Oh, Woman!

Oh, Woman, you are the LIFE of this planet.

You are the Mother, the Creator, and an Individual who has Perseverance, Spontaneity, Inspiration, the Elegance and the Patience to endure all that is thrown at you.

You have the Fire within you, which is always burning like the statue of Liberty.

You are sensitive to the needs of your children, your man and you are the greatest lover, a healer, and can comfort your child by just taking him/her in your arms.

You are the Homemaker.

Positivity radiates from you and showers to the world.


BUT, alas since no body is perfect not even MAN there are some arenas, which need a polish from your end.

1. Jealousy between womEn.

Ever heard of 2 woman sharing a man be civil to each other? Why is a mother-in-law and a wife never comfortable with each other in the same room?

A man tends to split the 2 apart.

Only a woman can understand another woman's plight in this wild world then, why can't they keep their common man aside and be friends? Why can't they try to resolve the issue by talking rather than arguing mindlessly over it? Arguments can just stretch the band width of the relationship, which could eventually lose it's elasticity and make the relationship ugly and distorted.

This is one issue that has NEVER been resolved. Alas, is man to be blamed for this, or a woman?

I wish all women who are so bright and civil and intelligent can take this challenge and learn to love thy mother-in-law and vice-versa!

2. Unfaithful womEn

Many marriages split...because of another woman. When the second woman knows that the man is taken then why encourage that relationship. (Some might say, "Love is blind")

Population is in abundance out here and so are the men then, why pursue a man who is already hooked with a lady? Why encourage a man to get a second chance with a woman? When he is booked and hooked a lady beside him, he outta stick with it.

We ought to take the FIRST step of backing out and that will leave the MAN with no choice but, to take whom he has picked first.

Come on Ladies, let's unite on this front and try to be honest and sensitive to another woman's feelings.

3. Success of their Man

Women are behind the success of their Man. This has been a notable observation over many years and many men have accepted it with open arms and heart.

Some classic examples in Hollywood are:

These women have a successful career and have lent their hand in making their man's career a success.

Oh, Woman you are so talented, yet patient and ready to sacrifice your time to bring a smile onto others!


Women are the Creators of the world. What we sow is what we will reap. Our children follow our path. So, let us try to bring a change in the world so, that the Almighty sitting up there, does not say, "Oh, Woman" but instead say, "Jai Ho, Woman!"

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Nan Mynatt 5 years ago from Illinois

Excellent hub! I hope that more women will think about what they are doing and unite.


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downpourofwords 5 years ago from Dallas, Texas, USA

Good one. Well written. Voted up


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K. Burns Darling 5 years ago from Orange County, California

I have never understood the concept of one woman tearing another one down....Doubt that I ever will. Lovely and insightful hub! Voted Up, Awesome, Beautiful and Useful..All the way across the board..Keep up the good work!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Thank you Nan Mynatt for appreciating my work. Reading your profile and the calibre you are at...praise for my writing means a lot :)

Yes, I too hope that we; Women unite on this front 'cause enough is enough !!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Thank you downpourofwords for your comment. Am looking forward to reading great hubs from your end...Cheers!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Thank you K.Burns Darling for your insight into my work...appreciate it :)

Yup, women sure are complicated to understand ;-) Blame it on those hormones huh :)))


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always exploring 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

Very enjoyable hub. Women are the back-bone of any nation, but when scorned, look out!! Hee

Cheers


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epigramman 5 years ago

..Oh, Woman ..... you rock my hub world with your sensitivity, insight, passion ......and the truth .....and this hub subject is so righteous that it tells me as much about the writer behind the pen - in one word: hubawesome!


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Ashantina 5 years ago

I like the message of this hub Ruchira. Unity, friendship and celebration of our beauty and strengths as Woman....


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@AlwaysExploring...so true. Women sure are the Creators and the nurturers but when scorned can be dangerous ;)

thanks for stopping by...appreciated your comment!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@epigramman...you sure have overwhelmed me by your kind comment :)

Thank you for stopping by...however, would love to get more insightful comments from your end in the coming future :))

Cheers!!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@Ashantina...Well said my friend :)

Always a pleasure to get your insight into my hubs. Cheers!!


Arun 5 years ago

Good one, keep the thinking going on this....I see a part 2 coming


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@Arun...haha...I don't have any material for part 2 yet...but thanks for stopping by :)


Fay Paxton 5 years ago

It is an excellent message your hub conveys, Ruchira. Women need to stick together and support one another.

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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Thank you Fay for stopping by.

Yes, sad but true we all women gotta grow up emotionally!


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barbergirl28 5 years ago from Hemet, Ca

Interesting hub... I would hope that women out there would back others up and realize they are only hurting themselves. I hope more following your advice.


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Yup, BBG28...We Women should stand up and be responsible!!

Thanks for stopping by :)


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M.N.Kassier 5 years ago from Sri Lanka

"Jai ho woman" mmm.. Are you an Indian?

Well in your first point 'Jealousy between woman', that doesn't applicable to me. My mother-in-law is like a mother to me. In fact she loves me than her son. So, there's no jealousy between us. And I don't mind other women come and even kiss my husband because I know my husband very well.

We have a good understanding between us. When a couple has a good understanding among them there shouldn't be any jealousy or unfaithfulness.

And if a couple hasn't any understanding at all, that relationship will not last longer.


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@M.N. Kassier....Thanks for stopping by and it does not matter what nationality I am from since, "Jai Ho" is a very popular term used everywhere now :)

It is good to read that you are in a good and healthy relationship...Wishing you many more such years...Cheers!!


Divya 5 years ago

Very nice and absolutely right Ruchira !

A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her...

but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone.

Please them coming...always a pleasure to read !


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@Divya...was ecstatic to see your precious comment :)

Yes, Women have such wonderful powers that we hardly use them but, tend to go with the flow of the universe. Only IF we ponder over them and decide what to do with them...will be priceless!!

Thanks for stopping by...


sheetal seth 5 years ago

Well said, well said....

Jai ho women, the power of a woman is immense and hope to inspire some in other parts of the world!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

@Sheetal...yup, it sure will be a jai ho moment for all women IF we unite on that front and keep those selfish motives aside.

thanks for stopping by...appreciate it :)


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daydreamer13 5 years ago

Bravo! Voted up!


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

Thank you daydreamer13 :)


Binaya.Ghimire 5 years ago

Very interesting topic. Many people think that two women can never be good friends, they are always fighting for their share. We have to change this attitude.


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Ruchira 5 years ago from United States Author

yes, we sure do have to change it :)

Thanks for stopping by Binaya...appreciated your input!


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ubanichijioke 4 years ago from Lagos

A great hub. You ve provided with distinction and understanding the importance and need of women, mothers and wives. A well refined piece. You re gifted. Voted beautiful and awesome


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hello ubanichijioke,

Thank you for your kind words. Always a delight to hear from you :) Cheers!


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shampa sadhya 4 years ago from NEW DELHI, INDIA

Loved your thought, Ruchira. Actually woman is the biggest enemy of another woman. Though we say woman are creators but we woman should not deny that we are destructive too. I really respect your thought and hope that a day will come when we woman will be able to rectify our fault. May the day comes soon when God will address as "Jai Ho Woman".

Superbly written. Voted up and awesome!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hi Shampa,

Thanks for your beautiful thought. Yes, I wish we can change the world in a better way.

Thanks for stopping by!


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ahorseback 4 years ago

Ruchira , Just another comment you don't need ,this deserves an awesome because it is . Do you know that I believe there is none so powerful as woman , nor beautiful , I am in awe of the strengths that a good woman holds within! .......:-}


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thanks ahorseback.

Yes, I agree a Woman sure has immense powers and she is just humble to bow down in front of men and let them pass by her :)

Thanks for your lovely support and comment! Appreciated it!


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makusr 4 years ago from India

Ruchira, Your topics and the perspectives are just exhilarating. You always bring a new angle and fresh thoughts through your hubs. Being in India we have a tradition of strong women like Mrs. Indira Gandhi, great souls like Mother Teresa, singers like Lata ji, beauties like Aishwarya Rai and millions others who make this land what it is. Then there are some who make the literary experience wonderful, and there I find you. Always in awe of ...

MAKUSR


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hello Manoj,

Like the Grande pix of yours...speaks a lot about your personality and your writing.

Thank you for your kind words above and I am happy that you liked my thinking/writing. Santa sure has given my gift :)

Apologize in replying late and not being able to keep up with comments and writings. Had deadlines to meet thus, was away.

Wishing you a great holiday season.


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makusr 4 years ago from India

Hi Ruchira,

You always bring a cheer. Greatness lies in the eyes of the beholder. I read your comment on the day of Christmas. That's the best gift I could get on Christmas day. I read that pictures speak a thousand words. I look your pix. It's mum or maybe I am deaf.

Ye na thi hamari qismat k wisal-e-yaar hota

Agar aur jeete rehte, yahi intezar hota

Terey waede pe jiye hum to ye jaan jhoot jana

Ke khushi se mar na jate agar aitebar hota

Manoj


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Alecia Murphy 4 years ago from Wilmington, North Carolina

Hi Ruchira,

I completely agree that women are life bearers and shouldn't waste their time being petty and snobbish. Life is too short and too precious to get caught up in the dumb stuff.


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Well said indeed, Alecia!

Thanks for dropping by with your valuable input...appreciate it.


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RealHousewife 4 years ago from St. Louis, MO

Right Ruchira! I say up and excellent and all that:)

Love the video and your great point. Very funny and clever!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hi Kelly,

Thanks for stopping by!

We indeed...we Women are powerful and list is mindblowing...lol


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thougtforce 4 years ago from Sweden

Women are the life and I agree with your messages here! Imagine what we could do if we united and respected other women. We are wonderful and powerful and the power should be used right! Voted up, interesting

Tina


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AudreyHowitt 4 years ago from California

Insightful and meaningful hub! When women compete with each other less, we seem to be unstoppable!


Sunnie Day 4 years ago

Wonderful hub! We women need to embrace eachother and lift eachother up. Afterall we know how we think...who can know another better..Our friendships are like gold.

Why be threatened over another woman...We are all unique and have something to offer eachother..

Hugs,

Sunnie


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John Sarkis 4 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

Awesome hub. What can I say that Goethe didn't already in the finaly of his Faust: "To the Eternal Womanhood" (metaphor for creativity...)

Voted up

John


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rambansal 4 years ago from India


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amymarie_5 4 years ago from Chicago IL

Love it and totally agree. I love other women, never felt jealousy towards my girlfriends so it confuses me when I see other women act that way.


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Yes, Tina. Women need to unite on some fronts esp with women and then the world ought to see the power of women :)

thanks for such a wonderful comment...appreciate you stopping by!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Well said Audrey.

Women when united will be unstoppable but, we got to unite :)

Thanks for agreeing with the above content..Wishing you peace and light!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Well said indeed, Sunnie.

People who feel threatened by others need to get a self-assessment done since, we all are unique in our own special ways :)

thanks for such a special thought..loved it!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thank you John for your words of encouragement.

Appreciate it!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

That's a wonderful hub, Rambansal. I admire the strength of a woman and you have portrayed her beautifully as well...Thanks!


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Hi Amymarie,

Your beauty lies in your words. You are a talented person thus, never felt to compete with another woman.

Wishing you lots more years of peace and joy.

Thanks for stopping by!


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shimmering Dawn 4 years ago

Jia ho indeed! Woman is the pivot of life, she could be a maker or a breaker. Well said! Beautifully written! Be Blessed. Shimmering Dawn.


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

Thank Shalom.

YES, we are the makers or the breakers...lol

Well said, indeed :)

Jai Ho to you as well!!


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PDXKaraokeGuy 4 years ago from Portland, Oregon

interesting hub, Ruchira! I love that picture of the man walking with the two women


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Ruchira 4 years ago from United States Author

hahaha...Thanks Justin :)

I am glad you found the above interesting.


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PDXKaraokeGuy 4 years ago from Portland, Oregon

you're welcome :-)


Sunnie Day 4 years ago

Hello Ruchira..great hub my friend with some valid points...I love my woman friends and cherish each one..Thank you


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Levertis Steele 4 years ago from Southern Clime

This is the perfect hub for women, also men who are married or plan to do so! Even if a woman is happily married and feels no need to worry about her husband, there is always temptation around the corner. If he is not looking at other women, many are looking at him. So, it is up to him to respect his marriage.

A few days ago a man said that he was approached by an agressive woman the first day on his new job. He responded, "I am engaged to be married." She said, "I don't care. Why should I?" Many men and women are just as bold. These are the ones who are "hard nuts to crack," low morals, when it comes to common decency. It seems that the man should reason that a woman who does not respect his marriage may not respect theirs if he marries her. When it comes to sex, the brain often disappears. It is a strong and moralistic person who can endure and bypass temptation. A practiced person can easily do this.


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Ruchira 3 years ago from United States Author

thanks Sunnie and Levertis :)

Women are strong and can withstand any weather change around them.

Cheers!

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