How To Get A Girlfriend In School

How To Get A Girlfriend

All of your friends have a girlfriend and you have been left on the sidelines wondering to yourself where you are going wrong.

Why don't the girls like you? many questions run around your head.

  • Do you smell bad?
  • Are you ugly?
  • Are you immature?
  • Are you just a bad guy to know?

The answer is probably none of the above but if you are asking yourself any those questions the simple fact is that you lack confidence in yourself and you are probably a little shy around girls.

Don't Be Broken Hearted

Say no more to a broken heart, work on your confidence and shyness if you really want to get the girl.
Say no more to a broken heart, work on your confidence and shyness if you really want to get the girl. | Source

Top Reasons Why Girls Won't Go Out With You

Five reasons why girls might not want to go out with you are

  1. Immaturity, if you play the fool, can't take anything seriously play silly jokes and so on, how is a girl ever going to take you seriously, if you really want a girl to take you seriously, it's time to grow up.
  2. Self Confidence, girls like boys to be self confident, if you are not confident about yourself, how do you expect a girl to be confident with you?
  3. Over confidence, there is such a thing as being over confident, girls like confidence but overdoing it makes it look like you are boasting.
  4. Appearance, if you don't take care of your appearance a girl won't want to go out with you, if you cant take care of yourself how would you take care of her?
  5. Egotism, a big ego means a big head, you may think that you are the greatest thing since sliced bread but you are the only one, if you spend all of your time thinking about yourself you wont have much time left to think about her.

Be Honest With Yourself

Be honest take a close look at yourself, what do you see? Write down what you like about yourself and what you don't, If you need to ask your friends what they think then do so.

Discover who you are and if you don't like what you see its time to make some changes, sort yourself out and be who you want to be, learn to love yourself because if you don't, how can you expect anyone else to love you?

A lovers Embrace

Everyone wants to have a little love in their lives and the first step to achieving this is to overcome your shyness.
Everyone wants to have a little love in their lives and the first step to achieving this is to overcome your shyness. | Source

Overcoming Shyness With Girls

Shyness and low self confidence is a major bummer when it comes to talking to girls, simply because they prevent you from actually talking to girls in the first place.

If you are ever going to be successful in your quest for a girlfriend you will have to over come them both.

Shyness can really hold you to ransom especially when it is with a girl that you really like but it can be easier than you think to break yourself out of that rut and gain more self confidence.

Practice makes perfect, practice what you want to say to a friend who is a girl and ask her for advice on what to say or how to behave.

Become more sociable, Try to talk to as many people as you can every day, the more people that you talk to the more easier it will become to talk to that girl.

Start with a simple question, when you approach that girl you don't really have to go in all guns blazing, "How are you today?" would be a good start before getting into a conversation with her. When you feel the conversation is drawing to an end it is the right time to ask her out.

Something along the lines of "I have eally enjoyed talking to you," followed by "I wonder if you would like to have lunch with me some time?"

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Get the girl

There are no hard and fast rules to asking a girl out, be mature and confident and of course you must always be ready for rejection, girls cannot be forced to like you, they either do or they don't, rejection isn't fatal, it's a set back and you will get over it quickly.

Pickup lines, are a good start if delivered with the humour intended, although some girls don't like them they can be a good icebreaker.Make her laugh, talk about things you both like, don't tell lies they can get out of control and a relationship based on lies will never work.

Just be yourself dont try too hard enjoy the moment and have a little confidence in yourself after all if you don't ask for what you want nobody knows that you want it except you.


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1627 comments

Corey 9 years ago

Hi, Thankyou for that good information, I am yet to ask her, I still dont know the right time, By the way i am asking my mates sister which is the same age as me. I dont know how to go about it, About two years ago we had a relationship untill i moved over seas, I came back at the start of this year and we are friends but not in a relationship. I need help, Thanks Corey.


Aj 9 years ago

well theres this one girl at work she is blonde and has blue eyes and she is beutiful and i really like her but i dont think i got a chance with her she is more of a good girl type it seems as we are two different people but i dont understand what to say to her she does say hello to me but i need advice to how to approach her and i fear rejection.


harri 9 years ago

i really dont know what to do i am really scared of what she will theink of me i really need help


ragu  9 years ago

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ragu 9 years ago

the girls in my school dont like me they think i am ugly and i have big years i try to be nice but i dont know what to do i need help thanks


mike 9 years ago

hey the girls that r hot at school think i am fat. there is this one girl but she broke up with me. i think it is because of other people say nasty. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


TONT 9 years ago

HEY THE GIRL AT MY SCHOOL IS SOOOOOOOOO HOT I CALLED Her AND THE NEXT DAY SHE BROKE MY HEART. I NEED HELP


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Jason K 9 years ago

im not good looking, but i think i could get a girlfriend. One girl i like is a whore who i am pretty sure would take any guy who is good looking. We hang out sometimes and we have a good time, but im kind of chunky around the edges... what would you do


Trav 9 years ago

Yesterday i saw this really pretty girl and i made a really bad imprersion someone e mail me at travis_f_rowdy_boy@msn.com plz someone e mail me


Trey 9 years ago

Please, i need help. theres this gurl in my school (in my class) for 2 years, i told her i like her and she admitted she liked me and at the end of that school year i got her this HUGE!!! gift basket w/ chocolate strawberries and cookies and a stuffed animal and a letter telling her i liked her. then the next school yer (just this one!!) i asked her out and she said no. i was HEARTBROKEN!!! but i didnt give up. but soon i did cause this jerk off in my class thinks ges funny and cool and all the girls hang with him and talk 2 him all the time hes ugly and he smells so bad i got sick (REALLY!!!) hes mean and humiliating PLZZZ Waht shud i do to get her to like me again and if you cud send me sum tips on how to ask her out Thanks And GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


george 9 years ago

guys i have had alot of experience with girls dumping me and liking me and all i can say to ALLLLLLLL of you guys is just be yourself who cares what other people think or say about you. theres this girl i like now and she likes me too and im just being myself and taking it easy. remember BE YOURSELF and if she accept that then tell her to screw off. hope this helps and good luck!


jamie 9 years ago

hi there is ths realy fit girl at school i make her laugh but i think she hates me what should i do ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????


Juan 9 years ago

HOLA, thres a girl I like who seemed to like me at the start of the school year, but I can't seem to work up the courage to ask her out. I've tried impressing her with humor and showing off, but I can't seem to get her to notice me. I'm a big sports fan and chicks love guys who play sports, right?If NE1 has NE advice, please respond!!


MR.RQ 9 years ago

please. i would like a girlfriend. i would really like a girlfriend before my next birthday. at the very least my first kiss ON MY BIRTHDAY. or before. either way please HELP!!!!!!!!!! ME. NOT EVERYONE ELSE THEN ME. MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


sir alan cucumber 9 years ago

Youll all going about it wrong!

theyres a girl who uve never talked to before but i cant stop looking at her. what DO you do? easy. chat to her friends, ask them to invite you into a conversation with that special girl.

work on the converssation and make a witty funny comment, after that, just chat to her and after time, ah wollah!!


mike 9 years ago

a girl at my school is hot to me but not to others i asked her out once but she said no.after that my friends made jokes and made it worse.one of my best friends who new i liked her A LOT went out with her and that realy p*s*ed me off bit they broke up .please how do igit her to go out with me


zhivko 9 years ago

i recently joined a new schooland every1 was nice to me.i wus in maths and i got put to this girl,she was smart good looking and had a good personality.the one sitting behind me was even BETTER! so a week or two went and i was desperate to ask her out...i wrote a note in her book saying i relly liked her and the next day she sed no

i know i was rushing it but i asked out the girl behing me in maths..she talks to me but she has no interest in me i askeed her out but she sed no.now most ppl in my year know i like her and keep teasing me. :( i need serious help

thanks.


zp 9 years ago

Hi no a girl likes me and i like her to its just i dont have the guts to ask her out.


Joe 9 years ago

This girl is well fit but she hates me and i want her to like me what do i do


Curtimus Maximus 9 years ago

Yeah well of course, I'm here seeking help. I've had a few little "relationships" when I was younger and then thats when the girls sorta asked me, but now as a Junior in high school theres a couple of girls I've had my eyes on, the one girl I've been locked on has known me since bout first grade, we have a couple of things in common and there's a friendly relationship between us, but there's two things I'm worried on: one being how would I ask/get her?(being that I've never had to ask a girl) and two would doing this ruin our relationship as friends if she says no?...oh and as a side thing would waiting a year or two to ask her be better or worse? Thanks...


privatw 9 years ago

ok u guys are doing it wrong iv had 7 girlfreinds and im only 14 wat u do is u talk to them on MSN and be realy nice to them its easier on MSN cause ur not face to face so u kinda have more courage after your good freinds with and told her that u like her her u ask her out in person NOT ON MSN cause if u do it on MSN ur a losser asking the person out is the hardest thing but if u did a good job on MSN its realy easy usualy they will say yes except if you now who they like and no you dont have a chance just be freinds with her cause it gets ur mood up and if she says no its prbly cause ur a complet loser or u are realy ugly if u are realy ugly get plastic surgery.


Ben 9 years ago

Hey Guys

I really like a girl but i know i dont have a chance with her yet because i am a big guy. Im a linemen on my football team, so do i have a chance as a big guy or do i need to loose wieght?


stevie  9 years ago

I know this really hot girl I like her I am kind to her and talk to her alot I think she likes me to but I dont have the guts to ask her out what should I do to make her like me more?


ben d 9 years ago

i see a relly fit girl at school we r m8 and tht but she is an emo i dont whant to ask her out becuse i'm not emo tho what do i do


Joe Hardacre 9 years ago

I want this girl but she hatez me wat do i do


Joe 9 years ago

dude! just zip up your man suits and ask her out! the worst she can say is no.


Steven 9 years ago

I like a bunch of girls. But I can't seem to get to a point where I feel comfortable aksing one of them out. They all say they like me, but it's like i'm kinda chubby. I'm 5'6 and weigh 153. So, i kinda think once they are with me, then kissing me is gross. I need help, ksjcorona@verizon.net.


Newt 9 years ago

I like 2 girls that 1 hates me but the other doesnt know me very well what did i do "wrong"


Kevin 9 years ago

Err.. Well I'm in summer school. I'm 15, and theres this really cute girl in summer school I've liked for a few months. But she doesn't really like to talk to me :\ I don't know what to talk to her about. I'm 5'11 and she's 5'2 so she tells me all the time she feels so short with me. I dont know.. I don't play sports n I don't hang out with alot of girls. I don't have alot of friends either. I just like to be by myself and it never seems to help. :( I need help with this.. please.. someone.. email me at Icewolfx2@hotmail.com. I need help on how I can get girls and other people to like me and to talk to me.


John 239 9 years ago

dude im a litle nerd iv looked at the mirror alot im triying to work it all out i talk to the girls at m school and the only thing they like obout me is mi eyes just becouse there blue -.- i need some help ... i dont have friends...and i mean that absolutley no friends the friends iv had before stabbed me in the back the girls at mi school ar sooooo HOT i dont like talking to them becouse they think there all that so i talk to othere girls and they think im ugly and the only thing cute bout me is me eyes...thats good but...i cant emproove help e dude


peter 9 years ago

how do you get a girl that doesnt know you and that she wants you to go away


saki 9 years ago

lol sounds helpful ill have to try it this dude knows what hes saying i understand him like most of us do.


cat9 9 years ago

how do know that they are prefect


cmale123 9 years ago

i always feel i am alway late for something. especially when comes to girls. i though have time delelope a relationship but before i knew it, the girl it try after are in relationship. to those reading this please get a hook up before too late.


mike987 9 years ago

i want this hot girl and she REALLY liked me and a day later she hates me more than anything... what do i do???


Cody 9 years ago

What you need to do if you have a litle extra bagage is to situp and get a pullup bar it dont hert to try, the only thing that gona hert after you do you first chain up are your biseps..and do like 50 crunches and 10 situps a day. i spend 6 hours at the gym working out to help with water polo and swimming.


m83 9 years ago

ive had gurls diss me and alot of gurls wantin me...and right now im going out with a reall hottie but i cant help feel tht shes too good for me coz i have an abnormal headsize..which makes me self conscious and im failin to love myself without bein corky i jus wanna be at a confident stage


unknown 9 years ago

okay heres my problem theres a girl that im sure likes me but everyone says we look alike from behind because im the only guy in the school with sorta long hair but theres a girl i like but we havent even talked and i havent had a girlfriend before because im almost the least popular person in my class .can anyone help me out.im lile the only guy i know who hasnt ever had a girlfriend :(


Bill Zhang 9 years ago

theres like dis extremely hot blonde at my school, im like all popular and everything, the only thing wrong is im very very very shy. everytime i think of asking her out, things pop into my mind like wat happens after i ask, will she say yes, does she like me, how do i talk to her and all dat other stuffi relly need help


kini kour 9 years ago

i think sex is very good


nathan 9 years ago

how do date a girl


alex bernard 9 years ago

what if the girl likes u but u dont like her


matthew 9 years ago

this girl likes me and i like her shee dunt no wot 2 say wen aske her out she just goes ofline on msn wot do i do it makes me mad it makes me sad i dont no wot 2 do plz help me


EDWARD PENA 9 years ago

THANKS FOR THAT INFORMATION


Supermana 18 (josh) 9 years ago

well i just met this girl that is my moms best friends daughters daughter and im not sure if she likes me....... well one thing i know is that i adore this girl so much!!! My heart is playing me everytime i think of her..... i just love her...... but one thing wrong is that im very VERY SHY!!! i mean i make her laugh and stuff and really want her more than anything........... if i had a last wish when i die i would chose "See her face one more time again" she is just amazing! please give me anyhelp.... her sisters birthday is coming up and shes going to be there...... the party is going to be the secoond time we see eachoter please help!!!


steve 9 years ago

guys i am 14 years old and i am pretty good wit the ladies and just be yourself and try and buy some nice clothes get some numbers dont show off and just play the field


Boris 9 years ago

i really like this blond haird girl at school

the thing is im really shy and i dont know if she likes me or not.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!


unknown 9 years ago

please.......help me...........please!!!!


Bennett 9 years ago

This one girl used to be my girlfriend unti her ex-boyfriend got back together with her. Tomorrow I'm gonna try to gain the courage to ask her 2 a double date.


unknown 9 years ago

.............help.................................................................please help


peter 9 years ago

how do you tell if a girl likes you with out having someone ask them?


OGSurf 9 years ago

Okay first things first.... do you guys like any thing besides blondes???? i am one myself.... i think brunetts are sexier....... me being 13 and all ive only had like 2 girlfriends but i mean 1 tip is... dont tell the girl she's hot... tell her she's beautiful.... and dont ask her out/ break up w/ her by texting or eamil or iming... if u do youre pretty much a loser...


ichigo 9 years ago

i want this girl to go out with me but im to scared to ask her


jay 9 years ago

Awsome I got a girlfriend form you gues


Nathan 9 years ago

I haven't had a girlfriend for a few years now and I have just left school. I like this girl but I don't know if she likes me. I'm scared of asking her and a few days ago she told me that could I keep a secret, I said yes and she told me she likes this other boy. How do I know that she fancies me?


Loser 9 years ago

When I was in high school I would say i was a loser I had 3 friend in 4 years. Im very shy to new people. It like when it comes down to girl it a unconnected line. So I need help with this problem then I can start enjoying life.


dane 9 years ago

i am a rich pretty man,i came from new york and am seaching for a ja girl.


J A C 9 years ago

im an ugly loser in HS. ive asked girls out over and over agin over the last 3 years but they all pretty much the same thing :" ur just a friend" but afterwords they dont want to be my friend anymore.im smart, but girls dont seem to care, they only go for hot guys. my best friend (whos a guy) gets all the girls and he tries to help me out all the time but even that dont work. im going crazy. i need a girl to have a relationshpi with im going crazy. i feel so alone.


justin 9 years ago

hey guys it seems like you have a problem askign the girls out,finding out if they like you and so on,ive had many girls and i am really a pro when it comes to all of that so all i really gotta say is just be your self and what i do is i find a girl i like approach her and talk the usual and seeing how im a funny guy i get them to laugh and i become there friend and eventually i can find out if they like me or not and what ever happens happens and if they liek you and u liek them just ask them out its really hard at first but once u say it its all good and never wait once they liek you and u liek them ask dont wait


phil 9 years ago

there is this girl that comes to my football practices and she watches her littler brother play she likes this other guy but he doesnt like her i want to go out with this girl so bad but i dont know where to start. thanks


Blonde 9 years ago

I noticed a lot of u guys on here have said that there is this hot girl at my school. Why are you focusing on looks and not personalities. I'm not ugly i'm one of the prettiest girls at my school but i'm always nice(i try hard to be nice).focus on the nice girs once in a while okay.


Rëñë 9 years ago

im a guy of course she is right i like to pick the right girl with... looks, personality i like, nice to me, respects my feelings, nice to other people, doesnt have to be a straigh a student but at least passing. and i dont have a girlfriend yet and im still looking so yes u want to have the right girl for u. nice personality.


zawraj 9 years ago

be boys nad girls be what ever u wanna be.if u work hard at it u il b what ever u ewanna b


Jennifer 9 years ago

Girls don't want guys who just want to hump them and that's what you all seem to want! Most girls want a guy who will commit to them. If you can't do that and you just want some little crush to hump, STOP TRYING. No one will want you, and if they do, they'll just be some girl as nasty as you


joe 9 years ago

just sexem and leave works for me ;)


someone 9 years ago

sounds like you all need help dont always espect a girl to like you just dont try to be some one your not and be your self.A girl does not wont to be lied to or cheated on and never make fun of her.


someone 9 years ago

dont pu your self down a if a girl likes you hay but if she dont< don`t beat your self up you might be a nerd a geek a big guy a big head but thers some one out ther for every one you just got to take a chace be brave and open your eyes to all girls dont just pick the first girl you see dont be a wimp be a man


Gagan 9 years ago

i am 13 and never had a girlfrend i saw one sexy babe and i know were she lives but i am a bit shy help me get her pleas


date doctor 9 years ago

okay ppl just talk to girls, lots of girls. dont act like a retard. dont stair at there goodies. look into their eyes when you talk. be friendly. introduce your self to ppl, ask other ppl to introduce you to. here is an example, "Hello my name is Blank and i think you have the most beautiful eyes, whats your name? she says bla bla. then say hey, i've got to go, do u think i could have your number i would like to go out sometime." And then BAM! walk away with number, wait a week to call and make a date. if there are other ppl there say Hello my name is Blank and i think you have the most beautiful eyes, whats your name, she answers and then say whos your friends? and then say hello introduce yourself to them and bounce! If you ppl have any questions IM me at Patster812 its my aim Screen name


chase norton 9 years ago

Ther is this hot girl at my school and i like her a lot and she thinks i am to short and iam 4"11 and she is 4"9 help me


hobo 9 years ago

ho u do it


Guy 9 years ago

I have been put up a year at highschool so all the girls are older than me. there is one girl in my maths class who i like but i don't know if shes got a boyfriend when in maths we have fun and joke but in other class's and outside of class she ignores me i would like to go out with this girl but don't know how to go about it can anyone help


Kate 9 years ago

Honestly Guys, This isnt that hard. And dont give me the "I'm a geek" excuse. Plenty of my hot friends are hooked up with geeks and so am I - Never underestimate the power of being able to fix a girls computer - if you want to have a shot with a girl, become her friend first, get to know her, and let her get to know you. - Also, if you dont want to be judged by whats on the outside, then dont to the same to girsl. Get to know her, and dont expect to get laid, just because you want to, any girl that would hook up with you after a few days (or no days) dating is not quality - and you will catch something from her. 


James  9 years ago

There is this girl i like at my school she is pretty, nice personality and is smart, she knows that i like her, i try to at least say hello to her most days, just be generally friendly to her and talk to her, i also gave her in person a lovely valentines gift and she liked it, sometimes when i speak to her she is happy to talk and at other times she doesnt want to talk very much, and sometimes my confidence can let me down even though im one of the friendilist, talkative and held in high regards by most people in my year, what should i do?


nicole4life1 9 years ago

I'm sorry I'm not a guy but my name is Britta James and i really like this guy and there's this other guy that likes me that's kinda cute and i don't wanna break his heart so which should i pick?my future husband? or don't break my heart boy?


tyler 9 years ago

there is this girl that i really like and i don't know what to say to her can you give me some tips on what to say?


Will MAG 9 years ago

There is this girl that i like @ my school but i said some pretty gross stuff about her what should i do i know shes the one but i cant get my head in the right place now can u tell me what i can do


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barryrutherford 9 years ago from Queensland Australia

mmm i will give em a try and see what happens..


Mitch 9 years ago

Well, this is good advice. However just saying it doesn't make it easy. I've never been confident in myself. It's hard to be when everyone is throwing insults at you like a baseball coach throwing baseballs at practice. As for appearance, I do take care of my appearance, I'm just not good looking. That's what girls go for nowadays and it's sad that that might be the reason why I never ever in my life have a girlfriend.

There isn't anything special about my appearance. I made a list of all of my good qualities, but my bad qualities list seems to be quite a bit larger (according to my friends, anyway). I suppose some people just aren't meant to find happiness.


dany boy 9 years ago

o, ok, hi. i dont know how to start but anyway, theres a girl at my school, dam, i like her so much,( ok dont get me wrong, im not gone bang her and the day after just dump her) i mean every time i see her, i go crazy! shes asian, im white. i dident talk to her yet, and she dosent know my name and i dont know her name,(its kind sucks you know but im staying cool u know ;) lolz. i baldy want to ask her out, but im to shy, god dam it ! and i hate it! what shall i do, if ill go ask her out, i dont think ill be able tell her all i want to say. so anyone here who can help me? shes like 1 year older then me. omg shes so cute :D anyways im not fat, not ulgy, well i can say that im good looking, i have a nice style, pretty trandy, u know rich famly, not selfish at all. not arrogant. but theres 1 littel thing. i cant talk to girl. i get so shy, gosh....

anyone here who can may help me a littel bit?

if so heres my email dani90obiwan

thx


CARLIE 9 years ago

Let see But


Neil 9 years ago

hey yea i reckon the info is good. i disagree with pickup lines though.....They are not what women want....


Vincent 9 years ago

I'm scared, maybe if i tell her i might lose her as ma ally or ma luved girlfriend.

I'm dieing of herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.


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Dell13 9 years ago

umm...hi..i decided to read this to see how many times you could give out the wrong advice on getting a girl.But i have to say,i am a girl,and all those things you said,are so true,if only half the guys i dated read this.I might still be with ne of them.You are really good!!


mason 9 years ago

I like this girl.but im not sure if she likes me bace.plz help


maverick 9 years ago

one thing I've noticed is that girls want you to be crazy over them, but they don't want you to show it, but they want to be able to see it, otherwise they think you don't like em. hahahaha confusing as heck i say!

I'm pretty shy too but what I do is flirt with the girl (just look at them till they look at you then look away, do this a few times to let them know you like them), but when i talk to them I don't focus on asking them out, cause that just makes me soooo nervous i just freeze (i'm sure u all can relate) instead I talk to them like she was a real good friend, then when i think they like me too, I close my eyes, bite my lip and throw it all on the line. It's scary, but think of it like riding a roller coaster the very very first time. And if she says no, well just remember that not asking her out is the same thing as her saying no, and if she says yes, well..... hoorah!

one more tip i use, don't try and think of what you'll say, you'll never remember it right, and the convo never goes like you imagine it will, so just wing it!!!! and get a wingman they can be great in getting info!!!


RFG 9 years ago

Hello there,

I'm a positive (usually, until I have an episode) teenage male, that, like the above, can't find any happiness with the opposite gender. I have a bronchio disease which is like Asthma but is better and worse in different ways, which severely restricts my exercise, on top of that I am a computer guy so I'm quite overweight... about 5 foot 10, 230 lbs. thankfully I don't look completely like that due to my height, but, I'm still quite ugly. I was severely abused in a past Middle school year and it has caused me to go anti-social and develop a psychological disability/illness. I have very few "friends" and they tend to avoid me, or be nice one day and assholes the next. My hobbies are very weird and I can't relate to anybody, I haven't spoken to a girl of the opposite gender in a community or public setting in my life unless forced to or responding to an inquiry by one. I can count on my left hand how many times I've been hugged by the opposite gender outside of my family, and most of these encounters were as a small child. I lack every desireable trait. Looks, which girls obviously NEED (or at least the attractive ones) to consider dating a male, money, while not always a factor can be useful... I come from a poor family. I am extremely ugly. I am always critisized by my peers and/or family for not having many friends and everything. I have not been to a friends house/had one to mine in over three years. Over the summer I tried to be nice to people over the internet from my school, sent them albums of music before they came out, talked to them, offered them advice with computers, it has garnered some respect but I still suffer from a mental illness that prevents me from talking to people. I'm not suicidal, but, I know for a fact nobody would give a crap if I was gone, I've invited people to "birthday parties" of mine in the past years, only one year did a person come but they left quite quickly, they usually ended with me eating a TV Dinner quietly in bed as I went to sleep. Before you start to think that I could probably end up with somebody if I simply went past this easy mental illness (it's a mental illness, its not something you can say and just skip on past), I've done it before in subtle ways and was subtly turned down, they obviously did not know I was asking but the response that I knew I was going to get through my subtle ways (done over MSN since this was over this summer) showed clear indication of the result.

Whatever you say won't help me, but I really just need to vent...

Thank you for listening...

~RFG...


finley 9 years ago

i rellay need a girlfriend but i need loads of advice hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll


=l 9 years ago

i looked at this girl alot for like 5 mins then her freind said to me she likes u im like =o and froze then the bell rung and now its the weekend i cant waait to see whatll happen =o


Blah hate my name 9 years ago

Help i like this girl but shes a cheerleader and i dont know if she has a boyfriend i look at her sometimes and she looks back i dunno if she likes me shes pretty hot too :O


bridger  9 years ago

a girl in my math class and gym acts like she is not interested in me and she acts like she is intrested in another and i would like to win her over i relly like her she is perfect to me in every way she is smart has good looks could you give me more info


jake 9 years ago

All you gotta do is talk to her, say hi when you walk past each other, when she talks to you look her in the eye, find out what she likes and bring it up in a conversation for eg. did you watch that show last night. when she replies hopefully yes just ask her questions and be interested in what she has to say. eventualy the time will come where you know each other quite well thats when you gotta grow some balls and ask her out


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rebelschoolgirl 9 years ago

Hey, from a girls point of veiw, ur pretty right, but, you can tell if a girl is flirting with yu if she looks at you and then looks away and then looks again, or (of course) instead of the regular Hey! she says something like, "So what trouble are u gettin' into today?" so thats the thing from a girls point of veiw, and if she says no, dont keep trying too often, that will make you seem desperate (i know) if you ask her again and she still says no, move on, shes probably not good enough for you anyway! sometimes when she says no she's playing hard to get, well two can play at that game! you just play hard to get back! but PLEASE DONT MAKE IT OBVIOUS!


debo 9 years ago

u people have game but heres what u have to do first get the girls number and then talk to her useing text or on a cell phone or on a regular phone useing your voice and then tell her that your tired of playin games and that you tired of just being friends and then ask her out it will work trust me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but dont act desperate or it wont work just be cool and yourself


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DeMarco 9 years ago

Girls are tricky as hell! I wish there was an easy answer...thanks for the hub


josh 9 years ago

i like this 1 girl she is so cute but every time i try and talk to her i dont no what to say . usualy our conversations on las to "hi/hello/" thne i dont wat else to say. everytime i talk shes always with some of her freinds. and i dont no weather i should ask her out cause i dont wat to say. should i just say " hey u wanna go to the movies with me?" i no she likes me cause when i asked her to the dance she said yes imeditaly. wat should i do?


shakib 9 years ago

i like a girl at skool but she dnt like me

i told her that i like her but she still dont like so what should i do


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Sean 9 years ago

This kicked ass! Thanks so much now i know exactly what to do to get with this new girl in my lunch period. Hope it works ill post back later letting you know.


daniel 9 years ago

HOLLO, WELL ACTUALLY I HAVE NOT GONE THROUGH IT BUT ACCORDING TO THE WAY PEOPEL ARE SAYING I COULD BELIEVE THAT WHAT IS WRITTEN IN THIS SITE SHOULD BE TRUE , HERE ARE SOME OF THE PROBLEMS AM HAVING TO DATE A GILR I MEAN TO GET A SOUL CALLED GIRLFRIEND, I AM 17 YEAR OLD GUY LIVE IN WEST AFRICA MY NAME IS DANIEL, I HAVE SO MANY CASUAL GIRLFRIENDS BUT HAVE NO ONE AS MY INTIMAT GIRLFRIEND, I HAVE BEEN TRYING MY BEST TO MAKE SURE THAt i have my own persona BABE


collins 9 years ago

you see, there is this girl i met somwhere and we spoke and she left,then i later found out that she is living in th same building with me, iwhen i saw her i was surprise and she too was, but i couldnt meet her and say something what will i do?


connor  9 years ago

collin just be ur self and get her phoner # and talk to her abpout things she likes then just ask her out


Eric 9 years ago

this girl keeps rejecting my requists by asking her out and im the coolest guy in school but she keeps looking at me like she wants to go out with me but can u send me a message how to get a girl friend


9 years ago

Hi. I dont have a girlfriend. Im 14. I need a girlfriend? HOW????


luke 9 years ago

you are weak all the girl love me at my school


jacob 9 years ago

hey i really like a girl and i asked her to the movies so how do i seal the deal?? help please


Walker Doig 9 years ago

there is this hot girl at Sedona Red Rock High School, her name is Skyler, I tried to ask her out on the Internet, she said no, i tried asking her out yesterday,and it did not work ,

what do i do? if you wanna tell me, call me (770) 354-7513


ultraherbalus 9 years ago

Thanks for good information


opk2much 9 years ago

I need a girlfriend urgently. What do I do?


sebastian 9 years ago

hi everyone I'm 11 years old and theres 2 girls I really like there names are sydney and nicole they r really hot but everything I try goes rong I need help.


Jeremy 9 years ago

This girl i really, really like she knows i like her. The day she found out i was so mad but then she broke up with her boyfriend the next day do u think she likes me??????


lc 9 years ago

ok theres this girl in my sckool and ive liked her for like a realy long time (3YEARS)buti can ask her out but she only likes me as a friens ive went to sooooooooo many sites for info nope nothin and i tried eveything to try 2 improve our relasenship pasing tones of notes,talking more,tried being mr.nice guy i dont undeystand y she dosnot like mr im desprat pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaassssseee give me tips


Happy=( 9 years ago

u guys are so WEIRD LOL!!!!!!!!! but i want a girl to lol!!!!! and are u guys like 5 or someding


....... 9 years ago

i just need love.....is that too much to ask for?


sanjay 9 years ago

i want a girl with nice personality


alex 9 years ago

I always treid to tell my self whats outside of me that girls dont look at me.

sometimes when i see a hot girl with a boy I feel envy, Iam a pretty shy boy

Thers a girl i know in my school and I really like her. but the googd thing is we know each other. The things she said to me is she wants a boy untill shes 18. The hardest part is if I can,t tell if she likes me. Do YOU HAVE SCRETS IF SO PLEAS TELL ME.


Joseph 9 years ago

this stuff is actually right, i always act immature to a girl just to get her attention but, i just have to be myself thanks to the guy who made these stuff


Matt 9 years ago

Wow, thanks for the great tips. There the same one's you always hear but it's really helpful to have an explanaition for each one. I've been single for about 1 and a half years, and it's getting pretty lonely. I've lost count of how many times I've been rejected, and neither tough guy, nice guy, emotional guy, or complete asshole guy (I'm an actor) work. My friend told me it's because of my violent temper, but who on this site would ever hit a girl (not me). Hell, I can't even swear in front of girls. My type are the cute-as-a-button/wouldn't-hurt-a-fly girls. Is their any specific way you might reccomend charming a girl with that kind of personality.


john 9 years ago

i really like this athletic girl like me but no matter what i try it wont work i was depressed for over a year now,and she still wont give me a chance what should i do to find love and happiness?i even like her prsonality.


Alan 9 years ago

UGH!I need a girlfriend So bad. i think she dosnt even notice me.What should i do??AND SHE HAS A NICE SMILE.

HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


Matt 9 years ago

God this is sad guys where is ur self Confidence. you got to be a alpha male work out some take care of ur slef dont eat all that bad food and just ask a girl out you will naver get a girlfriend if you naver ask what is the wrost that can happen she says no.for me i find it is ez to say a funny pick up line and than start talking to them keep it light becuz is it better just to sit there whit no one or just get out there and have fun.if ur in school say hey baby you know if ur name was homework i wholed do you on my desk and lugh and than say hey im jokeing so wants ur name (she tells you) and than say wholed you like to go to the moveings this firday night and say will say yes ur no you can ues any pick up line you want. ok i hope this help some of you remember be the alpha male! get the girl and be happy doing it


conor 9 years ago

there is this hot girl at school and i want to ask her out. she is really cool, but im not coll, nor uncool..im kindov in between. i still get made fun of and if i ask her out and she says no...every1 else will torture me... plz help...


Brent 9 years ago

I am a sophmore in high school. I am taking a Spanish 2 class. I sit near an attractive girl that I was interested in. I started talking to her and made her laugh, and there was chemistry there. So the homecoming dance came around, and I didn't do anything for the first 2 1/2 hours. Until the last half hour when I stopped her and asked her to slowdance. So we went back to spanish class on monday. And we have a new seating arangement. She sits directly next to me in the front row. And its awkward. We don't have much to talk about. I heard from one of my friends that she likes me "as a friend." I try my best to do what I did to get to know her, but she seems to not care as much anymore. What should I do?


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Moonmaiden 9 years ago from Lucerne Valley, CA

Pity you are already taken Jimmy. :)


Carl Simmons 9 years ago

This is a tough scenario I'm in. There is this girl, she is the most beautiful person I know, in my school. She goes out with a lot of boys. She went out with me for almost a year. Then she dumped me (nicely). Then she kept going out with other people but we are good "friends". I might be the only one she kissed on the cheek. Anyway, I want to ask her out ,but she is my "Ex". I still love her ,but she only "likes" me. What di I do?


Joshua Guzman 9 years ago

I like a girl and she likes me but she is older than me and shes thinks im immature which i am Email me


sdfty 9 years ago

i got no help i did every thing im ugly and worthless


i did it 9 years ago

i did it i just went up to here and i was nervous and just ask her if she likes sex and she said yes even though i dont and i still had sex with her behind the wall. the next day she was kissing me all over infront of my friends and making out with me. it works just ask her if she likes sex and then go do it after school.:)


lc 9 years ago

hey its working thanks bout that matt it works. i have no clue were i was going with my self Confidence thanks


sebastian 9 years ago

i know dis sexy girl.we are bothin da fif grade. she used to like me I didnt like her.now I like her she likes my best friend. so a dance is comin up i asked her to it she said no. what do i do


♣homo♣ 9 years ago

uhg im going out with a girl and i think shes about to break up with me what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!♣♣♣♣♣♣♣♣♣♣♣


Justin 9 years ago

i had a girlfriend before but I completely forgot my stategy, now i'm in college, and i need some advise on how to ask a girl out. there's this 1 girl that i know, i like her but we rarely see each other. i don't know how to approch her and ask her out. also i'm afraid if i do, i might be rejected and it would be even harder to be her friend later on.


383 Ram 9 years ago

I let a good one slip away, at least for a bit, to one of my friends. Naturally, she likes the jocks and Im far from that. I am the only gearhead car guy whatever at school and dont seem to ever have any success. I do have 1 advantage and some of you can use it. If you are the only one in your class that has a whip, DRIVE IT, the shallow girls love a nice ride. Though, I want one I will be with for a while. Good advice, I hope everything works out for all of you, myself included.


Robert 9 years ago

You are not alone, MR. RQ. I am also desperate. In fact I am so unsuccessful that I know with certainty, that it will never happen to me. I therefore hate life and what it has given me and forever will. I will never be happy.


mo 9 years ago

girls like people who are pouplar but the problem if u like to girls and u do not know who to choose


Jeremiah Stevens 9 years ago

please help! I like a girl so much and I want to ask her out, but I get afraid. I heard that confidence is key, but I don't have enough! If anyone at all can help me, please do! I'm begging! my email is jeremiah.stevens@prodigy.net


defiler 9 years ago

hey guys dont think what will happen when you ask her to go out or something like that because it never happens like you think it will just go for it dont be afraid. And dont say to yourself i have no chance with her because if you think that way you will probably dont have the courage to do it. I was like that before but now i know that if you want some girl 90 % of the time you will have to make the first move. Dont try to be super cool that will not work and eye contact is important. One more thing dont give her to find out that you really like her very much because she will try to control you and she will probably think you are very easy to fall in love. Have luck


Sam 9 years ago

i'm 17 years old and iv never even kissed a girl. all of my friends r getting girlfriends. i am kind of fat and i was wondering if any girls would go out wit a fat guy. i need some advice


Sam 9 years ago

i'm 17 years old and iv never even kissed a girl. all of my friends r getting girlfriends. i am kind of fat and i was wondering if any girls would go out wit a fat guy. i need some advice


Craig 9 years ago

i have a girlfrend and i had my first one at six lets say im born lucky cuz everyone says i am the sexiest person in scool im not a player tho :( lol im cureently on a girl called heather and i really like her my past girl was taylor but we broke up anyway u guys want tips just add me or e-mail me or talk to me on msn and ill give u all the tips u need :) :) :)


Craig 9 years ago

i have a girlfrend and i had my first one at six lets say im born lucky cuz everyone says i am the sexiest person in scool im not a player tho :( lol im cureently on a girl called heather and i really like her my past girl was taylor but we broke up anyway u guys want tips just add me or e-mail me or talk to me on msn and ill give u all the tips u need :) :) :)


bossman 9 years ago

girlfriends are overrrated your not lossing out on that much. just go out and have some fun, ps chicks really like guys that are having fun no mater wat they look like


andrew 9 years ago

ok, this girl at my school likes me i think but i think shes waiting for me to ask her out and im way to shy to ask her so if any1 could give me some tips on how to be less shy i would appriciate it


Sam 9 years ago

When I was in college, I kind of "figured this out", so I hope it helps all of you...Two things were stopping me from going out with girls...confidence from walking to the front door of the girl, and confidence in asking her once I got there.As far as confidence in the front door, you don't necessarily have to. Remember that every girl wants at some point to get a love note in class, because they feel it's part of some teenage rite. Well ask around...only 1 in 50 actually do...so you have a 98% chance of fulfilling a fantasy. So have fun with that. Don't get too wordy...the simple "Check yes or check no" box will do, especially if you're older than highschool.But if you were, like me, determined to ask her out at her front door, a great and weird way to get courage is going to a cemetary and reading gravestones right before going. The older the gravestones, the better. Walk around and read all of them...and about an hour later, the idea of asking a girl out won't scare you anymore because you start picking up this weird and authentic "perspective" on life and how precious it really is. It's kind of like, all these dead people, no matter how hot or ugly they were as kids, no matter how strong or weak, they all die....and most of them were scared to ask someone out, but they're all dead, now. So do you want to be one of them, or do you want to be the one that did something because you deserve to get what you want in life? If they could all speak to you now, wouldn't they tell you the same thing?Okay, so for what to say. The greatest advantage that you'll have, believe it or not, is just showing up there with flowers. That way, you'll never have to leave ackward, and the whole picture of you standing there with flowers automatically says everything. THEN you can pretty much say whatever you want, and the girl will find it cute. Even if you're in 8th grade, she'll still find it cute, she might not know it yet because she hasn't learned how to react. About being nervous in front of her. Go with it...the more sincerely humble you are, the more impressed she'll be. I'll bet my wife on it, haha.A huge problem is that you keep thinking that she'll be the ONE. You never think that because it messes up your perspective. She may be one in a million, but that just means that you have to ask out a million girls to be sure. It's all about perspective: remember, you're not at her front doorstep to marry her, or to have the goal of sleeping with her, or whatever...you're whole objective is to ask her out on a date, JUST ONE DATE, where you'll pay for dinner and walk around the most scenic street (or mall) and have some fun. Whether she bitches at you the whole night, makes fun of you, or ignores you, you need to have fun, because it's contagious. 


Sam 2 9 years ago

Ahhhh.. didn't finish before I hit submit.Anyways, with that perspective, you can pretty much set a reasonable expectation of asking a girl out on a date every weekend. It's what I did in college, and I probably went out on over 50 or so dates in around a couple years. Pretty much every other week. You'll begin to understand that asking a girl out is actually the easiest thing in the world, getting her to say yes automatically works when "you're just out to have fun for the night and would like to know if she'd like to join you".And you begin to hone in on the girl that you're looking for MUCH MUCH quicker this way. Instead of "going out" with one girl for over a year, you end up just "hanging out" with a different girl every weekend, which gives you a clearer perspective on the right one.The only thing you can't do is TRY to sleep with them because it ruins your perspective. Better yet, don't. Remember, girls talk, and when word gets around that you're a slut, it makes it easy for the next one to say no. But when word gets round that there's this gentleman who asks a girl out every weekend just to hang and buy a dinner to, your stock automatically goes up.The biggest problem is that we have the wrong role models in who to act like. Until recently, all I've seen on TV is the jock or player type who's an asshole that "gets" the hot chick. It only works like that in real life because no one else has the courage to ask out the hot chick except the jerks because they feel like they have to complete a checklist of jerky things before they can ask. But it's not what they're really after. Girls admire a *genuine* positive attitude. It's hard to pretend to be confident, but if you try to be genuinely positive, you'll always appear confident. Think Shia LaBoeuf's role in the movie Transformers, he's got it nailed down...he could get any girl in real life if he plays that hand for real.Good luck!


jyh 9 years ago

Hi..

erm.. there is a girl who was older than me... she asked me to admit it.. n i admit it... but the opposite results happenned.. now she's like avoiding me now.. it hurts me alot when i saw her treating me like tat.. i really do like her.. she's like my life.. no matter how is it.. i will not give up on her... she's the only one.. n i did not even talk to her before by face to face.. i cant open my mouth everytime i sees her.. my heart beat so fast until i cant breathe.. pls help me..


jyh 9 years ago

Hi..

erm.. there is a girl who was older than me... she asked me to admit it.. n i admit it... but the opposite results happenned.. now she's like avoiding me now.. it hurts me alot when i saw her treating me like tat.. i really do like her.. she's like my life.. no matter how is it.. i will not give up on her... she's the only one.. n i did not even talk to her before by face to face.. i cant open my mouth everytime i sees her.. my heart beat so fast until i cant breathe.. pls help me..


james 9 years ago

well i fancy this girl name charlotte but i asked her out then she said yes but after a few days she dumped she saying that she family probz is that got to do with our relationship? But i heard that she was making all this up just to split us 2 up so please can you help me how to get her back


jess 9 years ago

theres this girl in my class im in high school i have a strange taste in girls but i dont think she even knows i exsist but she isnt populer she isnt as some boys would say sh eis very unatrackive but i think she is just fine maybe some boys say it cuz she isnt popular but she isnt the type to flirt she is just calm most of the time i NEVER see her anything but calm i think its well i dont wanna say cute cuz some ppl will take it wrong but i dont treat girls bad at all i have no idea what it is i dont she cares about looks i am trying to look my best she just doesnt seem to be interested in me but she is like my life i just need to get her i dont even NEED to be in a real relation ship yet she just seems like she's alone alot so i feel kinda bad but every time she looks at me i just freeze untill she looks away its just when she lloks at you i cant even look straight into her eyes i try to get noticed but she just doesnt seem to care so plz help me or tip me on what level i could get her to notice me she loves art but i hardly know alot about it but plz tell me what i should o to get her to notice me and/or talk to me or get her to like me so plz


zack s. 9 years ago

i've already had like 6 girl friends but I don't have confidence now. I had 3 when I was thin 2 when I was in the middle of fat and thin then I had 1 when I was fat anyway I just don't have confidence anymore so please help me


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sain 9 years ago

i fancy this girl like hell but i can't ask her out because she is always surronded by mates and my mates will think i'm a sissy, i have a reputation too keep


derrek willison 9 years ago

i get scard when i go to talkto a girl what to do??


paul felix 9 years ago

there is a girl at my school named Marymilt. I like her very much. i want to get the courage to ask her out but i cant because she might not like me because i'm fat. what should i do


mike 9 years ago

i met a girl online and i thaught that would be the last place i would ever wanna meet one but she is very cool, and i love talking to her we have so much in common there is just one problem, she just wants to keep it freinds and i dont mind, but dang i got enough friends all over the world as is, she is so special and i dont wanna tell her all this cuase then i think she wont even wanna talk to me then, how do i get out of this "freind zone" i really dont want her to get away i dont even know how a girl like this is even single, for now im going to just be a good freind as i am to all my freinds, i make her laugh alot and she says i am sweet, but i could really use some help on how to eventually get out of the freind zone, another problem is we are kinda far away from each other, plz email me or tell me some way to help


A person 9 years ago

There is this girl at my school who was at my primary school and was just re-united with. I didn't actually know who she was until about 2 months into the school term having been in the same class for this amount of time. I'm not even sure whether I like her but there seems to be something where she is always on my mind. Over half term it was just always in my mind.

Now, I'm a big guy but I don't necessarily think I'm that ugly, but am about 2 or 3 stone overweight. This is hard to admit but I haven't even come close to getting a girlfriend and I'm 16. I don't know why this is the situation because as I said, there are uglier guys than me who have had loads. My best mate just got a girl in the summer, he's 6 months older and I feel I need to beat him to it. 3 months or so to go before I am 17. This seems quite an embarrasment but I don't care. I've started to exercise more in the past couple of weeks and think I may have lost a little bit of weight, walking my dog twice a day for 20 minutes and going to the give 2 hours a week. This may still need some time before I get to the stage that I will feel confident. Now, that is another problem, I lack confidence. I have eyed up many girls but haven't felt comfortable even talking to them most of the time.

But back to this girl that I have just been re-united with. Well, we have talked once or twice, just exchanging few words but I'm still getting random feelings despite not knowing whether I want to go out with her (not that I feel I could anyway). I'm not sure whether she has a boyfriend but she seems quite intelligent and quite a nice person. She did once give me a wink but I think it was about a completely unrelated event. She seems to be alone sometimes but alot of the time I don't know where she is. I didn't really know her at primary school either.

So, can someone help? I'm not sure whether I want to go out with her but I still can't get her out of my head.


kendrick 9 years ago

can some one tell me hao to get a girl


freddy 9 years ago

I like this girl I dont know her name she came up to me and said if we wanted to be best friends I said okay. Then she asked for a dollar I gave her one. The next day at school i went up to her and talked to her i talked about my friends and also said does anyone give you money? she said their are some people who do i said im a nice guy i'll give you money she gave me a hug and left. I like her but I dont know if she likes me or just wants my money.


tima 9 years ago

i've many good friends who are girls but after a certain stage the relation neither develops nor takes another shape?????????how come???????has anyone got it.......


Sean J 9 years ago

There is this girl at school I knew since 9th grade I want to go out with her. I am shy and I am scared of girls. Please help me get this one girl, help a 15 bout to be 16 man!!!!!!!!!!


bullydomain 9 years ago

nice..i dont have any GF still..try to with above all tips


zack s. 9 years ago

I'm 13 years old but like i said i have had 6 girlfriends and have no confidence but can't anyone help me because I like a girl at my school and I know she has gone out with at least 8 of my friends but if there is anyone out there that can help me please HELP ME!


zack s. 9 years ago

I may not be a professional but u guys that have not had a girlfriend yet don't waste your time on the computer at school or on your gameboy at break or whatever go out and talk to your friends that may give a sign that u are lazy or something if u are on the computer or on your gameboy at break


hugo a gogo 9 years ago

dudes dudettes... ai have a serious prob there is a girl i reeaallyy like but she is like my best frend ive known her for 8 yrs and i live rite nxt door to her and she likes some other guy but i dont know who? ima complete nerd im not a social person but i dress nice and im realy shy. ive asked her to the movies before but it wasnt a date and she sed no. her name is robyn and she is very kind but sum times she protends i dont exist like wen shes around her frends. if any any1 has any advice much appreciated!!!!! :)


zack s. 9 years ago

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rachitha 9 years ago from Mangalore

just came across your article. Pretty interesting. Iam sure its helping a lot of people.Like you said not too difficult to get a girl but a guy has to be well mannered, polite, witty and kind hearted. It might sound old fashioned but its a fact. Sorry to make a statement like this but rarely do you find someone like that in our country.


love 4 ever 9 years ago

My friend also to say that-Once time Every men fall in. But I think why man fall in love? Why? Love is one kind of trape in this world have no love. Its a FUNNY & its feel in need a money. Love is not heart of life. So why we fall in love?

Amil

amilsdn@gmail.com


alex 9 years ago

OK

like many of you,im in a difficult situation, u see, im new in this new school and i fitted more than perfectly, people are allways around me talkin, etc (not to brag), and i became sorta friends wit this girl that in the moment i met her i liked her, we and her friends would allways go to eat in the cafeteria and have a chat and a few laughs, i noticed that she oftenly looked me in the eyes and then stare away, so emidiatly took that as a signal like that she also likes me

BUT NOW HERE COMES THE GOOD PART

i was wit a friend of mine talkin and we decieded to go to class to pick up somethin i forgot and while i was walking by the coridoor i saw her and her friends, she asked if i wanted to go wit her through the school since i wasnt doin anythin, i said YES why not, so we went and all and i noticed that my friend went directly to talk to her. i wasnt mad at this time, THEN

HERES THE ENDIN PART (the PART WHERE IM MAD)

i was invited to this party and my friend also, my friend got along very well with the girl i like and her friends, and at the party i noticed that she looked at him and not at me, so i asked her to separete herself from the party one moment and i asked her who does she like, she said

*IM BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR FRIEND* and i told her, *I NOTICED THAT U LOOKED AT HIM MORE* *SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHIN*

NOW we are just friends and my friend declared to her and since then my friend and the girl i like are more friends then ever

IM NOT JEALOUS IM PISSED I NEED HELP URGENTLY

to contact me: sachaeshuis_92@hotmail.com


sablysata 9 years ago

Am happy to be part of this,wat i know about gals is they want one who is willing to do everything they ask,their they feel loved but also gat a problem with ma gal its been a while when she does'nt show me any affection like she used and i think she's is cheating on me.Should i drop her?


zeke 9 years ago

Look, im 11 Ilike this really pretty girl and i cant find the courage to ask her out. We talk once in a while but she normally just talks about how much homework we have and how hard it is when she doesnt get the stuff we learn in class. I need to know how to properly ask her out.


matt 9 years ago

i need help i like this pretty girl she says hi every day but i dont have her classes how do i get to know her better and eventully ask her out


Jacob 9 years ago

Im 12 years old and I like this girl and I look at her and I wonder if I ever talked to her she might like me. How do I get the guts to go up and talk to her. And how do I get her attention


Lawl 9 years ago

wow "hugo a gogo" message me back if you want to talk i have the same problem. And the girls name is also robin!!


Cameren 9 years ago

I am great with girls. im going out with this girl called megan. Great tips. The funny thing is is that i have never asked a girl out and already have 34 girlfriends. yeah go ahead laugh it up.


stephen 9 years ago

there is this girl i REALY REALY like and i think she likes me to but i am un sure of myself and we dont know each other that much but the problem is that i am not bein more patiant


Josh 9 years ago

Theres this new girl at school i like alot but i dont know if she likes me


penguinKNG 9 years ago

Right guys this is the story.I have known this girl since I was 7 and I now realise I love her.shes all any boy would want shes smart, beautiful, she laughs at my jokes(bonus)and she doesnt have a boyfriend.But here is where it goes wrong shes a year older and she goes 2 an all girls school(I go to an all boys school)plus I dont want to lose her as a friend.So heres the deal im going to try impress her but not show off,ive all ready got my hair cut short and cool for her but she hasnt seen me yet how should I impress as I dont know what girls want.I know she is sensitive and crys a lot but I dont want to take advantage of her

pls write back on this website PLS


dom 8 years ago

all my friends have one but i dont Im in third grade please help me!!!!!!!


tj 8 years ago

thers agirl at my school that i like but she wants to no who i like. what do i do?


anonymous(WAN) 8 years ago

THIS IS WAT U DO?

PART1

I WAS ONCE LIKE ALL OF U. GOING AFTER GIRLS CHATTIN THEM EVERY DAY TRYIN TO GET THEIR ATTENTION IMPRESS THEM WENT THRU A LOT OF DEPRESSION. I WOULD OFTEN GET EXCITED WEN THEY SPOKE 2 ME AND DOWN WEN I FELT LEFT OUT. I WAS VERY INSECURE AND EASILY GOT JEALOUS.LIFE WAS CRAZY

I CARRIED ON LIFE THIS WAY IT WAS VERY DEPRESSING. AND THEN I BEGAN TO NOTICE SOMTHIN IN MY COLLEGE ABOUT GIRLS. THEY OFTEN ENDED UP LIKING A GUY WHO SHOWED LITTLE OR NO INTEREST OR WAS NOT OBSESSIVE WITH THEM. THIS I FOUND DIFFICULT TO UNDERSTAND AND I ALSO CONSIDERED THE FACT THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SOME GIRLS BUT STILL DNT GET THEM .BUT THEN I ALSO REALISED INSTEAD OF MOANING AND COMPLAINING THEY COULDNT GET A GIRLFRIEND THESE GUYS JST SET OUT POSITIVELY TOWARDS LIFE.HAD FUN AND MOST IMPORTANTLY FOCUSED ON THEIR GOALS E.G SPORTS GETTIN SLIMMER(WORKIN OUT) JOGGIN.

"FOR EXAMPLE THERE WAS THIS GUY WEN HE FIRST CAME INTO SCHOOL HE WAS AN UGLY UNATTRACTIVE EMO DEPRESSED AND ANTI SOCIAL PERSN.HE WAS TINY AS WELL. SUBTLY HE SET GOALS FOR HIMSELF. TO BE A VERY GOOD SWIMMER, TO BE MUSCULAR AND TO BE 6 FOOT 1(AT THIS TIME HE WAS 5"8").I REMEMBER HIM SLEEPING A LOT DRINKING LOADS OF MILK SWIMMING(ALL THESE APPARENTLY HELP U GROW) DOING LOADS OF EXERCISE . NOW HE CAME OUT OF NOWHERE NOT ONLY IS HE 6 FT 1 BUT HE IS MUSCULAR AND ALL THE GIRLS FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE. AS A MATTER OF FACT HE HAS EVEN REJECTED A HOT!!!! GIRL RECENTLY WHO IS DYING FOR HIM.Y? BECAUSE HE HAD A GOAL AND STILL IS GOAL DRIVEN. GIRLS FIND GUYS WHO ARE GOAL DRIVEN ATTRACRIVE.NOT ONLY THAT BUT BEING GOAL DRIVEN CAN GET U OUT OF DEPRESSION.

PART2

MY OBSERVATIONS WENT ON. AND THEN I REALISED ANOTHER POINT.BEING A NICE GUY IS THE WORST ISTAKE I MADE. ALL THESE YEARS I THOT BEING A NICE GUY WOULD GET ME GIRLS BUT HEN I REALISED THAT BEING NICE TO GIRLS ONLY GIVES THEM THE REMOTE CONTROL TO MYIFE. THERE IS NICE GUY WHO CAN BE COCKY AND NOT NICE SOMETIMES AND THERE IS MR NICE GUY WHO IS NICE ALL THE TIME.HE IS THE 1 WHO GETS INTO PROBLEMS.

IMAGINE A CONVERSATION WITH A GIRL ON MSN

NICE GUY:HEY HOW R U?

GIRL(NEUTRAL)ALRITE U?

NICE GUY:IM GUD THANK YOU .HOW WAS UR DAY?

GIRL(NEUTRAL)IT WAS TIRING THO. IWENT SHOPPING U?

NICE GUY:IT WAS TIRING AS WELL(MISTAKE 1 AGREEING WITH GIRL ALL THE TIME MAKES U SEEM LIKE U HAVE NO OPINIONS OF YOUR OWN.UNINDEPENDENT)

GIRL(LOSING INTEREST):OH FUNNY COINCIDENCE ISNT IT

NICE GUY:YES I KNOW

GIRL(BORED LOST INTEREST): DOES NOT REPLY

RESULT: NICE GUY FEELS OFFENDED PROBABLY ENDS UP DEPRESSED.

HAVE U IDENTIFIED THE PROBLEM OF BEING TOO NICE. IT NOT ONLY MAKES CONVERSATIONS BORING AND DULL IT ALSO POTRAYS U MORE SUITABLE AS BEING THE FRIEND(FRIEND =ZONE GRRR TLK BOUT THAT LATER)

THE NICE BUT OFTEN COCKY FUNNY AND NOT NICE PERSON

MR NOT NICE:HEY GIRL HOWZ IT GOIN?

GIRL:(INTERESTED)(DUE TO ENTHUSIASTISM OF GUY): HEY IM ALRITE HOWZ U?

MR NOT SO NICE: K I GUESS. RELAXING WATCHIN TV GETTIN ALL THE CHICS(HES JOKIN BUT HES BEIN COCKY) QUITE COOL.WAT U BIN UP 2?

GIRL(INTERESTED):SHOPPING IM WATCHING A SHOW CALLED BBC PRIME U LIKE IT?

NOT SO NICE GUY:NO I DONT ITS FOR WEIRDOS(JOKIN)

PAUSE

GIRL(SHOCKED THINKS HES AGREESIVE)THEN..

NOT SO NICE BOY:IM JOKIN DONT CRY LOVE U RELI(HE HAS TAKEN CONTROL OF THE SITUATION AND CHANCE ARE SHE IS MORE ATTRACTED TO HIM AND FINDS HIM MORE INTERESTING)

BEING COCKY AND FUNNY WIT

E.G BOY: HOWS IT FEEL LIKE TO BE MY SLAVE(JOKIN)

GIRL:NO UR MY SLAVE

BOY: AWWWWWW THATS NICE OF U S. sexually L. loving A.and V.very E.entertaining.

HER THE GUY TAKES CONTROL

BUT NOTE::::::WEN BEING MEAN OR MAKING FUN OF GIRLS B SURE TO SHOW HER U R NOT BEING SERIOUS. A HUG AFTERWARDS SHOULD DO THE TRICK OR MAYB A RUB ON THE SHOULDER OR A NODGE.

PART 3

I MYSELF HAD CHECKED MANY WEBSITES FOR HELP ON GIRLS. I WAS DESPERATE. I MAINLY WANTED TO KNOW HOW TO CHANGE GIRLS FROM FRIENDS TO GIRL FRIENDS. DIDNT FIND MUCH. SO I OBSERVED MY LIFE AND SURROUNDINGS.

I IDENTIFIED THESE PROBLEMS I HAD BY BEIN FRIENDS WITH A GIRL I LIKED

1.I WAS TOO NICE

2.SPOKE TO HER TOO MUCH

3.MY MOODS BEING CONTROLLED BY HER SHE HAD THE REMOTE CONTROL OF MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAVIN GIRLS AS FRIENDS CAN BE USEFUL SOMETIMES FOR HOOKING UP WITH OTHER GIRLS HOWEVER TOO MANY AND O GIRL FRIENDS CAN BE VERY FRUSTRATING.THRU OBSERVATION I REALISED THESE CAN CHANGE UR GIRL FRIEND FROM SEEING U AS A FRIEND INTO SOMTHIN SPECIAL AND NOT NECESSERILY BOY FRIEND

1.MAKE HER JEALOUS

2.GIVE HER LITTLE ATTENTION

3.DO NOT B TOO NICE

4.U HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL

5.AVOID SHARING SECRETS AND BEING TRUSTWORTHY TOO HER

FINALE

WELL YES I KNOW THESE ARE A BIT TOO MUCH INFO TOO TAKE BUT TRY. AFTER THESE OBSERVATIONS AND MORE I APPLIED THEM. IFOUND APPROACHING A GIRL PARTICCULARLY DIFFICULT AS WELL AS ASKIN THEM OUT.I WAS VERY SHY. I NEEDED MOTIVATION BUT NOTHING HELPED I WASNT CONFIDENT ENOUGH.AND THEN I SAW SOME QUOTATIONS THAT I WILL SHARE WITH YOU AT THE END. NOW I AM POSITIVE , CONFIDENT, COCKY ,FUNNY , I BELIEVE IM ATTRACTIVE AND EFFECTIVELY MOST GIRLS THNK SO. IM GOAL DRIVEN AND IVE HAD 19 GIRLFRIENDS SO FAR THIS YEAR. THE "BEING YOURSELF" THEME WILL NOW B CLARIFIED.TOO BE URSELF MEANS TO DO WAT U R MOST CAPABLE OF DOIN(POTENTIAL) IN A SENSIBLE MANNER. MEANING FOR INSTANCE U MAY NOT B FUNI AT THE MOMENT BUT U COULD BE SO Y NOT B, THS DOES NOT MEAN UR NT BEING YOURSELF.I WOULD TRY AND KEEP U GUYS POSTED BUT LET ME LEAVE U WITH THESE.

"LIFE IS SHORT"

"TAKE RISKS WE WOULD NOT BE IN A WORLD LIKE TODAY IF PEOPLE DIDNT TAKE RISKS E.G MARTIN LUTHER KING,SOLDIERS IN ARMY ETC.

"FAILURE IS THE BEGGINNING OF SUCCESS, ASK OUT URE ONE AND ONLY, IF U FAIL MOVE ON"

"WEN PEOPLE BECOME SUCCESSFULL THROUGH RISKS WE TALK ABOUT THEIR SUCCESS AND NOT THEIR PREVIOUS FAILURES"

"BE GOAL DRIVEN MOTIVATED AND NOT OBSESSIVE OVER FEMALES"

"AVOID MOANING COMPLAINING DESPERATION IS UNATTRACTIVE AND LEAVES U HOPLESS"

"GO TO BED EVERY DAY KNOWING YOU HAVE DISCOVERED SOMTHING NEW"

MAY GOD HELP U ALL

STAY POSITVE


Sammy 8 years ago

The girl next door. I have been intrested for a while and am just about to ask her out.


RJ 8 years ago

guys what is the worst that can happen if she says no its just a no don't let one persons opinion break you be strong you have your whole life ahead of you I have a girlfriend ...and im not anything neer to perfect trust me if I can get a girl you can!!!!


GREG 8 years ago

D***!!! IM TRY TO WIN THIS LOVEING GIRL AT SCHOOL NAME CARHA BUT THESE JACKASS NERDS LOVE HER AND ONE NAME ARIAL WHOES FROM MEXICO WHO BEATS HIS SIS AND CHEATS ON HIS SIS TEST AND ONE DAY HE LIED TO ME SAYING HE WAZ GOING TO GO OUT WITH HER AND BOY! HE IS SOME BITCH BUT I TALK TO HER A LIL AND SHE TALKS TO ME A LIL AND PLAYS JOCKS ON ME AND GET THIS ONE MONTH MY FRIEND SAID THAT SHE WANTS TO MARY ME IN AUG OR SEP BUT THAT WHENE I WAZ 11 BUT NOW IM 12 AND I NEED HELP BADLY BECAUSE ITS CHANCHING BADLY


brian  8 years ago

Im in 9th grade and ive never had a girlfriend, I know.....pathetic. but i really need sombody to tell me how to talk to this girl i like. i just get so nervous and couped up when i approach her, it's just hard to keep a coversation going.

somboy please tell me how to talk to her so she'll like me.


turtleman 8 years ago

hey their is this chick at my school and i think i am in love with her nut i kinda dont know what to do or say so i need help thanks


PRADO 8 years ago

Well first thing first not all girls  are the same...some like..#1. nice guys#2. rich guys#3. cocky/nice guys#4. athletic guys#5. and a guy whos himself..not trying to be some1 else...b4 anything happens talk to the girl try 2 find out what kinda of guy she wants in her life.after all that is done just have conversations with her, take her out some wheres, have a little fun..and after seeing her for  a bit and u know that she likes u, go for it and aske her out..its pretty simple .i used these methods to go out with a teen model..so u can too!


cole 8 years ago

it would be nice to get a girlfriend since im 12 years old. need help .


David lonely 8 years ago

Ive been so lonely since starting middle school I need tips on how to get girls or I will die or broken-heart-syndron


.... 8 years ago

hey im 13 i like this girl rite but like how do i no if she likes me ?

and wen i try to talk to her i jus freeze and dont no wat to say can someone plz help

if any1 no plz help


LLam 8 years ago

Sup so you want a girl ay fine a couple of tips i suggest seemin az ur all so desperate 4 help  1. if the chick/babe has msn get hers seriously the amount of times you can get a date or better yet layed is infinite rember ask how was there day compliment them blah blah eventually they actually wanna talk 2 u then the trust builds step 2. yer approaching chicks is hard cause u look like a clown but dont sweat it approach her act cool and calm seriously makes u look betta and improves ur chances a girl likes someone whos easygoing and dosent shit himself just try it 3. try to be yourself and chill out around the ladies 4. to sum it all up be confident act cool play it smooth and just go for it cause you might just get that date gud luck>


co_word  8 years ago

just go and fetch her am i right i hope so.


kev 8 years ago

theres a girl ive bean looking at 4 3 years what do i do?


mike 8 years ago

your informtion helped, now i got the hottest girl at school after me, and she asked me out and i make her laugh alot, i use to be too funny in class but since I havent, people started to notice i liked the girl.... soo :0 thx


mike 8 years ago

your informtion helped, now i got the hottest girl at school after me, and she asked me out and i make her laugh alot, i use to be too funny in class but since I havent, people started to notice i liked the girl.... soo :0 thx


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Research Analyst 8 years ago

Great hub, I have a question for you, if woman say they want a nice, romantic, honest guy. Why do they fall in love with the inconsiderate jerk?


maniac 8 years ago

hi every i am looking fo a girlfriend for more that two months i will need a lot of support and advise as i am a well diciplined and honest thank u anyway my real name iskavy


unknown  8 years ago

i really like this girl shes in my class im in grade 8 and i dont know how to get her becuase all the cool kids hang out with her and there's this other guy who is trying to get her and hes doing good ,, i may get jealous and i feel like knocking him out , so what should i do


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blerim 8 years ago from BOSTON

Fellas all you have to do is relax and be yourself nothing more. its not that hard


stoli321 8 years ago

Nice Guys always finish last that is a true statement


john 8 years ago

i like this girl in my class named "sade" she is a fine looking thing. she likes me.thanks for the information


Mike'y 8 years ago

Thanks alot. I am a skater/joc. I am going to try this girl I haved like for 2 years. she is hot. Thanks for the info.


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websurfpro 8 years ago

Great Hub , I really enjoyed it, especilly the comments. It`s good to know that girls need more attention from us men , it`s not that we don`t know how to ask them out , of course we know , but we start to like someone we become a little unconfident about that person , what she or he thinks of us etc. , so we loose our confidence a little and don`t have the courage to ask out. All we need is to build up that courage and go talk to the person! Happy Valentines everyone


need a girl 8 years ago

thanks for tips i need bad i havent had a girlfriend and im in 6th grade, i just don't have the guts to ask anyone and i like a lot of people, but they look at me like a retard. well thanks again


Fterm 8 years ago

im 12 years old and i havent had a girlfriend. Girls are always saying im good looking and that i have a beautiful smile but im just looking for the right one.I have a lot of friends and That really helps you ,u know you can always make fun of them just to make a girl laugh lol

Help please!!!!!!


alex 8 years ago

it can be really hard to get a girl freind, do you have eny freinds that ask you you got a girl freind?, I stand there and think or sometimes say know sometimes they trei to help me out, thers a girl I like in school but I dont what to do you never know wat will thay think abaut me.


unidetentifeid 8 years ago

theres a girl shes my friend and one day i just liked her and i started to woory how i smelled my hair my clothes and now i dont know what to do


Zeke 8 years ago

Look people im not that attractive but i like this girl at my school really bad and i dont she likes me. And i probably insulted her friend one time and i opologized to her friend instead of her and im kinda shy around her. WAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?!?


Christian 8 years ago

HElO me THERES A GIRL SUPER HOT AND I NEEED HELPPPPPPPPPPPP

PLZ SOME ONE

THEY THINK IM FAT UGLY AND IDIOTBUT IF THEY KNOW ME MORE THEY WOULDNT THINK THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO

IF SOMEONE HELP ME PLZ SAY IN COMMENT 123


Anony-Man 8 years ago

I R-E-A-L-L-Y like


Anony-Man 8 years ago

I R-E-A-L-L-Y like this


Anony-Man 8 years ago

sorry about that, ok, i really like this girl at school, but i dont know if were "there" yet, i also share alot of her friends (who happen to be girls) and dont want them to react badly eitehr, if you have an answer, please email me, salmonerd1250@hotmail.com


Anony-Man 8 years ago

if those last comments worked, please respong to salmonerd1250@hotmail.com before Valentine's Day orr 2/14/08 PLEASE


HELP 8 years ago

Hello i go to middle school and I like this one girl and so what i do is try to ask one of my friend... but they have girl friends that is so hawt and they told me that im not there friend any more and said that they will never talk to me ever 'till i get a GF. PLEASE HELP ME! I dont even know how to talk to her! Ok, but theres like 3 girls i like and 1 of em already likes some one else for sure... But i like her the most. I think shes hot. I dont know what to do though... that girl likes a boy that is my friend. I asked him how he got her and he said that he knew she likes him so he just asked her out... PLEASE HELP MEE!!!!!!!


someone 8 years ago

There is this girl at my school shes hot even with nothing on her shoulders but she hates me IIII NEED HELPPPPPPP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


stanley 8 years ago

hey this is stanley there is this one girl i like alot but she dont like me because i some redneck hick from alabama thats obsessed with fishing "which i am" but im to nervous to ask her out any hints


rubert bubbles 8 years ago

i need help i already have a girlfriend and the only thing that she seems to like is sex i mean thats pretty cool but i think she is cheating on me i don't know what to do


christ anome 8 years ago

hi my name is christ anome i have this problem that i need help with but i don't know what to do you see i got my self in a little not at school i have three girlfriends and it worked out pretty good at first untill they knew about eatch other now its like they want to kill me and the worst part is one of my girlfriends are pragnet with my baby and she doesn't want to get an aborshon what should i do im in a lot of treble right now please help me as soon as possible iv tried every other place please help me my name is christ anome and i would like a answer quickly thankyou


cd95 8 years ago

theres this girl named blair wallace and i think she is ssssssssssssssssssssooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hot!!!!! if i could only get the guts to ask her out to bad i cant ask any one out till im 16.


Dubble D 8 years ago

I just stumbled across this site by accident but its kinda ironic im going through a similar thing,ive been talking to this girl on MSN alot recently who ive never met or seen before,just seen photos and spoken to her an absolute ton but i already think im going crazy about her haha. I lack alot of confidence and ive been single for a while but i honestly think im too bad a looking guy(without sounding big headed) but its the way you go about it that counts. You cant sit in your room and expect to hear the door-bell ring one day and the most amazing girl youve ever seen is just standing their and asks you out...wake the hell up thats not how it works. Alot of the comments ive read through....you guys seem desperate as hell,im 20 in june and ive only had two propper girlfriends,one when i was 16 for 13months and one when i was 18 for about 4months. And you know what....as depressing as it is ive been single for so long,it doesnt really bother me that much because ive put absolutely no effort into ever findign a nice girlfriend. Even both the girlfriends ive had were pretty flukey by all accounts. Guys if you want to meet that special someone then go out and look for her,socialise as much as you can go out do stuff,go to partys,and if you see someone you like atleast have the confidence to let her know youve seen her however you do it.Rejection is a part of life,and its always going to be trial and error but the more times you dont get what you want,the closer to get to what you want.Take it easy people ^^


Dubble D 8 years ago

***i dont think im too bad a looking guySorry just thought id correct that as it doesnt make much sense otherwise lol


someone 8 years ago

hi its me someone well i found out that girl is a total devil and freak


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Panic 39 8 years ago

You guys just need to be confident and hit these girls up. If you get rejected Oh Well their loss and move on to the next one.


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ronald lewis 8 years ago from TN

there is one thing to do to get the perfect girl for u. no matter how cute or ugly u think u are.

Be yourself.


Someone 8 years ago

i agree with Panic 39 just be yourself who cares if you get rejected its not the end of the world


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Decrescendo 8 years ago

Can you help me with my situation.

Ok about 4 years ago this cute girl had a crush on me but I didn't have one on her. A few months after I had a big crush on her (the same girl) but she did not on me.

So now four years to the present do I still have a chance dating her.


Rothnak 8 years ago

Now I love a girl. I know her when I advertise in the new paper to find for friends. At first she call me to ask for a friend and I accepted. After we talk by phone 3 weeks ago, she made an appointement with me and I went to met her. When I shaw her at the first time, I fell I am fall in love with her and I don't talk any more to her. After we met each other she doesn't call me any more as before. So now I want to ask all of you, How Can I Make Her To Love Me? If someone have the solution of this, please help me by contact me by email: roth_pnk@yahoo.com Thank in advance. Sorry for the mistakes, because I am not clear in english language. (I am Cambodian)


rg012 8 years ago

There is a girl in my class that I really like. I don't Know if she likes me though. Everyday in class I turn to look at her and she's looking at me. Our school went to a championship game and she was there. She sat right behind me poking me on the back, touching my hair, and always smiling and laughing when I say "What are you doing." One time in science class she started playing footies with me. She once said I was hot! But There is another guy she says is REALLY REALLY HOT! I want to know if she likes me still.


Cheerleader 8 years ago

This was very informative. Thanks a million for posting this.

The Cheerleader


adicto 8 years ago

i like this kind of emo girl, but im gothic, strange and very very very very violent how could i go out whit her?


awesome info 8 years ago

great info thank you


awesome info 8 years ago

great info thank you


bob 8 years ago

thanks


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sn350 8 years ago

This is a trip seriously. All my friends have gf's, except me! I THINK im better looking than my friends whose got their girls. I seem to have trouble because Im very picky when it comes to girls. I think I lack in making girls comfortable, it jus makes me a lil nervous around girls who are prettier than others. Some girls lead me on, making me think they want me and when I call em the next day they totally act like they dont know me. I just cant figure out how to get that 100% attention from girls. Sometimes I let my self down to hard and get all emotional. It sucks and I could really use some helpful advice. Thanx & this site really got some tips.


Tcnolife 8 years ago

i ben bitchin over this girl for two years nw i bin tryin to keep it cool until hearts day but when isen some body to do a meet it happen but they say no


Joe 8 years ago

there is this girl at my school with brown hair and brown eye and i like her a lot!!! I'm sort of good friends with her wat should i do???


Getting your ex girlfriend back 8 years ago

Picking up a girl takes the same skills as getting your ex girlfriend to come back to you after she dumped you.


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sandalss 8 years ago from can i live at your house?

you sadden me with your posts


Billy bob Ben 8 years ago

There is this girl at school i like and somebody is spreading it aroud school. If you will, tell us how to impress a girl before asking her anything. Billy bob Ben


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stevemark122000 8 years ago from Southern California

Interesting hub. Very practical information. I am sure it has helped a lot of guys find a girlfriend. Great Job.


guy 8 years ago

i was going to ask out this really fit girl at my school, and i told my mate stephen but then he happened to be a prick, coz in science he went up to her and made up a load of crap that wasn't true and most of it was really perverted. and then she believed it and now she won't even look at me she thinks i am some idiot. so i went over to stephen and hit him several times pretty damn hard. so now she not only thinks i am an idiot, but she also thinks i am a violent retard as well - which i'm not. so the next week, i go to ask some other girl out, but guess what? girl #1 has gone and blabbed to the whole school, so now everyone thinks i'm a complete dickhead and no-one will go out with me...

HELP!!!!!!


Jimmy 8 years ago

I Need Help :9

I've Never Had A Girlfriend I've Never Tryed to Get One Reallt But I Think It's Hard To Ask Girls Out Incase They Already Have A Boyfriend Or I Get Rejected But I Can Deal With That But Now I See All These Couples And It Makes Me Think More So I've Changed All My Look Etc.. And Theres This Girl I Like But Haven't Got The Guts To Talk To Her :(

Can You Help ?


neeraj 8 years ago

Helpful stuff


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Sandilyn 8 years ago from Port Orange, FL

Interesting hub. Now I am not looking to ask a girl out. I am looking for interesting answers to this age old question. I have a son that is looking and it is so hard to find a good woman. Where are they????

In a woman's point of view guys, just be yourself. That's all women want. They just want to have fun and a little romance along the way. Treat them like a lady though.


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shira 8 years ago from U.S.A

This is great info, well written and very Interesting ! I love this hub.

Thanks

:-)


josef  8 years ago

well i am 21 years old and i never had real gf girls seems to say i am handsome but i dunno why i never get gf , i got nice hair black brown eyes and long eye lashes i am 5/7 , and i am very confident with myself that i am good looking but some times girls reject me ? why is that , i am very funny guy very sweet and girls attend to go with other non good looking guys what can i do to change?


antonio 8 years ago

hi my name is antonio i liked a girl at the beggining of the year then i started liking an other girl named morgan.anyway now i like the girl i liked at the beggining of the year her name is savanna.we usualy talk on the phone but were still just freinds. one day she called me and said: i fell depressed. i asked y? she said because i dont like shaun anymore.Shaun he is a jock who is popular. so i kept guessing who it was she liked and finaly i said me.And she said:maayybbee.Im like r u serious? she said ya.again im like seriously?and shes like yep. im like whoa she actualy liks me!! so i said am my your boyfreind now? shes like i dont know? so i said this is kind of akward. and she said howd u think i feel. so isaid oh and this mite sound like a little kid sope opra but this is it.:so want to give being boy freind girlfreind a try? she says i dont know? well i said we should. and i said heres the sope opra part. well we can still be freinds. she says ya. then i say none of us we"ll get hurt. she says rite.WRONG! so we start talking about how to make this realationship work. so she has to get off the fone. so i get her a gift for r first day of dating. the gift was a little ring i was going to give her for valentines day but didnt. so i go to school and i make an excuse to go to the restroom when i see her go. so i go i meet her and she says she has to talk to me. i say ok. she says that was all a next door neighbors idea that we play a joke on you to make you think i like u. for a second i could not breath. i say oh. I felt so friggan crushed. i just couldnt belive shed do that. so i walked back to my homeroom crushed. so i caller after schools over and she explained everything. so i didnt feel so effed up after that. so the next day i ask her to be my girlfreind. ya know wat she says.NO!!!!!!! so thats pretty much it. and oh if savanna if u read this i hope u know how i feel.


billy james 8 years ago

thanks for your encouragement


8 years ago

penguinkng igo to an all boy school aswell and i liked this girl and now shes mine bcause all i did was find something to say then went and talked to her she took a real shine


coveredinsevindust 8 years ago

Trey maybe you should try using a bear trap.


Anon 8 years ago

Just calm down will you. I'm 17, have never had a gf in my life and am probably the happiest person in the world. I seriously don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. I'm sure if anything really happens it'll fall right into your lap, for me thats the point, unless its a definite long-term thing theres no way I'd go chasing up mountains to get someone. Some of you just seem to want to flash off a trophy and thats pretty unfair on the person you're targetting. Just relax and live life without getting worked up about this sort of thing.


lalala 8 years ago

how do u get a girlfriend in 6th grade? only got 12 days for an answer


lil g boii 8 years ago

the girl i like dont like gangesters wat shuld i do


lil g boii 8 years ago

the girl i like dont like me but i rly like her tried askin her out once but she just lookd at me an walkd way every once in a wile i see here in the hall at school and shes lookin at me then she smiles at me i dont know if i shuld try askin her again


Dominic 8 years ago

i asked a girl out today at my skool and she said i dont know but we have so much in commen [example]same hair same fav coler if she dose say yes i dont know what to say


Dominic 8 years ago

WHAT DOSE SHE MEAN BY "I DON'T KNOW" AND IF MY DREAM DOSE SAY YAS WHERE AM I GOING TO TAKE HEAR WHERE DO GIRLS LIKE TO GO FUN FAIRS?I JUST DONT KNOW WHERE TO TAKE HER OR WHAT TO SAY


Corey 8 years ago

Hey,I'm kind of ugly and a little chubby but there is this girl at my school and I REALLY like her. I hung out with her for the whole year and made her laugh, hung out with her friends and i was pretty sure she liked me. I asked her out and she said no. :'( Can anyone tell me how to ask her out again? (it is currently summer)


tonyp 8 years ago

im popular and confident but girls are my friends and i like a lot of them dont know what to do


Pete 8 years ago

What if you already told her that you like her? Thank You


matt 8 years ago

i have liked this girl for like 2 years. she has said that she has liked me in the past. shes a year older than me but im pretty much a stud and lots of girls think im hot. how do i land her


bk3 8 years ago

iv got no chance. if i ask her out and she says no and tells her uncle i will be fired from my job. so what i do i dont have a clue


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joblot 8 years ago from Ringwood

This is really good, sensible advice. Most of the articles written about this tend to be about how to trick women into going to bed with you. Most people just want somebody to love and to love them. If you follow this advice you are far more likely to get a long-term rewarding relationship. Good stuff!


big mac 8 years ago

i hav hot girls at my school an im afraid to ask one of them out


JOHN 8 years ago

HI I WAS WONDERING IF THE GIRL I LIKE IS TOTALY POPULARE AND SHE IS NEVER ALONE AND I WANT TO ASK HER OUT THEN WHAT SHOULD I DO I DONT UNDERSTAND PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE ANY BUDDY ELSE ASKES HER OUT MY WHOLE WORLD WOULD BE DESTROYED I THNK YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH THIS BEFORE SO PLEASE HELP


وصفات البشرة 8 years ago

thanks nice hubpage


Dodge 8 years ago

H I REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL BUT I DONT HAVE THE GUTTS TO ASK HER OUT BUT I CAN EASILY MAKE GIRLS MY FRIEND BUT I DONT HAVE GUTTS TO ASK ANY OF THEM OUT I DO LIKE THIS GIRL BUT I ODNT KNOW FI SHE LIKES ME IVE KNOW HER FOR ATLEAST 2 YRS BUT SHE A YEAR OLDER THN ME SO I DONT THIN I SHUD GO FOR IT PLZ HELP I LIKE THIS FIRL WHOS ALSO MY AGE OR 2MONTH YOUNGER SHE LIKES ME CUZ SHE KEEP LOOKIN AT ME WEN EVR IM AROUND AN SHE BEEN ROUND MY HOUSE AN SHT AN I TRYED TO ASK HER BUT THEN SHE HAD TO GO HOME AN THT LIKE 50MILES AWAY BUT I WOULD GO ANYWAY TO SEE HER I ONLY SEE HER WEN SHE VISIT HER COUSIN (MY NEXT DOOR NEIBOR) SHE A BEAUTIFULL GIRL SHE FUNNY ATLETIC AN SMART BUT IM KINDA BIG I GOT A 4PAC AN EXERCISE DAILY BUT I DONT THIN SHE LIKES ME I SEE HER OFTEN SO I DONT REALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO AN HER PARENT WONT LET HER OUT THE HOUSE TO SEE A MOVIE CUZ I ASKED HE AN HE SAID OK THEN SHE TOLD HER DAD AN HE SAID HELL NO U AINT TAKIN MY DAUGHTER AWAY. AN I WAS LIKE WTF U BASTARRD SHE SAID YES SO I AN SHE WANT TO GO THEN I WENT TO FRANCE WITH HER AN I NEARLY KISSED HER BUT THEN HER BROTHER STORMED INTO THE ROOM AS I WAS ABOUT TO KISS HER I STILL CANT ASK HER OUT WHATS WRONG WITH ME IM CONFIDENT IM OK LOOKIN IM NOT THT POPULAR IN MY SCHOOL MOST PPL THING IM SUM GEEK BUT I CAN EASILY WHOOP THEM AT ANY SPORT IM PRETTY STUPID AT MATHS BUT I WRITE STORYS SO IM GOOD AT ENGLISH I DONT KNO WWHT TO DO I WANT TO ASK HER OUT BUT HER DAD WILL GO BILISTIK AN SAY FUCK OF U LIL FAGGOT OR SUM SHT LIKE THT SO I DONT HAVE THE GUTS I KNOW ITS KINDA FREAKY TRY TO GET A GIRL WHO COUSIN TO MY NEXT DOOR NEIBOR AH PLZ HELP ME I PLAYED BLIND MAN BLUFF WITH HER ASWELL AN SHE KISSED ON THE CHEEK ME BUT WE HAVNT REALLY TALKED THT MUCH SINCE THEM SO I CAN TGET OFF WITH HER I THINK I JUST NEED TO GT THE GAGG OF THE DAD TO SAY I CAN TAKE HER OUT HOW THE HELL AM I GUNNA DO THT WITH OUT THE DAD DOIN A COMPLETE RAMPAGE PLZ HELP I LIKE HER SO MUCH I WOULD TAKE A BULLET FOR HER IDK IF PPL THINK IT CHEESY CUZ I WOULD AH I NEED HELP DESPARATLY I WONDER IF VE WRITTEN TO MUCH CUZ I WANT TO WRITE MORE OK LIKE ONE OF MY FRIENDS TAKIN THE MICKY CUZ SHE A COUSIN TO MY NEXT DOOR NEIBOR BUT HE LIKES HER TO BUT HES A GEEK BUT HE HAS ASKED A GIRL OUT BEFORE AN SHE SAID YES AN SHE WAS PRETTY HOT BUT NOT MY TYPE SO I DONT WANT TO LOSE THE GIRL I LOVE CUZ THEN I WILL BE HEART BROKEN AN BE A NERVOUS WREAK I WROTE A POEM FOR HER FOR VALETIMES DAY AN SHE BLUSHED A LOT BUT SHE STIL THINKS IM JUST A FRIEND WHO LIKES HER A LOT I KNOW SHE HASNT GOT A BF BUT I HAVNT MEET HER FRIEND TO ASK WHAT SHE LIKES AN STUFF IM GOIN TO TRY AN GET OFF WITH HER NEXT TIME SHE COMES DOWN TO MY NEIBOR HOOD YES IM ENGLISH SO AN I GO PRIVATE SCHOOL WHICH IS GOOD AN BAD MOSLTE BAD.... CUZ 1 NO GIRLS THERE 2 I GET OUT LATE CUZ IM A REBEL SOMETIMES 3 IM NOT THT POPULAR BUT IM FRIEND WHID THE MOST POPULAR PPL BUT NEVER GET INVITED TO POOL PARTYS WERE GIRLS COME BUT IM GOIN TO TRY AN GET OFF WITH THE GIRL I LIKE ONCE IM PROB REJECTED I WILL BE HEARTBROEKN AN WILL PROB DITCH SCHOOL AN STUFF BUT I WANT TO TAKE HER SAILIN CUZ I THINK SHE WILL LIKE IT CUZ I LOVE WATER AN SO DOES SHE I HAVNT REALLY HAD MY FIRST KISS DONT TAKE THE MICKY IM AM ON THE SIDELINES MY BEST FRIEND HE BASICALLY THE COOLEST PERSON IN SCHOOL HE MY FRIEND HE TRIED HOOK ME UP BEFORE BUT NEVER DID ALL HE DOES IS BASICALLY WALK UP TO A GIRL AN SAY WANNA GO OUT HE COOL BUT HES AN IDIOT IM NOT OFFENDIN EMOS CUZ HE TRY TO SLIT HIS WRISTS IN SCIENCE THEN THE NEX MONTH HE JUST DUMPS THE GIRL FOR A BETTER ONE IM ONLY 12 IDK IF IM 2 YOUNG TO HAVE A GF MY FIRNED JACK HADS HAD OVER 21 IN A YEAR AN HES 12 TOO I WASH EXERCISE IM A BIT SHY BUT I CAN TALK TO A GIRL I ALWAYS PUTT FAMIL FRIEND AN THE GIRL I LIKE MOST BEFORE MYSELF IM NOT THT COOL BUT IM KIND I NEVER HOLD A GRUDGE I GET A BIT EMOTIONLE SOMETIME WELL THT TEENAGERS I LIKE TO HAVE FUN AN ENJOY LIFE I TRY MY BEST AT MATHS I DO LIKE HAVIN GIRLS AROUND ME THT LIKE ME BUT I DONT HAVE THE GUT TO ASK THEM OUT LAST MONTH I TRYED TO ASK HER OUT BUTT ALL I GOT WAS A WINK A HUG AN AN OUTRAGE FROM HERE DAD SO I HAVNT A CLUE WHAT I SHOULD DO SHE FLIRTS WITH ME I FLIRT WITH HER AN WEN SHE CRYED I COMFORTED HER IM A GOOD FRIEND BUT WE BOTH WANT EACH OTHER CUZ SHE TOLD ME SHE LIKES ME A LOT AN THT WAS BEFORE SHE HAD A VERY GORGEOUS BODY AN LOOKS AN NOW I LIKE HER EVEN MORE CUZ WE BOTH LIKE THE SAME THINGS MOSTLY I WANTED TO TAKE HER DOWN THE ROAD TO CAFE NERO SHE SAID YES I GOT HER DOWN THERE AN WE TALKED A LOT IS THT A KIND OF DATE BUT WE DIDNT KISS WE JUST HAD A COKE AN CAKE AHH SO PLZ HELP ME MESSAGE ME AT JACK.SEAL@HOTMAIL.CO.UK ITS A FAKE NAME I USE BUT IT IS A REAL EMAIL SO EMAIL ME WITH ADVICE BUT I WANNA CHAT SOME MORE PLZ LET ME

OK IVE TOL U I DONT GOT THT MUCH GOOD LOOKS FOR SUM REASON MY EYES CHANGE COLOUR THROUGH OUT THE YEAR SO LIKE I AM STRANGE AN UNREQONIABLE SOMETIMES LIKE IN SUMMER IF I GROW MY HAIR A BIT LONGER AN MY EYES ARE BLUE PPL WONT KNOW ITS ME AN WINTER THER BROWN SO I HAVE MY HAIR SHORT AN THEN GREEN IN SPRING I JUST HAVE SPIKES SO WELL AN I DONT HAVE SPOTS AN I WONT GET ANY I HOPE

MY TORSO IM NOT A BODYBUILDER NOR AM I A GEEK WITH NOTHIN IM SLIGHTY RIPPED SO IM AVERAGE AN SO IS THE GIRL I HAVE A 4 PAC WORKIN TOWARD 6PAC I DO SPORTS BUT MY FRIEND THINK IM NOT EVEN SLIGHTLY RIPPED AN IM AN UGLY FAGG WHO CANT GET A DATE THEY PROB TELLIN THE TRUTH MY LEGS WELL I RUN A SWIM A LOT SO THERE MUSCULAR

MY FASHION UMMM WELL YEH I DONT GOT A CLUE WHERE TO SHOP SO I JUST STICK TO PLAIN T SHIRTS AN JEANS

I LIKE TO TO BASICALLY AN ALWAYS UP FOR A CHALLENGE EXEPT FOR PLANES I HATE THEM SO YEH BUT I WILL DO ANYTHIN ELSE I WILL ALWAYS HELP A GIRL I WANT TO BE ROMANTIC BUT IM NOT THT ROMANITC I WOULD ALWAYS HELP MY GIRLFRIEND AND ALSO I WOULD HELP THOSE IN NEED SO YEH MY EMOTIONS

I LIKE TO ACT A LITTLE TOUGH AOUND MA FRIENDS AN CONFIDENT AN THERE WEN U NEED ME AROUND GIRLS

PPL THINK IMA WUSS BUT I BEEN DOIN KARATE AN JUDO SINCE 3YRS OLD SO NO 1 PIK A FIGHT WITH ME AN I ALSO DO ABOUT 2MONTHS IN AN UNDER 15S ARMY CAMP CUZ MY DADS IN THE ARMY SO I WANT TO ASK THE GIRL OUT BUT SINCE LIKE A WEEK AGO SHE LIKE FORGOTTEN WHO I AM AN DOSNT TALK THT MUCH SO IM KINDA FORGOTTEN IN HER LIFE BUT SHE STILL CHATS TO ME SOMETIMES AN NOW SHE CHANGED PHONE AN EMAIL ADDRESS CUZ NOW WERE IN SECOUNDRY SCHOOL WE BARLY SEE EACH OTHER I DONT KNOW IF SHE GOES PRIVATE OR PUBLIC I HOPE SHE WENT PRIVATE CUZ I DONT WANT HER TO MEET ANY 1 ELSE CUZ WED LIKED EACHOTHER FOR A LONG TIME AN I DONT WANNA LOSE HER AN A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO I WAS WATCHIN A MOVIE WITH HER AN MY NEXT DOR NEIBOR HER ONLY 10 AN HE GOT A SISTER 7 AN THEY WALKED OUT TO GET POPCORN AN THE SOPHIE (THE GIRL I LIKE AN LIKES ME) JUT LOOKED AT ME TWICE AN SMILED THEN WALKD OUT THE ROOM THEN OR KINDA RAN AN CAME BCK LATER AN THEN I WENT TO THE BATH ROOM AN WNT IN SHE WAS STRIPPIN TO GO INTO THE SHOWER DONT SAY IMA PERV CUZ IM NOT ALL SHE DID WAS SMIL AN I CLOSED THE DOOR ON MY RUSH BACK OUT PS PLZ NOTE IM NOT A PERV IT WAS BY ACCIDENT AN SHE ONLY HAD HER TOP OFF SO NOT

THEN SHE WENT TO BED AN I SLEPT OVER THT NIGHT ASWELL CUZ IM LIKE MY NEXT DOOR NEIBORS BIG BROTHER AN SHE WAS ON THE BUNK OPPISITE ME AN I WAS LIKE WO A LOT HAS HAPPENED TO DAY AN SHE WOKE AS I SAID AN SAID (MY NAME) I LIKE YOU A LOT BUT MY DAD AN MUM WONT LET ME SEE YU I HATE THEM SO MUCH. THEN SHE WENT BAK TI SLEEP AN THEN I WENT SLEEP AN WOKE UP N SHE WAS OUTSIDE PRACTICIN HER GYMNASTICS AN I SAID BYE AN WENT BACK TOO MY HOUSE ALL SHE DID WAS SMILE SO EH THTS A LON MESSAGE I KNOW I BETT MOST IF U WON T READ HALF OF THIS COMMENT BUT I DONT CARE I HAD TO TELL SOM 1 SO YEH I WANT TO KNOW WHT TO DO BUT HER PARENT WONT LET ME SEE HER AN NOW I THINK SHE HATES ME AGAIN I DONT KNOW WHT I DO MAYBE I DONT RLLY CALL HER OR ASK HER OUT AGAIN PLZZZ HELP REME SEND ADVICE TO jack.seal@hotmail.co.uk NO CAPS OK JUST READ THIS IM 13 IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS AN I WANT TO GET HER BEFORE THEN OR JUST AFTER SO YEH PLZ HELP ME I LIKE TO WRITE DO THIS ONLY TOOKA FEW MINS TO RIGHT OK TY EVRY ONE


Mitchell 8 years ago

I need help BAD!! I dont have the guts 2 aska girl out. HELP!!!!!


b9b9 8 years ago

the person i liked knew me very well and i was gonna ask her to a dance but she moved away i feel heartbroken


noname 8 years ago

i like a girl in my class but i like freeze up when i just want to talk to them. when were partners in projects i still talk to her but like when there is no teacher or any project or work etc i cant talk when i want to. it is like some one is strangling me and i end being foolish.


Levin 8 years ago

Guys i know i'm not the master at dating but i lasted 1 year with a girl then... i pissed her off... oh well... but grow some hair on your guavas... and ask them out.... rejection is part of life... i'm on the rebound so wish me luck... And Good luck to y'all'uns


Joshua Del Villar 8 years ago

Yeah i really like this girl, i asked her out my freshmen year and she said she only wanted to be freinds and thats cool, but i still have fellings for her. What do i do im not a very good looking guy and im kind of chubby, please i need help.


jorge 8 years ago

i really like this girl named meagen i talk to her all the time andim pretty sure she likes me 2 but i dont have the balls to ask o=her out or get her number


damian 8 years ago

ty for the imformation i dont know weather to ask her or not she is in the same grade as me but what do ii do


kyle 8 years ago

girls annoying i hate life


Peyton 8 years ago

people im in fith grade and theres a 2 girls in my class dat i really like and the both of them sit beside me thier best friends so if i ask one out and get rejected she'll the the other one and then she'll think im just asking her out because the other one said no any tips?


googedygoogey 8 years ago

i am 14, never had a girlfriend, peopel take the mick, heelppppppppp


hussien 8 years ago

i am 14 years old and i like a girl in my school but she might be older 1 or 2 years and i dont know what to tell her or what to do all i know that she playes basketball and if i played with her what shell i do next please help i dont want any thing but a friendship not more please some one answer me at my email:(hussienalfa@hotmail.com)


Jake 8 years ago

Im 11 years old..... i like a girl tht is 1 month from 11 and i asked her out today and she said no....... she said beacuse she wants me to like another girl tht liked me last year and i liked her last year then we broke up......... so she wont go ot with me


Dood! Help! 8 years ago

There is this girl I like but her freind hates me so much. I need help. Please!


Adam 8 years ago

I am in 6th grade and have never had a first kiss or a girlfriend. Pllllllllllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssssssssssssssss help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


greg 8 years ago

Theirs this really nice friendly considerate girl at my school and she keeps on smiling at me most of the time when she gos past me.Im a humble person and I respect others.Maybe she likes me.


dillon linn 8 years ago

ok there are a ton of hotties in my high school, but i get bullied alot and most of the girls are with the jocks, im not a nerd no affence im just neutral but im to the point where i don't think i have a chance can you please help me......


razor101 8 years ago

i know one girl at my school likes me but we have been friends for about two years, i dont know what to do help!!!!


Benjamin Freeman 8 years ago

Theres this girl at my school i really really like her and i just dont have the courige to talk to her or ask her to go out with me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO she is the only girl ive ever liked in my whole life I NEED HELP.


Anthony Trujillo 8 years ago

Theres this girl at my school i really really like her and i just dont have the courige to talk to her or ask her to go out with me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO she is the only girl ive ever liked in my whole life I NEED HELP.


Avery  8 years ago

yo is this thing workin there is this girl she's 12 i'm 11 but i know she likes me but theres this other guy named btandon who she likes also i do not know what to do none of you are helping accept the fact that she likes me...........please help please help please hel please


ronnie howard 8 years ago

im not the greatest person in the world. and i just broke up with a girl, but my dad says that for my b day hes taking me and someone special out for a night on the town, but i dont have any one special.please help me find a girl i like.pppllleeeaaassseee help me.please


antomius 8 years ago

hey i like this realy nice girl at school i think i have a chance with her but she has this older bro who dosent like me a lot what do i doo


JoKeR 8 years ago

I like this one girl at my school but i dont know how to be smart for her because i sat by her at math and language at the begining of the year but my asshole tacher moved use i sit some where else i asked her befor but i was going to fast and i wanna know how could i be smart enough for her please help me


barney 8 years ago

how do you tell if a girl likes you with out having someone ask them


jack 8 years ago

i need help, im 16 and ive never had a girlfriend in my life, if i got one it would be the best thing thats happened to me.. i have friends, but im not the most popular kid in school. ppl say i have the looks, body, and confidence, and im decent talking to girls, but nothings happening, help me!


lewis 8 years ago

i like this girl at school named cassy but i cant pull it together to ask her out please help


Weston 8 years ago

i liked this girl and shes in a bunch of classes. i found out she liked someone else so i dont know if i should take a shot and ask her out. i talk to her a lot i have her phone #.

PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Evan 8 years ago

there is this girl that i really really like and we were going out but she broke up with me but i want to get back with her and i know she still likes me cause she told me so please help me get her back


PURRfect_Couple555 8 years ago

dudes. I'm sitting here with my girlfriend right now and we just got done doing it. If you want what we have, we have a few tips to get you the girl of your dreams.

Man tips: Try subtle compliments. Nothing over-the-top, like "You're the most beautiful girl ever!" Try something like, you like their overalls or something. SUBTLE.

Woman tips: When talking to the girl you like, you should make a lot gestures towards your 'package'. This will draw attention to the area of interest. It's called psychology, and you need to use it to your advantage. Their eyes will instantly be drawn to your junk, and make them want you. Other than that, you're hopeless.


marcos 8 years ago

thanks im gonna ask out marjorie martinez!!!!


Zech 8 years ago

This girl in my school is a friend of mine, and I want to ask her out, but her other friend sort of hates me. How can I ask her out without ruining her other friendship? Thanks in advance.

~ZH


unknown  8 years ago

i have known this girls for two and a half years and we are really good friends but i do not know what to do should we stay friend or should i express my feelings to her


austin 8 years ago

ok peepzif a girl insults you dont insult her be nice if she calls you fat than wear looser clothing if she says your weak work out or do push ups or something.guys easy sulutions and ovioulsly if she hates your guts pick some 1 else hope that helps!the problem for me is i dont know when to ask the girl out help me!


AH 8 years ago

I need help as so I have a crush on a girl she has brown hair and light brown eyes shes hot to me but i fear of rejection, What should I do?


bobbyfisher 8 years ago

Im gonna ask out a girl 2morrow, will report back. But for now let me give a little advice: guys, to ask a girl out, u need to know if she likes you first, or at least have a good idea. If u cant use ur own judgement and or have no clue, here is my favorite technique: have one of HER friends ask her if she likes you. Now, make sure they just kind of bring it up to her and see what she says. ex: her friend (hr): "so, i see u and bobby whats goin on there huh?" or however a girl would say it) Make sure that u can trust her friend tho. Then see what she says. Best of all, her friend knows her best so will be able to tell you exactly wats goin on. And if she likes u, ask her to hang out (basically what is the modern definiion of a date). If she doesn't, you can work on it some more, without her ever knowing you were going to ask her out. Or u could just go for it and ask her, but i recommend the former just so u have an idea whereu stand. Hey, Good Luck Everyone, and ttyl


leon 8 years ago

well i am kinda young for my age but i act older then i am i like this girl alot she has blond/brown hair and shes really hot she des chearleading to witch makes her even more cutter.well any ways i tryed to ask her out 1s and ya she rejectid me hehe funny when i talk about it tho well any ways i still talk to her alot and i hang with her as much as i have time to she plays with me like she will be staring at me with a smerk on her face so i have nothing to say so i smile back and i really like her. after reading what ya wrote i think i might go with a smother approtch like ya know when the time iz right thx so much for the tips


Trapped but Confident 8 years ago

I'm in highschool and have never had a girlfriend, I have alot of un-consealable flaus and am shorter than most 10-year-olds, I have friends but am never taken seriously and I feel like i've never had a serious conversation with them, if i steer in that direction they start hurling jokes around, I mean sure, its funny but what about the actual topic?! I don't know why but I'm not attracted to any of the girls (or boys, if thats what your thinking!) at my school. Their all so shallow and misguided. Where is that girl from all those love movies that is sweet, pretty, nice and a great personality?! What? did all the movie stars take them?! WHERES MY JESSICA ALBA, DANE COOK?!


timmy stayanch 8 years ago

i hope ur advice work

a girl in my school lik me but not wana tell any 1


jeff 8 years ago

well ther is one girl that like me.but I asked her & she said no.SHE even said SHE LIKE me.I ask evreone do SHE like me thay say yes.


JJ 8 years ago

There is this girl she flirted with me 4 half the year then wen i ask her out she wont answer instead she gives note i wrote her to other girls who spread a rumor that i like her but i playin it cool i not lose my temper i give her another note she reads it and comes back and hugs me and says yes so morale is play it cool gurlz like 2 test u but if u patient and she likes u she'll say yea hopes this helps


JJ 8 years ago

I am 13 6"1 and well built and have dark brown hair but no girls like me except my gf because the guys that all the girls like happened 2 pick a fight with me and i KO'd him literally so now all other girls hate me how do i get in thier gooog graces again? HEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPP


Dylan  8 years ago

they's a girl at my school and she's hot i asked her if she liked me and she said kinda.I got a feeling she like some1 else HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


JJ 8 years ago

sorry bout that "good graces" not gooog graces


leon 8 years ago

well itz thanksgiving and we have a break from school so im glad about that and if this gets posted today then il be in school tommarow well any ways before the break i made a note for that girl and i tolds my friend to give it to er since he rides her bus and ya of corse he peaked at what i wrote and laugh and laugh and laughed. but any ways i think he deilverd the note to her and hopeshe read it *crosses fingers*still feeling cofident tho... p.s

since i dont think she will be checking out this site lol luckly hehe ..well anyways her name iz hayle k..........................................p.s p.s

any 1 think they kan help post somthing HELPPPPPPPZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL.


pootytang 8 years ago

im in 6th grade and so far none of my friends have a girlfriend but i know this really cute girl and i want to ask her out can someone give me the gust to ask her out P.S. i know im only in 6th grade


jdt 8 years ago

ok i really like this girl but every time i go satrt a conversation i freeze so i force myself to talk and when i do everything is ok adn my friends say that that the girl i like likes me but i need to be sure of that.

plz help!!!!!


Hopper 8 years ago

Im funny, but not a clown or immature. Im smart, but not a nerd. Im semi-athletic, but i suck at most sports. The one big problem i have is that Im short. Im a sophomore guy and Im 5'2"

I have been shot down 12/12 times. A lot of girls like me but are not interested in a relationship. I make almost everyone laugh with a joke here and there or a witty comment at times. Monty Python references make a few girls laugh. I like a freshman girl, and I think I have a shot at making it 12/13, because she thinks Im funny and she acts around me the same awkward way I used to around a girl that i liked. sometimes I turn my eyes and she is staring at me from across the room and whenever she knows Im looking she quickly looks away. Im almost sure she likes me and Im not even concerned that if she says no i will have been shot down by a freshman. Im worried about what her parents and mine will think. I think that would make her dad even more likely to not like me. if he is anything like me Im going to get the crap beaten out of me. If I had a daughter and she brought home an older guy, especially at fifteen, I'd kick his ass no matter how good of a christian he was.


bobbyfisher 8 years ago

Hopper, its scary how much our situations are in common. I'm a sophomore too, and funny (I make a lot of references to T.V/movies), smart (kind of a nerd cus I'm on math team but thats just cus I'm freakin good at it), and really athletic but I'm skinny (5 10 only 130 lbs) so they just think I'm a nerd. I'm not as brave (or maybe desperate! jk) as u cus I have been shot down never, but then again I've only asked out one girl this year (we went to a dance but then I ended up being "just a nice guy") But I like this freshman girl too (yeah the one I posted about a few weeks ago but I didnt ask her out cus of a complicated situation I learned about the next day (just trust me on that one)), and luckily her friend thought I should go out with her so we went to the movies on a group date. But all this time I have never even told her that i like her and I've gone on the premise that I am kind of interested in her and I'm kind of scared to since her dad might be pissed as hell if she tells him. Her friends tell me that she hasn't made up her mind if she likes me (she's kind of picky they tell me). I'm not sure what that one means (that she hasn't made up her mind). I ges I'll ask her friend about that 2morrow. But anyway, from what u say she definitely likes u and you should go for it and ask her out. The parent problem is a tricky one. I'd say 1. take it slow with her and maybe then her parentswon't be pissed 2. Tell her you like her (come to think of it, you never mentioned that you like her so if you are going to go out with her just because you are desperate or something then I would like to kick your ass to because that is no way to treat a girl unless she's some kind of slut) and then ask her about her parents and if they will mind you or 3. Screw her parents and ask her out hope the get alongf well with you and if her dad beats you up then, well, you can sue his ass! But make sure you actually like her as a person not just bcus shes pretty or youll both get hurt. Good luck tho.


tyler 8 years ago

theres this girl named steevy matt and she is so cool i need help on how to get her to notic me im ten years old and so is she she lafes at my jokes we hang out but it is so hard getting a girl friend she knows i love her but i cant just go up and say want to go out Please help it is hard please help


logan 8 years ago

i like a girl but she told the principle that i like her so what do i do


eduardo lopez 7 years ago

I AM HAVING A HARD TIME TRYING TO ASK A GIRL OUT.I'MJUST TO SHY. PLEASE HELP ME. P.S.I DON'T WANT TO LIE TO MY FREINDS ABOUT ME HAVING A GIRL.


Steve 7 years ago

plz help me. i like this extremely hot blonde who had straight A's on her report card. i dont have her in any of my classes and ive never talked to her.her locker is right next to me. usually when im looking at her shes looking at me and then she turns away. can you tell if she likes me? should i try to make a relationship with her of some sort? Somebody plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!


chickmeister 7 years ago

Jz watch "40 year old virgin" u will be a pro by da end of da movie


[Anonymous] 7 years ago

I have no clue how to do anything like that. I don't know where to find someone, and I don't want to meet a girl in a group so if she DOES deny me, I don't want to be too embarassed. I think I'm ugly, and I guess I can't mature up, I try at most times. I'm 16, and have NEVER had anyone like me, when I think someone does, I get a good feeling, even though deep down, I know they don't. Because such as a simple "Hello" from them like you said, makes me think that on top, but on the bottom I know they don't even go near thinking about that. I think about suicide almost everyday and thats one of the reasons, but I don't actually do it because I believe in Heaven and Hell, and I don't want to spend an eternity in Hell, so I sometimes pray for God to kill me, but I know he won't. I'm also failing in school, and suicide is creeping up on me very quickly, because I don't want to be 18 without a girlfriend and not be in school. I might do it around 17 or something, I JUST turned 16 as of November 29th, so... one more year :'(


alex 7 years ago

i think you have to be her best freind,, keep bieng her best freind and let her fell that you are the good one,, theres a girl i like im trying to find out ho do i m im going to race up to her best friend,


cloud 7 years ago

hi im like 12 turning 13 and ive never had a girlfriend in my life i really like this girl but she thinks im stupid, and ugly... i dont really like myself cuz shes right im failing all my classes and i agree im ugly. im not good at anything except for playing on the saxaphone and some girls like my eyes just cuz they kindof change colors... -_- but i can never talk to the girl that i like cuz im shy, once again ugly, stupid..., and im not funny all of my friends have girlfriends. i just really need help...!


Jayson 7 years ago

theres a girl in my school i like, but she KNOWS THAT I LIKE HER!!!!! every time someone tells her she says she knows or he already told me. What should i do?!? oh, and i have her number, but she dont know dat


JJ 7 years ago

My Gf broke up with me for 3 guys so Im asking a girl that I know she LIKES me. But Im afraid to ask agian in case im shot down wat do i do???????????????


peter 7 years ago

ok well iv been though the same stuff a lot of u guys have with trying to get a girl to like me and figuing how to ask her out. i just turned 17 and had my first girl friend this year so im still pretty new to this stuff. but i do have some advice. ok well first of u have to have a high self esteem thats #1. a girls not going want to be with a guy who thinks hes fat or ugly or stupid cause if u think that then she will for sure. u just have to think ur the shit not like being overly cocky but just be really confadent. ok second u dont want to be like chasing after her all the time and when ur around her dont make her the only thing that matters i know it seems like girls would like it when u make it seem like shes the most important thing in the world but they dont even if they say they do they dont girls like guys who have lifes. also u want to almost pretend ur to good for her not a lot though cause that will just lose her but a little bit. u want to make her chase after u a little. talking to her friends can also be a big plus. i know sometimes its really hard too but if her friends like u more than its a lot easyer for her to except u. ok and when u begin to know her better and talk to her regularly thats when u can start thinking about asking her out. dont just pop the question on her though first hang out with her a bit. on a day thats going good and it seems like ur both in a good mood or right after u get her to laugh or somthing just be like we should hang out some time. almost every gril will be like oh ya we should so then u just ask if there doing anything this weekend and go from there pick a day and a time. dont try to make it all romatic or anything just invite her over to ur place or go over to hers and after just say like ya it was fun we should do it again sometime and give her a huge good bye. then next time just hang out again nothing to fancy but try to be a little closer to her sit closer to her or just touch her shoulder or something nothing creepy though haha and if she doesnt move away thats good. if she come closer then ur set. so then if u guys had a good time and both had fun when u give her a huge dont let go all the way when ur pulling back but still hold her and just lean in and give her a kiss. aim for the lips but if she turns her head thats ok its not rejection. then next time do it again and she will be a little more ready and probably wont turn away. after u kiss her u know she likes u so just ask her out offically some time. i know thats kind of a lot haha i got a little carryed away but i hope that helps. and anonymus guy dont do suicid even though things might be rough just ride it out trust me u will be glad u did some day. god bless


brian 7 years ago

ok well i have a tuff one. theres this girl i really like and she really likes me i asked her out a while ago and and she said yes. she has devorced parents and she moms really cool but she hates her dad. im older than her by 3 years ( i know thats a lot) but im really little for my age. well her dad made her break up with me and wont let her date older guys. i still really like her and she still really likes me but i dont know what to do. i was thinking about talking to her dad but im kinda scared to cause hes pretty much crazy. like he use to beat her and stuff like that. oh and she cant just screw him and go out with me anyways cause she said her dad can bring it to the courts and both her parents have to agree on stuff so basicly if she just goes out with me again she will get less time with her mom. what should i do?


uhfjkhsdkjfsdjkds 7 years ago

okay yea my username is messed up as u boys can see. but from a girls side of view im a girl btw im 12 and girls are hard to deal with some could be moody some could be too good for u guys. there are many ways a girl could say yes or no. first try not to be cool bc when u try to act cool girls think its lame. second be fit, smell good, and get a descent haircut.(no mohhawks, unless ur lookin for someone punkish). third be confident, keep ur head up high, if u have ur head low girls will think ur hopeless and lost in the clouds. forth when u approach a girl dont be scared to ask her out even if she says no. GOODLUCK TO ALL U GUYS WHO ARE DESPERATE


xavier 7 years ago

hey, i know what to say. im comfident.but my friend seems to be hitting on her. not only that, but my friend is always keeping her away from me. he"s not going out with her but i know he is waiting for the right moment.iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatttttttttttttttttttteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


philip 7 years ago

i like this girl in my maths class i talk alot with her on msn and i told her i liked her should i ask her out


Miles 7 years ago

I like this girl but i like another girl too which girl should i choose the one who has more in common with me or the really pretty girl.P.S the other one is pretty too


joe 7 years ago

in my school all you gatta do is where axe and you get the girls be confident i have the hotest girl in my school because im a kiss up be good and youll get good


Dave 7 years ago

I have dumped tuns of girls because when i get to know them there not how i thought they were. so,hwo do i know if shes the right one


john 7 years ago

This is the thing that i see. Everywhere someone asks for advice and it is always the same. What you said above is true for sure; about the appearance, being confident, and not being to conceded about yourself. Althoug if you are someone like me its not that difficult. Hears why! I am in grade eleven and a have a weight problem, with a minor acne issue that comes and goes. I truely care for other people, and all i moral my family, and freinds. Though with girls i noticed, that all off the "Jocks" and people who listen to rap music, and party... I also should say like 99 percnt of these people are skinny. I find that girls are all shadow, eveyone is they all want some one beautiful, and all... Everyone wants to be happy, Right? Well how come people like me cant, this leads to being not confident woth youself... Than you become depressed and thoughts of you just not being around apeal to you all the time every day. So tell me man. Its all crap, as much respect, want and all for that someone... It takes know one there... Now i think im hard to fallow saying all of this.... My main point is if you are overweight and are worst at the things you do best why bother... Its just you go through everyday burning inside, and aching for something you are on your own with and just debating if you should take your own life or if you should just give up... though it is hard because all you are is confused... It well be nice if i get some feedback... Bye...


Josh 7 years ago

I really like this girl but ive dated 3 of her friends and I don't wanna sound like a womanizer HELP


Austin 7 years ago

Hello everyone, my name is Austin.

all right i just feel like opening up so please hear me out. im currently in the 7th grade, im 13 years old. im a little overweight... i mean at school i have some really great friends. but were pretty much gamefreaks. but anyway, in 4th grade, there was this really cool girl named paulina. shes probably the closest ive gotten to a girl. I really liked her. every day i would play volleyball with her and a few of her friends.back then i wasnt really into games like i am now. back there i was a bug person. one day a bug flew on her. i knew it was a tarantula hawk, which are very big and have a huge sting. the most painful insect. this was like the third semester of the fith grade. anyways, i told her there was an ant, so she wouldnt freak. i got a stick and wacked it off her sholder. the thing came back at me and by time this happened paulina knew it wasnt an ant. i told her to run and she got help.well it was flying after me. im not sure if this was true but im most likly allergic to wasps, and i didnt want this to be the day to find out. so i got my backpack and smacked it, then stomped it. after this moment, i really think she liked me, and i did. we started getting a lot closer. then a few days later, i found i was moving... i really was mad... but you know year books were getting signed, and she put her phone number in it. i had plans to call her.

on the last day of school, i really wanted to tell her how i felt, maybe a shot at my first kiss. i chickened out and i will regret it for the rest of my life. anyways we moved. every day i missed her more and more. i would do anything to see her again and still would. i have grown very "protective " of her. i would give my life for hers easily. ive learned not to care what others think, in fact the most popular person in school could call me a fat crap and i can care less. i really think that i can make a good boyfriend, but no girls really are interested in me.

Email me please at AustinBradson@gmail.com

thanks i got it off my chest ive been thinking about this forever.


MIKE 7 years ago

Make some money buy a nice car...buy nice clothes that are up to date..Look smooth an trust me the ladies will come


Joey 7 years ago

I'm always scared to ask a girl out because if i get rejected this douch makes fun of me i dont care cuz i could kill him but it's just because everyone listens to him... any ideas?


Mikey 7 years ago

ok everyone im in the sixth grade and ive had 6 gfs this past year.. Im very funny and very good looking im really smart! Ive only had to ask out 2 of them all the others asked me its Pretty hard to ask someone out but with good friends they will help you ive never been rejected or dumped but if your looking for a gf i sugest try to be funny thats my way of going about it!


Michael 7 years ago

Hello

Ive know this girl for about 3 years now ive been her best friend scince 5th ever scince my friend went out with her.We always talk and she tells me everything (and i do mean everything) and i tell her everything.Ive gone out with alot of girls im good looking funny and smart but i pretty much suck at athletics.I have liked her ever since 5th and i really like her.Right now im going out with this girl but i still kind of like her.I really like her but if i ask her out it will be very wierd because if I break up with her i will be losing one of my best girl friends.I know i should ask her out but im scared i will lose her.. Help me please.


Rene 7 years ago

the girls at my school is alwas talking about my big lips

help me


Rachel 7 years ago

Hi..my name is rachel....and i have never had a boyfriend im not bad looking and i always get a long with the guys but after the third day of hanging out they realize my sweating problem..and they immeaditly make up excusses and never call me back i need to raise money to get botox in my arm! Can people go to the car wash event im having for this serious issue thanks


Burn 7 years ago

i like this girl but she hate me. what should i do plzzz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


femi paulson 7 years ago

i have seen what you people said so how can i get a gril i love /like need


sad boi 7 years ago

so theres this girl and i think she is cute and i try to act cool around her but theres this dumb chick who i liked in elementary school because she liked me but now shees ruining my life by telling every girl i meet that im a retard and am ugly and etc. WHAT DO I DO


steve cam 7 years ago

tell that girl to cut the crap but if she still doesnt stop forget it because if the cute girl likes you back she wont beleive it


Vince K 7 years ago

I like a girl at my school she doesn't like me I mean I'm good at sports I'm funny I got good looks I don't know whats wrong.


john m 7 years ago

I have a girlfreind across the street but we really don't talk that much im afraid she will lose intrest in me what shuold i do


aaron 58 7 years ago

theres this hott girl named samantha jones and I like her so much I liked her sense kidergarden Ive been in her class from 1st 2nd not third forth I hope fith I asked her to come over and she said yes ohh she just got here at this moment I am asking her to go out with me she says yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss Iam so happy I am going to get her chocolate and roses and people to come over to my house for our ten minute anaversary


danny h 7 years ago

Hey, there is this girl in my class and i dont think she likes me cos all of the girls in my class think i am gay when im not.......but i asked her out and she said no :,(

I NEED HELP BADLY COS ALL OF MY FREINDS ARE SHOWING OFF COS THEY HAVE GOT A GF but i have brown eyes mediem long brown hair and slightly fat but they think i am gay!!!!????? plzz help me


danny h 7 years ago

Hey, there is this girl in my class and i dont think she likes me cos all of the girls in my class think i am gay when im not.......but i asked her out and she said no :,(

I NEED HELP BADLY COS ALL OF MY FREINDS ARE SHOWING OFF COS THEY HAVE GOT A GF but i have brown eyes mediem long brown hair and slightly fat but they think i am gay!!!!????? plzz help me


The person in here 7 years ago

Guys, if you want a girl, just go up and talk to her... that's what they want.


da man 7 years ago

i want to go out with this girl but i know the right time.


GIRL LOVWE 7 years ago

i really really love dis girl

and like we going out ya

but i dont know wat to do around her

i tried we are very happy but I feel weird around her but i know i love her cna any 1 hit me up on ma myspace and tell me?

thanks


ben 7 years ago

hi. i followed your steps and used your tips and the girl i realli luv now goes out with me want to thank you loads, thanks, ben


Ethan 7 years ago

God, im 13 and its so tough! Its hard at this age.


magicmike51093 7 years ago

hey. ive commented u a few times before and i need some help. theres this girl at my high school and this school year is her first here. she became very popular and everyone knows her. im her friend. we talk sometimes in class since we sit next to each other and we talk after school. me and some friends went with her to the movies once before a week ago and i kind of want to go out with her on a date. i dont know if i should ask her and face the consequences. plus shes always very flirtatious with guys and i dont know if i stand out to her. please give me advice on what i should do now thx :)


Owenator 7 years ago

hey Magicmike,

From my experience, if she is flirtious with many other boys, she usually doesent want long realtionships. i know heaps of girls that date boys for "experience" dunno why they do it but they do...But EVERY single girl is different... as you're already her friend, if you think she is comfortable around you ask her out...when i say comfortable waround you, i mean, would she go up to you to ask a question?

hope i helpd :s


7 years ago

ok IM ONLY 13 but iv got many ladi friends and have had around ONly 4 gf's as a bonus 2 of tem were older then me by a year an the other 2 were in my class same age. All i do really is make them laugh and joke around with them. They tell me later that they like me on msn and then they sometimes got enough guts to ask me out. i say that ill have to think bout it NOW WAIT thats not rele the best thing to do but i guess they were just bring patient and let me take my time. Dont Rush Right Into Saying yes. wait say ..... umm ok i rele like you and i do want to go out with you. you guys start going out BUT must hug her when she leavs and goes home. on the night you get asked out on msn tell her love yea when you get off and send hearts. Trust me 13 can be a hard age cause girls can be moodish but you just gotta work with it. And DONT go out with a chick that hasnt meet you yet. unless you no u gunna meet thm later. HOpe it Helps!!!! pce


Shadow27 7 years ago

The simple solution of getting a girl. Is this:

Start a conversation with the girl, but immediatly intrest her in you. That way she will think "This guy isn't like any i've met before. I like him." That's really what they will think. Then if she shows interest in you, like wanting to know more about her. Then by all means keep the conversation going. And if you feel confident around her, then ask her the question. If she rejects you, but still wants to be friends. Then just be friends. Trust me that's how I got some of my girlfriends is being rejected, but months later, they were really interested in me. Or try and go for her best friend. That can go 2 ways. Either you get her best friend, or you will get her best friend and get the original girl you liked jealous making her want you. Remeber this too CONFIDENCE IS A MAJOR PART and NEVER give up on a girl if you really majorly like her.


magicmike51093 7 years ago

owenator thank you for the help.. please keep commenting =)

wht do u mean if she can ask me a question? o btw im not quite sure but i think she knows i like her. i just figured out today so its kind of a shocker. and iono if shes trying to avoid me or not. and since tomorrow is valentines im kind of bummed out. was gonna ask today but still... wht if i lost her as a friend.


Keith PEACE 7 years ago

Lol,thinks i set up my closet to the best clothes luckyly im kinda rich.... :)... now theres a dance coming up and im going to ask this girl out named wendy she is the cutest girl in the school and im the richest so we kinda go togather and i really really liike her and all her friend say she really likes me back


grant 7 years ago

hey the girls at my school are hot and there all mine!!!!


joe 7 years ago

evrey time i talk to a girl she thincs im a werdo pleas what do i do?


Brady 7 years ago

I really like this 1 girl but im afraid to ask her out cause she might laugh at me or reject me like everyone else,HELP!!!!!!!!!! PLZ!


tank 7 years ago

MY girlfriend is really nice but all my freinds hate her and none of them know we r going out except my best freind what shode i do


someguy... 7 years ago

THERE IS THIS GIRL,I THINK SHE MIGHT LIKE ME BUT I DONT KNOW,WHAT DO I DO?AND YES SHE IS REALLY HOT AND I LIKE HER.

SO PLZ SOMEONE,RESPOND!!!


Mack 7 years ago

SHoot i wish it was this easy i sont want to get rejection. shoot i like two or three different girls. man i don't even know what to say right now except i'm broke my parents still make me have a bed time (9:00) and i'm freakin 13 how am i supposed to even survive at home and then try to survive with these girls. and on top of this i have a feeling one of these girls actually likes me. maybe another one of them too. actually i think all three of them may like me but i think i just get a good feeling about them cause i flirt and make them laugh a whole lot. i'm stuck man. i'm one of the freakin class clowns. shoot and even people uglier than me and stupider than me and even has less than me can get a girl. I cant go nowhere with these girls till i figure out whats wrong.


Anthony 7 years ago

Im 13 dis girl in my class is insanely hot and i need to ask her out. Im going insane. can anyone help????


mathew 7 years ago

i will try this advice but im affraid of what people at school will think of me


mariah the girl 7 years ago

i knew ill get somewhere if i looked at a boys website!looking 4:guy,brown,11,lves in tauranga!new zealand bye!want tips hea some!just ask them out,most times we say yes we want boyfreinds too!


Mack 7 years ago

I got a new hubpage account.

its musiqhotshot

please i need help would anyone talk to me about this crap i'm dealing with.


Alex 7 years ago

Im in 6th grade and Im having a dance on friday I need some advie.


Rob 7 years ago

I'm 14, and love a spanish girl named Ashley. She's beautiful, and I can't stop thinking about her. We don't really talk, because she's in none of my classes, but I like her. How exactly do I approach her in a non-awkward way?

I'm 5'8, average looking, and play the guitar. I don't have experience with women, so need some personal advice.

Email = illogical-swd@hotmail.com


joshua 7 years ago

i get nervous in front of girls , and girls that i like , and thats not all , she wants to talk to me but I always get nervous that she does not like me


How to Get a Girlfriend - Jack Reed 7 years ago

I had a problem to talk to girls and i will think i am nervous in front of girls but now after knowing the ideas given by this author i am feeling some what nice to talk to girls


jj 7 years ago

I'm good at basketball and reading but theres this girl I really like and she already has a boyfriend, so I don't know what to do.


WTF 7 years ago

theres a new girl and she likes me and i like her and i dont have to ask her out and im in 4th grade!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Tom 7 years ago

Hey! i'm in YEAR 9

There Is Real Good Girl Called Lucy,

But She and Here Companion Mess Me About!

She Keeps Faling She Going Out With Someone!

Help


Mr. Lonely 7 years ago

hey, I liked a girl since first grade, im a teenager now, I asked her if she wanted to go to the valentines day dance with me and she said she wasnt going. (I doubt it) if its a turn down, im not surprised. Everyone always hated me my whole life, i cant even gain 1 simple friend. And if I do make a friend, they get brainwashed by the other retards in my school. Ill be talking to my friend and some retard would come up like "you're friends with him?" And they'll say "I guess" or "kinda' or ''No!" What the hell is I guess? same thing if a girl starts liking me. if somebody realizes a hot girl likes me they start rumars about me being fat, emo, homo, etc. Until she starts to believe it too. I feel like i did something wrong in my life. like i am hated for a reason. Like I deserve this but don't know why. I think im turning a little emo (or emotionally disturbed) and nobody really cares. they say "whats wrong?" and im like "Nothing" then they actually walk away, like they believe that nothings wrong! What did I do to be so hated? sorry for this long post. :(


alex 7 years ago

i say the girls like me of my eyes,

hazel eyes, i can tell if i look right to her she will stare at me,

in my honnesty im 18 years old and, NEVER had a girl,

it makes me wana live a life alone

but god knows who, i play classical piano, they like when i play chopin..

polish pianist back in the 18th centry..


alex 7 years ago

WHEN SOME ONE BIES HER BOY FRIEND

IS IT THE GIRL HE ALWAYS WANTED ?, OR WHO ENDS UP WITH HER?

I KNOW WEE ALL LIKE SOMEONE, BUT HOW IS IT WE GET WITH 2?


zach 7 years ago

There this really cute girl at my school I think she's interested but how do I make sure? She calls me "cool eyes" so I decided to call her "cool hair" because of her nice looking hair. Have I done the right thing?


jose 7 years ago

i like a girl at school named areli vargest and i dont no if she does doe 'nt like me becuase she has a really buetifull face and i always see her and today she said to her friend lets go in the hall and tell something to the teacher and she said no and i said go and areli look ant me and i dont know what to do


Ben 7 years ago

Hey im just in year seven and i dont think any of the girls in my class like me and some kids found out that i like a girl and they keep teasing me saying i like her wtf should i do? if u have any tips e-mail me at ben_radicalrock@hotmail.com

THANKS!


Jonathon 7 years ago

I'm in 7th grade and i really need a girlfriend


DMAJ 7 years ago

I dont have any lines. iM ALWAYS BORIN but thanks anyway


DMAJ 7 years ago

I dont have any lines. iM ALWAYS BORIN and i always freeze up help me


chris  7 years ago

hey ben tell thoughs one kids who make fun of u that at least u like a girl or find out who they like and tell them they dont have a chance


logan 7 years ago

dominic take her to the fair or the movies or shoping


despret 7 years ago

i nead a girl help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


carboy 7 years ago

look so there is this girl i really like but she likes someone else in cali or someting and he likes her but they r not goin out


RAVEN 7 years ago

HEY IM ONE HELL OF A GUY I AM 14 AND I FEAL GREAT ABOUT MY SELF IM NOT THE SMARTEST GUY YOUR TIPS ARE GREAT BUT THERE ARE A FEW THINGS I DONT WANT TO CHANGE I LOVE HEAVY METAL I HAVE HAIR IN FRONT OF MY EYES IM NOT GOTH IM NOT EMO I AM REALLY A MYSTERY I AM A REALLY NICE GUY I CAN HANDEL BEING RERJECTED BUT MY BIG PROBLEM IS TO GIRS IM JUST A THORN ON A ROSE


this isn right 7 years ago

What is my deal lol? getting girls isnt the problem here my problem is I attract all the girls that i have no interest in? I play college football i have a great body and im a smooth talker idk wats wrong but i usually get the druggies or just the weird chicks and we all know who the weird chicks are lol


Rex 7 years ago

im fat and icant do anything about it please help I DONT WANT TO DIE ALONE


JJ 7 years ago

my gf broke up wit me 4 some 1 else so 4 3 months ive been single but 1 day at ballpark my friend kayla brings a girl over 2 meet me and she is hot and im pretty sure she likes me but i dont know if i should ask her out any ideas??????


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1964human 7 years ago from Smallville Kansas

Jimmy,

Are you married? If not will you marry me? LOL kidding of course, I loved this post. I thought there wasn't a single man in the world that understood women, but I stand corected. Thanks for the great post!

From a woman's perspective I can tell all you guys out there, this is 100% sound advice!


jake 7 years ago

theres this really popular girl at my school and I really like her but I dont think she likes me. How do i get her to like me and i am not very good at talking to girls so i would like some tips on that to.


gtrm 7 years ago

how do i get a girl that likes you but u cheated on her so many she cant trust u


wantagirl 7 years ago

hi there... i have a girl i like at school.. we all hang out with others... i never told her i liked her but when someone else (my best friend) hit on her she said shes not interested in having boyfriends for a couple years. what should i do?


matt 7 years ago

there is this girl i like and im not sure what i do?


jp 7 years ago

THERE IS THIS GIRL I LIKE BUT I DONT KNOW IF SHE IS WITH SOMEONE OR NOT BUT

I THINK I SHOULD ASK HER OR I SHOULDN'T PLEASE HELP ME AND THERE SOME KIDS (THAT ARE BOYS) SAID I AM GAY AND OTHER WORDS TO AND THEY TELL ME WHEN I GOT TO THE BOYS RESTROOM THEY TELL ME THAT I AM IN THE WRONG RESTROOM BUT I WANT TO SHOW THEM IF I ASK THIS GIRL OUT THAY WILL SHUT UP ABOUT IT AND I CAN GO PEACEFULLY SO HELP GET THRU THIS!!!!!!!


zayne 7 years ago

i want to ask this girl out but i dont know the right words and the right time to ask her out i been thinking about it so thanks for the advise i got more confidence


chris 7 years ago

there is this girl that i am friends with but i think she likes me cuz she asked one of her friends to ask if i liked her. SHe said that i was giving off signals whatever that means. i don't want to end up hurting her feelings just because i don't like her. i like a girl that already has a boyfriend plz help.


jake 7 years ago

JJ, you should definitely ask her out.


UNKNOWN HOTTIE 7 years ago

chris you shouldnt be with a girl you dont like and if you know a girl already has a boyfreind but you like her you should come clean with the other girl who doesnt have a boyfreind and say "hey i just want to be freinds" and keep it like that and then maybe you should just try and get the girl w/ the boyfreind to notice you


holly 7 years ago

i want a girlfriend even no i am a girl i dont now wat to shall i gust inviter my room and have sex with her or just tell her i fancy her or kiss her i think i should have sex with her thanku


marko 7 years ago

there is no way to get a girl, if she likes u she is urs if she doesnt she isnt ur s


yo 7 years ago

there is this girls but she doesnt like me wat do i do


perminus 7 years ago

Iwould like a beautiful girlfriend


Even O'Brien 7 years ago

I got the hottest chick to go out with me then i dumped her cuz she did my friend ............help


austin p. 7 years ago

i got a girlfriend her name is alissa and she was walking down the street she dropped her case and i helped her pick it up. then she asked me out nd thats how i got my girl...


paul 7 years ago

i'd have 2 say i'm single and lonely and did i mention i'm human


bobby 7 years ago

u guys dnt need a grl 2 cmplte u if u do just be urself


HeaRt5_WiTh_CiNa 7 years ago

HOLLA ay yaww home boi:) yeah, girls reckon im hot and they tell me so and im only 15.But the thing is, i can get any girl i want that im not genuinely interested in but the girl that is the object off my hearts desire makes me crumble and weak at the knees. she said shes not ready for a relationship so im gonna wait for her. thx man, fo' da quality info... hope all u guys find that special someone, ^^..


bobby 7 years ago

Theres this pretty girl at school. at the start of the school year my friends told me she likes me. But know i like her! she is so freakin' hot!!!! what should i do?


ricky 7 years ago

ok i asked her out and before she was nice but ever since i got rejected she doesn't seem to notice me HELP


D.J 7 years ago

I have to say this is the geast thing i have to know from u i will try this on her and she will maybe ask me out at my our hers thanks man or girl srry abot the mess on the letter


Josh 7 years ago

I need some help. There's this hot girl in my class who is already dating one of my best friends. I have a pretty good idea that they'll broke in days. I am trying to get her but I keep getting a little over board on jokes some times. lately ive been keeping my cool and now were sort of friends. but lately theres been this really stupid kid who is trying to get her but he is going insane! Hes been calling,stalking, staring, and really pissing her off. Right now im keeping my cool and if I dont get her thenill just try again fresh in middle school.


seth 7 years ago

im to scared to ask a girl out i start acting gay wen i see a girl i like and start talking to them and i start sweatinng then after i smell like a piece of sh** i need help im kinda of chunky i like one girl and another one likes me as a friend becuz i play rugby then the other one hates me wen i txted her she told me dont txt me ill neva get a girlfriend plz help


seth 7 years ago

the two fat girls like me they asked me lots of question about a dance said who r u going to the dance wit


Mike 7 years ago

And here are the steps to get her. Those were just the rules of what not to do and what to do around her.

Be nice to her (compliment her eyes, dress, etc.)

Ask her out ("Hey ya wanna go out with me?")

Start telling her about yourself, introduce her to your parents, tell her to be social and chatty in advance, ride with her on the bus to school, walk her home from the bus stop after school, meet with her between classes

Don't show her everything about yourself at once to keep her interested in you, start taking her to the movies, dances, & other stuff, meet her somewhere private, ask her if she really likes you, if she says yes, ask her if she wants to kiss.


Mike 7 years ago

You might want to flirt with her before asking here out but DON"T BE A WUSS!!! DON"T WAIT!! THE WORST THING SHE CAN DO IS SAY NO IF YOU ASK HER OUT!! If she says no, think. If she didn't want you, she wasn't good enough for you. There is a fine line between "Playing hard to get" and she doesn't want you, in your case, just tell your brain to shut it if it wants you to start acting gay. It is your brain afterall. Act normal. If they like you, just ask one out. Whichever one you choose. Remember, it's your life, choose the best one and be happy. You can control yourself, so just wear deoderant to keep yourself from smelling.


Mike 7 years ago

Oh, and if you play rugby, (here in America, football) you shouldn't be chunky. Try building muscle. I do 20-30 pushups every morning and night, and I am very strong for my age. I can lift a 100 pound bag of fertilizer. I am 5' 9" and weigh 120 and I'm 13, so there you have it. WORK OUT! I am going to start weight lifting in a few months, I can lift a 25 lb weight over my head with one hand easily. I have had alot of girls who liked me. The key is be yourself, have self confidence, keep your teeth clean, and wear deoderant. That's pretty much all and all of the girls will fall head over heals for you. Also, don't talk about geeky stuff like airplanes or anything that everybody in shcool doesn't care about. Fit in.


andreas 7 years ago

hey i am 11yrs old i asked a girl out on teen night. well my friends got her for me and brung her over. i totally just said hi and laughed and she went away. she told my friend she would say yes if i asked her out myself. so i have one more chance. what do i say. please help me.


triston 7 years ago

hi, i am triston and i need help cause i wear glasses and i think that is why girls don't like me.how do i ask one of them to go out with me.and i acsadentaly gave this girl lane a paper and it said how i feel about her.please help me.and hurry cause i can't help my self


unknown 7 years ago

I wont say my name but i need help people and my friends call me short and make fun me. This brings my confedence down and makes me shy so i dont have the guts to do anything but feel like a loser. Also no matter how much i charm a girl a stuff i dosent seem to work. I good at sports, take care of my self, and do well in all subjects in school no matter how perfect try to be for a girl this doesnt seem to work ,but your advice seemed to help. Is it my fault or something. Please help me am i doing something wrong. *sigh*


Shorty 7 years ago

See Guys and Girls are aalike in many ways they dont want you to think you can just Grab there butt all the time maybe not at all or something else but Guys i need your help there is a brunette in my school we just went on our fieldtrip yesterday and i hung out with her and i really like her but shes getting back with her X guys dont let that fool u that X did it to her once before and he will do it again so be the fall back boy one she can lean on like a shoulder to cry on dont move in now because her feelings are tarnished so just be that Shoulder Not that person that jumps the gun and asks them out wen they are weak with love i am 13 yrs old but i maybe even love this girl so GUYS dont say there hot Respect them its not all about getting in there pants GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


SHORTY 7 years ago

Unknown i am short also i am made fun of it constantly but im kinda ladies man myself i find girlfreinds for my freinds dont try to chram them just be yourself no matter how dorky nerdy or stupid u are just be urself and dont be like my one freinds boyfreind her name is well i cant you u guys but her boyfreind was a jerk she got her heart broken i warned her but she stilll waits for him she was cheated on and left heartbroke so unknown love urself and be loved be thaat shoulder to cry on try to comfort them not Smoothe talk them


andreas 7 years ago

ya i still dont have the courage to ask her out . what do i say plz write back


Thunderhawk 7 years ago

Well for starters i use to have girlfriend from about 2nd to 3rd grade. Then in 5th grade i liked a girl in my class and i kind of acted goofy twords liking but she didnt like me. And she is friends with all of the hot girls in my grade. Im afraid she might tell them about what happened. Do you think after 2 years she might still have some negetive feelings twards me?


andreas  7 years ago

i am asking her out tomorrow so please write back doooooooods


hello 7 years ago

Hello, i was regected by 3 girls and i guess it was all my fault. i kept thinking into 3 directin at the same time and now i`m all aloe. what u should do is try to change ur self in the way u don`t like somthing about. and if ur really ugly, well their is always someone so don`t give up. but specially be who u wanna be..


patch 7 years ago

hey there is this one girl i like and im very very very shy. I have never said much of anything to her. Please give me some info how to go up and talk to her and eventually ask her out.


drummer (cage the elephant) 7 years ago

I think its literally imposible for me to get a girlfriend, everytime i try to ask a girl out it always comes out wrong i always seem like a friend and its not like i havent gotten laid but my relationships seem to only last a length of 48 hours. i dont get my problem ive played drums for thousands of people at festavals but i cant seem to get a long lasting girlfriend.

Any suggestions


feeltheblue2 7 years ago

i like this girl i lokk at her personality she the perfect girl fo me she doesnt like me though helpppppppppppppp


andreas 7 years ago

write back about this already plz doooooooooods i need advice


lalaland 7 years ago

this girl keeps looking at me and smiling wat do i do?!


lalaland 7 years ago

this girl keeps looking at me and smiling wat do i do?!


nate 7 years ago

this gir is 1 uv my best friends but she is muving thursday

she knws i have feeings 4 her but she prubaby wants 2 be just friends


I love girls 7 years ago

I have a crush on a girl names olivia, but she likes my best friend luke, what should i do?

We r friend though.


andreas 7 years ago

ok seriously i need stuff to tell her when i ask her out


andreas 7 years ago

hey jayson that is the same thing with me except i dont have her number her name is andrea


retard101d 7 years ago

SOMEBODY HELP ME!!!!!!! theres this girl im in LOVE with at school and i really wanna tell her how i feel but i dont hav the guts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER AND I THINK IM GOING INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


AL QAHTANI 7 years ago

theres a girl at my school i really like. and i told her that i love her she didn't answer back. like sometimes i play the guitar for her. two girls asked me out but i refused because i like her. i make her laugh but i dont know what to do know i still want to say I LOVE YOU. i made her a valentine card that day we broke up. help


shamari 7 years ago

i got girl soooooooooooooooo hot i whant to ask her out but i am scared of what she will say what do i do her name is ashely


Xander 7 years ago

girls are like chameleons, for every occasion she has a different personality.


Josh 7 years ago

Help, there is this girl I like but I am shy and can't build up the courage to speak to her even when she speaks to me, her friends hate me and want to kill me and also she knows I like her, I am not sure if she hates me or not and another guy in my grade likes her and is trying to talk her into thinking I am a nerd, she is starting to believe it. She really loves music so I am trying to look like a singer to try and impress her, if you have any ideas on how to help me, send me an email on: joshnah97@yahoo.com.au Also if it will help, I wear glasses


Josh 7 years ago

I forgot to mention that the kid that likes the girl also calls me emo, gay,gothic(even though I dont have black hair) and Stupid(even though he literally doesnt know what 1+1 is).She believes him and my best friend(and only because of that kid that likes the girl stopping everyone from being my friend) says I should get over her because she most likely doesnt like me but I can't stop looking at her and I keep trying to impress her by doing stuff differently to what I used to do. Also I don't think any of this information would work but: her name is Tia, I do boxing and the kid that likes Tia is friends with her and they are starting to become better friends daily, also if this will help, I am 12 and Tia is 13


joeblow 7 years ago

Hey, all the girls like me and all... They tell me i am handsome, but some say i'm a bit arrogant and others disagree...i am not at all!! and the problem is most of them have boyfriends...and i dont know how to approach a girl i like, whats to be done?


ScripterJ 7 years ago

all i can say is be patiant and doesn't matter how the girl looks

just be your self and don't forget to be confident and if it fails its not a BIG deal because there is always an other one ;)

don't forget to smile!


jack 7 years ago

Im in 8 grade. I know I can get a girlfriend , I just dont know how


JJ  7 years ago

well im in a bind there is this girl who really likes me and then there is a girl that i really like im stuck i cant choose which one. but if i could the girl who likes me will be crushed if i pick girl 2 girl 2 will never talk to me again if i date girl1 so please HELP


dnk 7 years ago

i like a girl in my youth group and i like a girl i my homeschool group.the one in my youth group is younger than me and i don't know how old the one in my homeschool group is. who do i ask out?


Megan 7 years ago

Okay, i know im a girl, but im just saying a cute way to ask a girl out is to send her anonymous letters candy cards small jewlery and thena cute stuffed animal, she will want to find out who you are, when you think its time she knows put a picture of you holding up a piece of paper thats says will you go out with me? then bada bing bada boom there you go. you got urself a girl!!


JJ 7 years ago

Megan ur a girl maybe u can help me i can go out with one girl but either one i go out with the other girl will hate me please help


Charles 7 years ago

Well listen I'm a freshmen in High School. And I've known this one girl since first grade. She's really good looking, nice face,good body,oh God those legs, and she's kinda of smart. Now I'm in almost all of her classes, not very good looking, have never kissed a girl in my life, smarter than her, and my dads a doctor so I come from a wealthy back round that makes me the guy that parents would like there girls to date.

So this is what's happening she always says high to me in the hallways, she encouraged me to fight someone saying I could kick his ass, and she wants to start conversations with me yet I jut seem to reject her for some reason. Now I don't think she knows I like her, but she's starting to realize. Now I don't many friends and she knows I'm a little weird to talk to. I mean I don't no many things about her besides what size bra she uses. OK see perfect example whenever I get into a conversation with her.

Now please anyone on this website right now help me so I can not be the only Sophmore never to kiss a girl.


charles 7 years ago

Hey what is the worst thing that could happen by just going up to do this girl and saying want to go out on a date. I mean if she said no and I was alone she wouldn't tell anyone if I asked her not to, because it would embarrass me.

Megan: You have a good idea, but it wouldn't work for a guy like me. And the girl that I like would laugh at me if she saw that. Yet it's not the idea is OK in some cases. Yet the guy would have to be a real goof off for the girl to think it's normal. So anyway can you answer my question about just going up to her when she's not near anyone and ask her. Yet first I would get a conversation going with her for about 10 minutes show that I do care. Because the guys that she's surrounded by are always pompous jerks that only like her because she's really good looking.


charles 7 years ago

Yah I like to ask a lot of questions so what do you think of this. There's this girl a different girl than the one I like. Who I've known since before pre-school and are dads are partners at work. She's rich, really good looking, one of the smartest girls in school, and her parents would only let her date someone like me. And she lives only three houses away from me. And all of my friends call me an idiot for not liking her. Yet for some reason I just don't like her in that way. I mean she always comes up to me and says hey chaz like the other girl. Yet I still just don't like her for some reason I can't find out why. I'm just thinking we have such a healthy brother and sister relationship it would be stupid to mess it up like this. Tell me what you think about this and what you think of these other girls.


charles  7 years ago

Josh I agree with your friend if she is dating a guy who makes fun of you she probably doesn't like you. Now I don't know what grade your in, but I would advise getting a girlfriend for now. And in a couple of years when she likes you a little more and she's done with this jerk then try. Because in 7th grade I knew a girl who's now a sophmore at my school who I really liked and I tried to get her to like me, but she also had a boyfriend. So now I'm a freshman going into sophmore year thats asking for dating advise, because I've never kissed a girl.


FRED 7 years ago

hi im tired of just getting with girls and i honestly just want to finally get a girlfriend not just one for a week but for a long time. I'll be happy if its just for 3 months Im a nice guy everybody likes me i play football and im a nerd, i hangout with everyone, mainly the nerds though. Is it possible to be too nice because friends that are real jerks either get the girls i like or they get with them and thats it that all they'll then do and they wont even be in a relationship. I mean really im the bigest at of all my friends not in a fat way but in a buff way im kickass in football everybody likes me and i have good confidence too i think girls dont go out with me is because im to nice and they just think of me more as a friend, or maybe they due like and im just to oblivious to see that they do. I think I just need some nerdy girl thats also pretty too. i know that i usually go with looks and all but come on everyone does. so my problem is to nice and nerdy, oblivious and dont react in time i build up confidence after awhile then i go and ask but when i ask i just usually say u want to dance but the ussualy leads to gettin with. or should i say hey my names Fred and if you werent doin anything on saturday maybe you and some your friends and mine could hangout at the mall or somthing. I dont know what do you think.


charles  7 years ago

Fred:

Nice approach so what do you think of my approach. Talk to her at the end of school for about 20 minutes. About just simple things that would get her to think I'm like her. Be funny yet don't try hard only say jokes she'll understand nothing that would make me sound weird. She's on the cheerleading team I'm 2nd singles on the Tennis team talk about that. Don't come on to hard and when the conversation has gotten deep enough I simple say do you have a boyfriend which I know she currently doesn't and than perhaps just make her think I'm going to ask her out, but don't make her think I'm just a pathetic loser that needs a date. Now the boyfriend question is everything because I know she had one in our school, but I don't know who he is. If he's much better looking than me than I'll say OK maybe a few more things than leave, because that will make her think of me as yah he likes me and maybe if I knew a bit more about him and he lost 10 pounds I'll go out with him. I mean the reason why I didn't try to get along better with her in the begging of the year was. It was the first few days of Freshman year and I just acted really bad. Now I feel I've made a recovery lost some weight,became second singles on tennis, a few new friends,cleared almost all my pimples up, and I now how to communicate better with people in general. I mean at the end of the when she's waiting for her mom to pick her up because she does some things she talks to her friends. And that we'll be my problem because a lot of people who used to make fun of me or just not like me. Once I talked to them alone and not in a group they really did start to like me, but in front of a group I'm awful. OK how about this while in the conversation I say nice something or your a very smart girl. Perfect I mean that is good it's not creepy, will get me a thank you, and because she's surrounded by jerks it will make me look better. So anyway if you respond or not good luck with your girl problems. And to what you were saying I would stay with this girl till she dumps me which wouldn't be more than a month.


john  7 years ago

I'd want to get a girlfriend but everybody in my class would laugh and tease. What can i do?


alex 7 years ago

i like a girl named addison pennings but she moved to pennsylvania. do u think it was because of me?


Tyler 7 years ago

I would like a girlfreind but I have a very horrible reputation with girls. I don't know what to do. I had a girlfriend but she asked me out and i'm the most meanest guy to girls.WHAT SOULD I DO?


seth 7 years ago

.....i- i still love her even though she is going out with another...i just cant live with myself knowing i cant do anything...but that cant be helped...not even words can describe me feelings for her...i love her


IM single! YAY! 7 years ago

i like this girl at skool she keeps looking at me and smiling how do i talk to her i dont have the guts!

PLEASE HELP ME!


terrell 7 years ago

hi im a sophmore...and i see this girl everyday in school......i know she is the one because as soon as i look at her she gives me a butterfly in my stomach....but i tried to talk to her but then that didnt work out so well....i messages her on facebook and i never got a reply and she waz on line forever..idk i really think shes the one....help me out man PLEASE!!!


IM IN LOVE AT THE AGE OF 10! 7 years ago

i like a girl,i need help,my life is about her,i need help,if u can help,thank you so much!my soul is in her heart[i think],i have dreams bout her every night,if some1 helps me,hurah!i think i shud ask her out when school starts,that wut i think i whud do


IM single! YAY! 7 years ago

to day in italian she came in to the room and looked at me and smiled and starting talking to her friend and pointing to me i realy like her but i dont have to guts to ask her out.

PLEASE HELP ME!!!


how to get a girl  7 years ago

man there is this girl at my school who i like but she is my best friend and i want to ask her out but sh like someone else


Thomas 7 years ago

hey thanks man i did this and i got my dream girl thanks soo much now just fir her not to break up with me


Charles 7 years ago

Ok schools out for summer thank God, but the only sad thing is I'm not going to see this girls for a while. The only time this summer I'll probably see her is at my dads partners fourth of July party where she is good friends with my dads partner daughter who is that other girl that lives near me who is boh rich and attractive, but I've known her since I was born so it would be like dating my sister. Now I don't know what to do anymore, because I can't tell her weather she like's me or not. Mainly because when we had a French final and she was finished and so was I and she was just starring at me for 10 minutes straight. I had know clue what to do there she starring at me for there was nobody else that was in the direction so she was obviously looking at me. Now in our last english class these two guys were being jerks two her saying you are the hottest girl in the school,your tits are nice ass"and her ass is very nice if I may say",how do you get this hot, is your mom this hot, and I call holding her hand to her next class. And than she starts looking at me for a couple of seconds and I look at her because she's right next to me and for one second were starring directly at each other. And she starts giggling I give her kind of a weird look like why are laughing and I start looking at the board again, because I don't want her to think I like her. Now my question is does she like me, because I have no idea. Now if she does like me I would think she likes me for these reasons. I would call myself an intellectual I do well in school. I'm kind of an artistic guy who enjoys classical music and I do some art. I'm very political I enjoy intellectual conversations where I talk about real things. And yes I am a hard core conservative republican just to mention. Now also I'm clean I've never done a drug never will and I've never even had a detention. Some people would consider me as a bit of gentleman. I would never want or ask of her to do anything besides maybe make out a little. So anyway about this party I don't know my parents will be there, but they'll be with there friends talking while I'll be with her in there hot tub and that will be kinda weird. I was with her in the hot tub at another one of there parties last year. And she actually was trying to talk to me, but I was an idiot an tried not to respond as much as possible. I even got out after just three minutes. And it was just her and I in there and she looked great in a very nice small bikini. Oh! God I was so stupid I remember now she was even moving closer to me. Ok I am just the stupidest guy alive by far forget about me being an intellectual.

Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please


Susaku 7 years ago

kill me please no matter how hard i try i can't get any girl every time i ask someone out they eather say no sorry or they laugh in my face sooooooo please kill me


charles 7 years ago

Susaka

I can't get any girls, but even I don't say things like that.


Mark 7 years ago

Help plz, all my freinds have girl freinds but i have not ,it was getting to the point of not wanting to live, but i didnt give in , i struggle to like even attract girls, my freinds find this funny and a joke, wht should i do?


boy 7 years ago

theres this hot girl and she said i was dream boy and i dont know how to ask her to be my girlfriend. help MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Charles 7 years ago

Does anyone on this website reply back to help or do they just complain.


The one who fails 7 years ago

Okay. The easiest way is be nice. Don;t rush in. Get to know them. Become freinds.

If your in school, if they need something and you've got a spare, but some other bloke you're not good freinds with needs it to. GIVE IT TO THE GIRL. If they loose it, make i5t look like it dosen't matter. Even if it does. You can cry over it later. And that's another thing.

Never cry in school.

The only exception is receiving a ball to the nuts in P.E. Then you have an excuse.

And if you've got a broken leg, some of the girls you are more feeindly with will look af5ter you. Well that is the plan anyway. They might bring their freinds round. And also. Try not to look like a nerd. Be clever, but not Over the Top. Dont go round reciting Pi to 1000 digits. But helping them can be good to.

Thats my advice. I heard another bit of advice from someone more popular... Get a 6-Pack. So ive gotta start tying.

Good luck guys.


The one who fails 7 years ago

Okay. The easiest way is be nice. Don;t rush in. Get to know them. Become freinds.

If your in school, if they need something and you've got a spare, but some other bloke you're not good freinds with needs it to. GIVE IT TO THE GIRL. If they loose it, make i5t look like it dosen't matter. Even if it does. You can cry over it later. And that's another thing.

Never cry in school.

The only exception is receiving a ball to the nuts in P.E. Then you have an excuse.

And if you've got a broken leg, some of the girls you are more feeindly with will look af5ter you. Well that is the plan anyway. They might bring their freinds round. And also. Try not to look like a nerd. Be clever, but not Over the Top. Dont go round reciting Pi to 1000 digits. But helping them can be good to.

Thats my advice. I heard another bit of advice from someone more popular... Get a 6-Pack. So ive gotta start tying.

Good luck guys.


mike 7 years ago

There is this girl i like who goes to my school and she is smart, funny, and really pretty. I asked to go swimmin with me and a friend so how do i seal the deal?


danny 7 years ago

k dude's ive messed up kinda i still like have a chance but like this girl is like the hottest girl in my grade right, and like im 14 so im like interested in girls(XD) nyways i did this first since im the new kid ppl r like the nicest kids im popular someppl think im hot domeppl think im ok no 1 thinks im ugly tho which is good ... nyways i tried talking on msn but it turns out my parents dont let me nymore so then i tried talking to her friends i only mnaged 1/3 and a bion the other but at 1 point i thought the girl liked me i felt like asking the words ran thru my mind when i was face to face and i was like playing around a bit asking a little riddle then talked a bit then left so cann i ask u guys a question did i screw up ?


miguel 7 years ago

i like this girl for 2 years and someone told i liked her and she said that i smelled.


teh pwner 7 years ago

im like top ten of the hottest guyz in school but i (fail) at getting a girl they say im hot but they dnt ask me out...(and i know im surpposed to ask them). all my friends get chicks but i dnt!!! >.< iv'e been to the weights room for like to months now!!...im low self-esteem to, i keep thinking of what other people are thinking of me..i want to go out with this chick i was shy at first but when i got going it was good i felt confident..but i kept muddling up my wordz some times...all my friends say i can get better..(but i yet to see)..i don't understand i am good looking mean as cloths kool hair do l(ike them final fansty hair do's) ,nice person, i want to ask her out but i dnt no what i will say to her im scared that i will freeze up or have a heart attack or just faint..coz every time i see her my heart just goes berserk like i (love). her or something..AND THERE ARE LIKE UGLY AS GUYS AT MY SCHOOL THAT HAVE BETTER LUCK THAN ME WHY WHY WHY WHY!!! IS LIKE WASTED..! it maybe my self-esteem level but i need some advice or something before i go crazy...!!!! >.< !! it's ripping my up from the inside my emotions are like crazy!!!!!!!! neeed helppppppppp!!!! (give me your hot mail and i will add you plz so i can add you coz i dnt want to post mine her just in case if some one noes me!!)plz!!


steve 7 years ago

hie the stuff u wrote makes a lot of sense but i'm trying to get with a very traditional muslim girl and I'm Christian and there is the problem I love this girl and we are really close friends problem 2 i'v told her how I feel and she is worried about what her parents will think I'm running out of ideas here help someone


mx01  7 years ago

im kinda fat but tall about 6'1 14 years old. i never had a gf in my life, i had many chances but i blew every time. but everytime i try to talk to a girl they ignore me or call me stupid. you guys are lucky u can even talk to a girl u like/love. while i look around my friends with there girl friends :(

the only time i can probably get a girl is online because they cant see my ugly face. On the other hand my best friend can get everygirl but i didnt ask for his help yet and probably i never will...

I like this girl but she moved away and now im sitting here thinking about her. If the girl i love doesnt comeback i'll maybe just be lonely for the rest of my life. i have feeling that might happen. i dont go for cute looks i like their personality, how they act, and be nice. i bet one day you all get ur girls while I look at u guys all sad but glad u guys got to move on....

i hope u guys get happy while i get the suffering. The info was good i liked it alot. and im not goth or emo just a kid that likes football and social studies


austin says 7 years ago

i am looking for a girl that likes sports,p.e.,and cooking with me!i want there age to be 9 or 10.my favorite subjects are math,reading,and p.e.i like girl that is nice.


Devin 7 years ago

hey guys im a freshman in high school and ive never had a girlfriend:( theres 1 girl i like but i cant work up the courage to tell her how i feel pleez help


brandon 7 years ago

hi im brandon i cant get a girl freind for nothing i meen im real smart and fat but almost every girl i ask to go out with me they say no i wonder why pleas i need HELLP!


charles 7 years ago

brandon: Really you you don't know why? Well don't do personal adds if that's how you advertise yourself.

Devin: Well I'm going to tell you what I should do, but fail at. First make friends just talk to get her at school. Make good conversations not like the ones I make that make people accuse me of being on drugs. Yet one girl once told me the best way to get a girlfriend and that's six pack. Never spoke to her six pack, dating someone else six pack, and if he doesn't like you six pack and you'll never have a problem again.

Six Pack


kojak 7 years ago

im kojak i had over 5 girlfriends and all of the broke up with me, but i got my wn style to attract them but so many points are true and i did almost all of them. i like another girl which is in the same school and i did so many things, i helped her, saved her and some more stuff and after ll she gave me nothing back, but im sure im going to get her on my side, my body is very muscular got 6 pack abs and all, brown hair, blue eyes


Not so good 7 years ago

The girls in my school don't like me. Thay think that im ugly. And they say that i have big ears. Im always nice to them but they just dont seem to like me. I thought girls liked the nice guy and not the guy who always acts stupid. Unfortunatly they do. I realy dont get it, so, can you please help.


No girl guy 7 years ago

im in hogh school now and i reely fink ur help will prove good .

i saw a hot girl wen i just moved in and im gonna go up 2 her and say ``ur hot`` and i hope she will like me.


Matt 7 years ago

I am 12 and all my friends have gf's i want 1 but i can't get one plz help.


tyler 7 years ago

hi i need help i like this gilr at school but i think she hates me and i keep think of kissing her at the end of the school year and it'll 1 year till i she herso shound kiss her before the end of the year or shound wait till then?


Nice guy 7 years ago

im dont care wat anyone tells u looks and smarts BOTH count just being smart doesnt help because you will just start saying stupid meaningless stuff because u r nervous looking good helps if u just want some dummy( i didnt say blond because some blonds are smart)but not if u want a smart girl so if your overweight slim up workout> if u r already slim and built start getting smarter if you are both your problem is that you r nervous so practice talking with girls just take it slow and be yourself


murderdeathkill 7 years ago

i like a girl but she lives in minnesota and shes 12 and im turning 11 in november what do i do? -_-


murderdeathkill 7 years ago

how do i get my first kiss


Pedro 7 years ago

Ok Well im 14 dont have much exp. with girls only had about 15 and not a virgin, and well some were ok some were just not right and you need to find a girl who is going to be there for you and actually likes you for who you are dont be someone your not dont try to lose weight for a girl or have a makeover for them cause thats just getting a girl for liking something you werent dont rush things either girls dont like that take things nice and slow actually works be patient in relationships ask the girl what she likes and doesnt like so you know what and what not to do.


bryan 7 years ago

there is this girl that i like but how do i know if she likes me without me feeling stupid ... what if she only want to be friends.. can i ever change that?


getsome54 7 years ago

i need help im confuesed this girl that i like her name is addy i smile every time i see her and i recently found out she likes me the thing is that i want to heat her say it because i really dont belive anyone else i like her alot and our famileys would like us to go out BUT i heard that she dosent like me anymore and like i said i want to hear it from her,i really want to ask her out and she loves wallks so i was thinking i could ask her out on a wallk? idk i really need help


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