Is Fidelity A Thing Of The Past?
It almost never starts off with bad intentions. Something as simple as a good conversation with a co-worker can amazingly lead to something that is not so innocent. A few talks at work while on your break and the next thing you know you've exchanged numbers and it goes from there. A few phone calls here and there, a lot of text messages. The next thing you know a group of co-workers are all going out to a bar one Friday night. It's just co-workers out together having a good time right? Well, at least that's how it started; now Lisa and Chris are at the table doing a bit more flirting than they should. His hand is on her leg and she is giggling and twirling her hair. It would be all fun and good times only Lisa has a boyfriend...
The year is 2011 and it seems as if we have reached a point where staying true to our partner is becoming a dream or a fantasy. A number of celebrities have fallen victim to this cheating frenzy; however they are not the only ones that take the bait in this type of situation. What is the reason people cheat? Is it a sexual thing, the need for a more spontaneous sex life? Maybe it’s that you are no longer attracted to your partner like you once were. Maybe they are not paying you as much attention as you would like. But is that really a good reason to break the commitment that you have to one another? People tend to think that in a relationship your partner should meet all of your physical and emotional needs and when they don't it creates a reason to step outside of that relationship and look to others to feel the void.
The opportunity for cheating gets greater with the use of alcohol. The access is also a lot easier with it being literally at your fingertips. Sites such as Twitter, Facebook or even Myspace make it to where a person can pursuit a stranger or even someone they know by simply opening their laptop and logging on. These sites that were originally intended for networking purposes are now ALSO commonly used as a dating tool. It is a lot easier to TYPE a flirty comment and approach the opposite sex in that way. The rejection factor is still there however, the fact that you don't have to see the look the person they give when they reject you helps. They cannot see the look of hurt and embarrassment on your face as they shoot you down; on line you are able to save face. People tend to have tons of courage when they are typing on the keyboard and rarely if ever see you face to face.
You're an attractive male. You've got nice pictures of yourself up and you get approached constantly by females. Before you know it your inbox has 80 messages from women who are sending you their pussy via email. They send you phone numbers, naked pictures you name it. The opportunity is there and it’s so tempting, but you are not a single man so what do you do? The more opportunity you create the greater your risk for cheating becomes.
To me if you are going to cheat there is no point in being in a relationship. It breaks trust and it diminishes you as a person. Be single, that way you can screw whoever you want cause u have no commitment (if that's what you want to do). Your word means a lot. If you agree to a monogamous relationship then be prepared to only be with that.