!!!!!!!!! If it works, thenk you in advance, and if not thanks for the idea anyway. :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Richard 5 years ago

i used the gorilla one and the girl got scared and punched me in the face


Stephanie 5 years ago

Thanks for these ideas I proposed to her and she said YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sergii 5 years ago

i did the puzzle one and she loved IT. Thanks:) :D.


Leoz 5 years ago

These are really cool ideas but do something original! Don't make a girl like u when u using other peoples ideas!


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

That's fair :)


Steph 5 years ago

Omg!I would totally be happy if a guy did this to me :)


James S 5 years ago

So many good ideas! Been helping my little bro with asking a girl to the formal all week, basically he's just combining ideas from this like wiki site howiasked.com, but some of these are even better! If you did one of these and it worked can u please submit it to that how i asked site so we can come up with more for my bro lol


5 years ago

these things are so crappy and mushy make sumthin that actually makes the girl think ur really manly like you me the dance tommorow lets do it then walk away fast so she can't reject u... pretty good a?


Carly 5 years ago

Great ideas! Another idea is getting cosomizable emanems and having them say will you go to_____ dance with me? That can be expencive though.


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Umair S Khan 5 years ago from Pakistan

The puzzle part was good.


big z 5 years ago

I am going to write "name prom?" and then under "yes or yes" lol! i already know she wants to go with me so its more of a joke. don't suggest being so cocky if its uncertain


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Sun-Girl 5 years ago from Nigeria

Nice hub and thanks for sharing.


hey 5 years ago

the awkward moment when you do the shirt idea and your names choww


kendall. 5 years ago

uuhmmm , i have to ask my boyfiiend too homecomming , annd he did the starr thing. excpect for prom , hes askinf me to his homecomming , i wanna ask him to mine in a cute manner ,hoooww?


MarriageEnvy.com 5 years ago

My 17 yo son used the String and Shirt idea combined tonight to ask a girl to homecoming. He really liked your ideas. Thanks.


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

Thank you all for your comments!


Ealezlie 5 years ago

What I'm doing this year is creating a tic tac toe game, which is a running competition for us. But anyways, it's a 4x4 grid, and it will spell out "homecoming?" I'm thinking I'll put it up on the web if anyone's interested.


tjbd 5 years ago

never use the string one i got sent to jail for 3 years!


Cody 5 years ago

When I asked my friend to homecoming, we had been outside and it was pretty cold, and I could see she was shivering, so I took my flannel off and put it around her, a couple minutes later I pretended I was checking my pockets for something and asked her if I had left something in my shirt pocket (the one she was wearing) when she checked the pocket and pulled out a piece of paper and a huge grin spread across her face as she said yes :]


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

So cute Cody!


EAVES14 5 years ago

I used a different method that you could post on here,(use candy bars for the bracketed)

[SUGAR BABY], please don't [SNICKER]. Will you go to homecoming with me?

Your [SUGAR DADDY],

John Doe.


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

Eaves, I love it!


Austin 5 years ago

This is the one Im doing. I got her locker partner to open her locker and im putting a note that says" The kid standing behind you with flowers wants you to go to homecoming with him" and of course ill be standing behind her with flowers waiting for her to turn around.


sex hound 5 years ago

i love bunnies


Jake 5 years ago

Thanks for the great ideas im in grade 8 and i took those hershies kissies and glowsticks and got her parents to signal when she got home from baseball they sent her outside and found them they went around her house when she got to the door i was there with a boucque of fllowers and asked her she was so happy and said yes i find it works best simple and easy thanks for the great page girl love it great tips :)


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

Jake, thank you for sharing and it's so good to hear! :D


Coreguy101 5 years ago

Well sorry but this is pretty stupid. for most of you like.. why don't you just spend some time with the girl somewhere like at school or midnight football game. I simply asked my date to homecoming on the bleachers when the game was just ending. said "yes" and let me escort her to her location where she was gettin picked up. didn't use any tricks or anything just asked. Btw some guy used the "fishbowl" at my school for prom for a woman and he got brutally rejected.. yea :p


Kaileeee 5 years ago

If a guy dressed up in a gorilla suit and said I'll go bananas if you go to homecoming with me.... I'd be like yes. yes. yes. yes. THAT'S AWESOME.


Ashton 5 years ago

Okay so if your principal and teachers would agree to this, I was thinking about getting someone to deliver her teacher a note saying "Please have Bianca report to the principal's office, immediately." And she'll be all freaked out while she's walking there, but when she sets foot in the office, i'll be standing there holding a sign that says "gotcha :) will you go to homecoming with me?"

I hope it works, wish me luck! :)


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

I hope it works too! I think it's a cute idea!


5 years ago

funniest thing ever when my friend asked a girl to homecoming by getting the spare keys to her car from her parents and filling her car with tennis balls while she is away. under all of them is a note saying "i didn't have the balls to ask you in person, but will you go to homecoming with me??" hahaha funny and cute


ccc 5 years ago

the boy who asked me to homecoming told me he wanted to show me a magic trick, he told me to choose one of the piles of cards and then pick any card and put it back then he told me to pick the top card off the deck and close my eyes and count to ten. When i opened my eyes he was gone and the card said homecoming?


zack 5 years ago

what i did was askthe teacher ahead of time if i could walk in her class with me carrying a note that she wouls tink would be from the office with will you go to homecoming with me and she looks up and im holding flowers


Garrett 5 years ago

i am going to do the shirt idea, except the one where your name is not on it but when you wash it some letters spell it out, hope it works, I think its a great idea. Will tell if it did :) thanks

Garrett


Nick 5 years ago

Good tips. Im in 6th grade and I wanna ask this girl Bianca to the prom but I'm really shy and afraid she'll say no. If she says no I'll die. Plz help!


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

Garrett, good luck! And if she says no, don't worry - I know it feels bad at the time, but I can remember when I've asked someone and they said no. It will be okay!


Matt 5 years ago

@Nick

Luckily for you, they don't have proms in sixth grade.


mickeydamouse 5 years ago

My best friend is making a rap to ask his girlfriend to homecoming and it was the cutest thing ever!

I'm going with my boyfriend but I wasn't asked in a creative way, but I'm just glad to be going with him! lol


Alex 5 years ago

I think ill try the notes and have ask her teachers to give one to her each saying something romantic and in her last class lead her somewhere ill ask her;)


Swimdiva 5 years ago

I'm wanting to ask my really good guy friend to Sadies , and he is extremely shy, so I want to ask him in a fun/embarrassing way to break his bubble of shyness! Do u guys have any ideas?:)


summertime 5 years ago

i think i mite ask my boyfriend to sadies with the

- frog prince cute one

-or the hysterical throwing fake shit one ps to mitch that is sooooo funny!!!!!


Bryce 5 years ago

Good Ideas! Here's one I've done in the past:

My school has practice for jazz choir early before school starts. I've been carpooling one of the girls and wanted to ask her to the winter formal. To do this, I played "Dance, Dance, Dance" by the Beach Boys on my car's Ipod player as soon as I parked. I changed the cover art to the message of asking her. It took her by total surprise, especially since I've been acting like it wasn't going to happen!


DG 5 years ago

So I attempted the string one around my neighborhood, and some other girl i didn't know got to the end of the sting first... fml


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richardhemby 5 years ago from Bellevue, Washington

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Chase 5 years ago

Give her a mix cd of a bunch of bands she likes playing love songs, label each track will, you, go, to, the, dance, with, me? Then tell her to put it on a computer and she will read it.

I did this and she gave me one back and when I put it on my computer it said of course I will


The real Deal 5 years ago

I came up with my own idea.

Say you are picking her up from somewhere and while you are waiting, roll the windows down. But on the passenger window you have a piece of paper taped it to asking her to prom.

Before you drive off, you make sure she is looking at you and then roll the windows up.

Then look over it the passenger window and ask "can you get that off the window right quick?"

Works like a charm


Eric 5 years ago

so, i'm debating between the puzzle idea going from her locker to me and ashton's idea to see if you can get her to come down to the principal's office and stand there holding a sign. we don't know each other very well, but i'm really hoping she says yes to me.


guest 5 years ago

I used the tee-shirt idea but on the backk I wrote like 15393262i22928226171829474638 and my phone number was in sharpie so the rest washed off


Emma 5 years ago

I would LOVE it if a boy asked me really creative!

Oh so this one football player got the annoucer at the football game to ask this chearleader during half time! He got the water boy to hand her a rose because he was preparing for the second half! OML it was adorable!


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California Author

Thanks for the comment and thanks for sharing that idea!


matt 5 years ago

Great idea that worked out like a charm. I baked cupcakes and gave them to a girl in one of my girlfriends classes to hand out in class. And after they were all gone I had the ones left over say Will you go to Formal with me? And had the girl give those to my girlfriend.


Kate 5 years ago

I would be careful with the shirt one becuase even though the marker will say washable, it won't always come off. My friend tried to do that idea and not all the names came of when the girl washed it so it didn't work.


Abby 4 years ago

These are all great ideas, OMG!!! I will certanly try these


That guy 4 years ago

Get a clementine and make an incision in it and put a note in the incision.and if you want to cover up the hole put a sticker on it.


Nathan 4 years ago

I'm going to do the shirt one for winter fest. wish me luck.


Mantorak 4 years ago

I absolutely love the trace your body on the sidewalk infront of their house idea! Definitely using that one!


boo boo 4 years ago

make a puzzle bitchessss


John 4 years ago

There's a military ball for afjrotc and i asked a girl to it by taking 5 balloons and sticking words in them saying Will You-Go To The- Military Ball- With me? and the last had my name so i gave them to her teachers to give to her to pop and find the answer. Unfortunately her parents wont let her until she's 16 :( But theres a different girl i want to ask but i think shes friends with the girl i already asked.. Any advice for that?


Amandazzz 4 years ago

Im asking my best guy friend to saidies and i dnt wanna do anything romantic. Anyone have any ideas that have to do with twinkies?


Nate 4 years ago

So, i am asking a girl to a dance my school is having, im asking her tomorrow (on Valentine's Day) and this is how.

I have a teddy bear, pretty big, and its holding a box of chocolates, it has a card on it, and it says "Happy Valentines Day" To: From:.. so i put To:Katie (her name) and From:Nate (my name) then i put in the blank space.. "Will you be my Valentine? And..."

and on the back i put "Go to black and white with me?" (name of the dance is black and white.)

what do u guys think? im hand delevering it to her with a single red rose.. i also have a necklace that im gonna give her on the day of the dance when we go...

btw: she already said yes but she just wanted me to ask her in person so this is how, ima make her really happy... what do u guys think of the idea though..?


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glassvisage 4 years ago from Northern California Author

I think that if it's from the heart, then it's perfect :)


George 4 years ago

I work with a girl and we don't go to the same school, how should I ask her to my senior prom? we always talk @ work & have talked after work in our cars, we connect & are really comfortable around each other, oh & she has a boyfriend lolol but idk she seems into me


no one 4 years ago

Good luck :-)


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freemarketingnow 4 years ago from California

Nice, creative ideas!


XD 4 years ago

wow these are great, my guy friend asked me to prom by writing on a paper ( my history notes) ...now that i see so many ideas, his is lame but i said yes after like 15 minutes lol. i feel bad that i waited for so long ..


dancingfreak 4 years ago

I asked my friend to go with me (Sadie Hawkin's status!) in one of his classes. I covered up his desk in wrapping paper and made a note that said, "I WANT YOUR BODY" on the cover, and when he flipped it, it said, "... in a suit May 18th" and then my name. It was adorable! He couldn't stop laughing.


Jon 4 years ago

Thanks but I'm still nervous...


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glassvisage 4 years ago from Northern California Author

Great idea dancingfreak!


poopscoop 4 years ago

this is so cute!


kyle herdt 4 years ago

all these r sick which one though


Ishan 4 years ago

Thanks very creative


Ron 4 years ago

This is very interesting post, I like your fantastic hub!

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Fred 4 years ago

Im in grade 6 and grad is coming. How should I ask my shy girlfriend?


Sarah 4 years ago

One of my friends got all the teachers in on a plan to ask this guy to saidies. He was in one of his classes when the teacher asked him to bring this paper to this teacher, then this teacher asked him to bring something to the office, then the office had him bring something to another teacher and so on. He had been running all over campus doing pointless erons, until he came to the last stop (which was the class the girl asking him was in) that teacher gave him a paper that said "will you go to the dance with ____?"


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glassvisage 4 years ago from Northern California Author

Sarah, that's a great story! Thanks for sharing!


josh 3 years ago

These are the ways that u want people to ask people out wow


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Gratitude Journal 3 years ago

Awesome... cute... and funny! Nice hub.

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