I Will Marry Again (... Because You are as Wonderful as YOU!)
Keep The Fire Burning In An Imperfect Love
Great Gifts For Your Spouse
Marriage is a hard work....
Although I have been so in love with the same man for 14 years, we were
just married 4 years ago. It is not always easy… not the kind that would
tickle the heart of a hopeless romantic at all times. We shared the
worst and best of times… for a decade and more.
Honestly, we irritate and sometimes hurt each others feelings. We argue about petty things. Sometimes, our ideas and principles don’t meet. He makes me feel bad at times and I know I do the same to him. Getting into a relationship is not all the good things that we get so dreamy about when we were teenagers.
Relationship, commitment, and most of all, keeping a marriage work is not an easy task.
We had an imperfect relationship for more than a decade. He proposed 4 times before we finally settled for marriage. I was 29 years old… I never wanted to be a wife and a mom at an earlier age. I never relied from any man to satisfy my quest for happiness. I always managed to be happy and get what I need and even the things I want without relying from any man.
And suddenly, realization had set in. I realized that I was happy… but life will never be the same without him. I finally married my man. I never regret having this decision- to be with him for the rest of my life. Not just because I love him so much… but there’s a part of my whole being that only him can fill in. I never bothered of wondering if he loves me as much as I love him… what matters is I love him that’s why I need him to be in my life always.
Yes, I never wondered if he loves me- actions speak louder than words. He knows that. But he says “I love you…” everyday anyway.
I am childish at times and I get so irresponsible. I get mad and say hurtful words to him. But each time I do, he holds me close and says, "I love you (again…) and I understand… don’t explain at all…"
Sometimes, I fail, I lose my self worth… and I feel like I’m a failure. I start getting rude. But every time I do, he gives me a warm embrace and says, “I believe in you… everything works in God’s time… you will always be the best for me…”
I get tired staying in the house. I had to quit my job and be a full time mom. I feel bored. I miss my job. But each time I feel this way, he takes me out to a fancy restaurant… takes me for a walk. He would call a beautician to do my nails or give me hot oil. He stays with me taking care of our son, they hug me and I feel so adorable. They are the reasons why even in worst times, I know that I am living for a cause. They make me laugh and love life much more… and my world is wonderful. I realize I DON’T STAY IN THE HOUSE… but I AM FINALLY HOME.
We have an imperfect married life, imperfect relationship. I’m an imperfect wife. He’s not perfect, but for me, he is more than perfection. Nothing and NO ONE is ever perfect, but I know I am loved so perfectly much more than I wished for… or even deserve. These are just one of the many wonderful reasons why I will marry again soon… and I will marry the same man that I fell in love with 14 years ago. I will fall in love with him over and over again until eternity begins.
Copyright by DjBryle Works, 2010
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