Are You Looking Online for Someone Special?
Are You Waiting for a Knight on a White Horse?
Are you sitting at home and wondering what to do for the weekend?” Well get online and find that dating niche just for you. There are so many online where you can meet great people to date and find that special someone for a relationship.
All I ask of you is to be careful and use good common sense and research the site before you join. However, do not stay in your lonely apartment eating ice cream and watching romance movies---and you are asking yourself—“How does she know?”
Someone Special Might be Searching Too
Well, I have been there and done that---and now you need to blow the dream of a handsome Knight riding into your apartment looking like Hugh Jackman. And get online so you can get out there in the couples world.
If you have a girlfriend who wants to do this with you---and maybe a double date with you and the guy you selected---just ask the service if it is possible.
Remember---if you don’t ask these questions you will never know. It is the squeaky wheel that gets the most oil. If you have never heard that saying research it---just Google it for your answer.
Savvy Women: Time to be Aware.
After writing this article I did some research about some woman and their encounters in online dating. So I wanted to share this information with anyone who uses these services.
First, for ones protection---every online service should do background checks before approving membership.
Ladies Be Aware of:
1. Men who want you to drive or fly any distance to meet them.
2. Men who ask for airfare so they can fly to you.
3. Men who are still legally married.
4. Men who are separated from their wife.
5. Men who have children and mainly want a free babysitter.
6. Men who are unemployed and have been for a while. Might be seeking a meal ticket. (It is not a sin to unemployed---so many good people are facing this today in this economy.)
7. Never be intimidated by a man who does fly or drives a distance to meet you--- then asks for money to return home.
8. Never give out financial information or loan your credit cards to anyone for that matter.
Online dating is to meet others and have fun---not be abused socially or financially. Ladies when someone online sends you an email---it does not mean this is your last choice. You should have enough love and respect for yourself to be highly selective.
Be aware do your due-diligence before obligating yourself---this is only common sense. There are good men out there but one has to weed out the bad seeds so the garden can grow--- as well as relationships.
Don't be afraid to ask any "Online Dating Service" if they do background check before you sign up. Remember this is your life and happiness we are talking about---so be smart online.
Niche Online Dating Sites are very Popular
People on the Planet Earth devotes most of their time on the Internet just doing their daily jobs. After work we all need some R&R with maybe a little TLC.
And if we are obedient we will take Grandmother’s advice on where to meet that someone special. She thought of shopping in Grocery stores, attending different churches, going to weddings, and making appearances in all the communities social gatherings, and parties that unique person would be there. However, I am not saying it is not possible, but improbable.
So what is the common sense plan? Since most of one’s workplace time is largely consumed online. This means we are comfortable online---so now we have the place.
Now you pick the time---at home when it is quiet and---you have time to think. Pour yourself a glass of wine and turn your computer on---because you are going to have fun.
Online dating is a 2.1 billion dollar business, and it’s growing daily. Since people are being more audacious and letting their Internet savvy work for them we see a different future with the brave pioneers of---Internet space. We are little Cupid Cadets in quest of someone special to meet, date, and enjoy life with---as we zoom about in our little Spaceship Hearts seeking that phantom lover.
What should one do now? Does one join the big dating sites that have been here the longest? Or should one find their dating niche?
Here is my opinion: Why should I join a very popular site where everyone is thrown into the mix, to wade through the vast people---who are still there---and have probably grown weary of not finding the well-matched date?
I say “NO” I will not stress myself out on the big sites that everyone and their grandpa has joined. My theory is why swim in the sea of generality, when I can dive into a “Niche Pool” and find what I want.
In essence, if I wanted a “Sugar Daddy” I would go the site sugardaddies or any other site under that niche. Or if I wanted a cowboy because I lived in the country on a ranch or farm, and this is the kind of life I would want in my future then I would search the niche of--- Cowboy Dating Service---and find—dateacowboy.com and other sites under this niche.
I smiled when I found this one as I thought of a few of my friends who would love this niche---Beautiful People.com--beautifulpeople,com--Ugly People need not apply. (How does that grab you?)
This site boasts of over 750,000 members. The director stated that millions of people have applied at ---Beautiful People.com site, but only about I in 8 are accepted.
It is a strictly-controlled community for the aesthetically blessed. Members pay $25.00 per month for the great pleasure of belonging to the site.
With their bragging faces on and chests swelling with pride---this site brags of over 700 marriages as the proof of the beautiful seeking the beautiful, and then producing beautiful families.
We do not want anyone left out so there is a niche for The Ugly People Dating Service—(Do you believe it?) ---theugelybugball.com-- They are taking the very words out of my mouth---as they say---about ½ of the dating society is not beautiful, so why fish in a small pool catching nothing---dive into an ocean of ugliness.
Supposedly, they are saying plainer—or ugly people are nicer and more real. Everyone has a niche to call their own so niche away everyone and be happy.
And if I wanted to meet people who loved horses like I do I would search Equestrian Singles--- esquestriansingles.com--because it is more than just a dating service it integrates horse groupies worldwide. This niche site enlarges your circle of friends, creates the best areas to ride and communicates with others who share your love of horses.
A Few of the Niche Online Services and Sites
In the Cities dating niches grow with the population, therefore, they have a larger database. Such as:
People who love to read books
Jewish dating Jewish
Social Network for Singles
Up Size your dating life---size 6 on up
Dating based on people who love to read
Find Your Greek Match
Only generous men need apply SugarDaddies/Sugarbabies
Christians seeking Christians
Black Singles seeking Black Singles
Democrats meeting Democrats
Tattooed people meeting
Older women seeking younger men
Meeting other lovers of punk style
Waiting for marriage first
However, you can also find these dating niches in almost every large town. So if at first you don’t succeed try another niche in the same category and as I said before there are 1,500+ Dating Service on the Internet.
Now it is easy to pinpoint a niche of one’s choice. There are many free dating sites and others that charge a fee.
Please investigate the following before becoming a member:
1. Does the site do background checks?
2. Is this site free?
3. How much does the membership cost?
4. Are all members single?
Guidelines for Writing a Winning Profile:
Start with User Name Only: (The user name you registered on the site)
Tell about me: (Write a paragraph or two about yourself remaining on the positive side. This is not the time for funny jokes---save the funnies for answering emails it is more appreciated at that time.)
The person I am looking for: (Write from the heart without intimidating the readers.)
What I think would be a perfect first date: (Think about this one, and again from the heart, because this is your party.)
My insight of an idyllic relationship: (Answer this one with a positive tone also---do not let any ghosts from a bad relationship plague your opinions.) Be honest with yourself first---then write your true feelings.
Note: Always triple check your spelling and grammar and read it out loud to yourself. Does it illustrate your true feelings? Don’t be afraid to communicate how you feel and what you want with the utmost diplomacy.
The Profile Photo:
Use a Professional you will be glad you did.
Have at least two made: One with a partial body pose.
Then a head photo: Make sure you smile for the camera for both photos.
A little cleavage is acceptable: But make sure it is done with good taste.
Now you are ready to go shopping for one compatible person who will make your life sizzle.
Remember---this is your journey make it worthwhile---do not settle for a date just because you received emails right away.
Read them well—bisect and dissect each word because their profile and emails are sent to electrify you. Read between the lines.
Select wisely, and remember to have fun---make yourself smile with your positive attitude in motion.
On First Date No Conversations About:
- One’s Life Story on the first date.
- Do not talk about old boyfriends, or that you and your fiancé recently broke up.
- No Negativity.
So remember, it is easier to fish in a Catfish Pond if you want Catfish than it is to fish in the ocean for them. With total confidence this is why I say it is best to join a niche online dating services and sites and select your niche.
Good Luck! And use good common sense for your happiness and safety.
PurvisBobbi44 is the sole author of this article and if copied anywhere else on the Internet or printed in magazines or books it was taken without written consent and is strictly prohibited.
- Background Screening Should be Required for Dating Services.
I would never sign up with a service that did not do background checks. This is only common sense. Why put yourself in jeopardy.And, I believe they should do drug screening. There are too many bad people in our society today.
Dedication of True Love
- Dedication of True Love
Dedication of True Love is a poem about how much American couples give for their country in the time of war; and terrorist attacks on American soil. They are the strong, and brave Americans. Thank you. Updated 03/08/2012 Years later.
© 2012 PurvisBobbi44
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