On a More Personal Front with Windy Grace - The Love Game

I long for the warmth and passion associated with the touch of true love. Very often have I been told by various "love" partners that I'm loved, only to find that the subject knew absolutely nothing about love. They seem to have no concept of what love is at all, tending to think of me in the same aspect that they would think of their mothers. There is NOTHING sexy about that. I don't need another son. I already have three...

To woo me, and possibly become my life partner, I require you to have enough intelligence to know a good thing when it's standing right in front of you; the respect, appreciation, stamina and energy levels to not take me for granted with the knowing that if you do, you will lose my interest quickly; as well, I require someone who is romantically available enough to comfort and reassure me in times of great pain and turmoil rather than constantly being a douche to me and expecting me to still be here kissing their feet...

I will give you at the least 100% effort and I am the type who just may be found kissing the feet of he who has become a god in my eyes. However, I do not have "Dumbass" tattooed on my forehead so you can stop insulting my intelligence, wasting my valuable time and go on about your business...I like to think I have a little more than just common sense!

If you think of love as a game, I'm not the chica you want to play with. I have learned from the best and I will eat you for breakfast!

I'm just saying...Be real when you approach a goddess; because if you're not, someone else will be.

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Like Eminem says, "Hold your nose, 'cuz here comes the cold water..."

It has become quite obvious to me over the past 36 years that I am far better off alone than with someone who wants to clip my wings, rob me of my dreams and punish me with a death far worse than actual death...Spiritual and emotional death.

The fact that I have sense enough to protect myself from people like them now can be attributed to the battle scars that I carry. Though they tried, they could not kill me. Though I may have fallen for a while and had to struggle to get back up, I got back up and fell back down again and now I'm here standing again...

Love takes stamina, which is why you seem so dead and yet I'm still alive. I'm a ninja, honey...It's going to take a strong man to be with me. I actually have a mind and a plan to get what I want out of this life. If not with me, you're against me; and there are too many great people who are already with me, and some who have been there for my entire life, for me to allow someone into my life who has foul, deceitful intentions. I simply don't have time for the nonsense...I've too much work to do.

I choose happiness and I choose to place these strokes on college ruled sheets of paper with a black Bic pen as a large part of my therapy...Have no idea what I'm talking about? We'll never make it...

I'm not perfect and will never claim to be, but you are in no place to point fingers; because you know you won't like it when I start pointing back.

I am a very passionate person and will accept no less in a love partner. This is very important: If you aren't passionate enough to keep up with me, I don't feel sorry for you. I will try to get you to come out of your shell as long as I can stand it and then I'm out...Someone else will snatch it up if you want to waste time taking it for granted. And, I'm done with excuses in this category. I'm in my prime. Thank you.

That is not to say that I will stoop to the level of being with someone who only wants to play. You cannot play with a Virgo woman. We are not toys for little boys. You must be a full grown man and capable of honestly loving another human being other than, well, your penis...

I do not give the time of day to liars, posers, wannabes, jerks, known cheaters or sleepwalkers. They've had their chance and have given me a great education...Now, I'm past it.

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On a brighter note, there is no one in this world that I do not love. There is no one that I do not feel compassion in my heart for. This Hub is more or less a calling out to whomever reads it to make sure that you know what love means and are at least committed to trying to show it before you ever consider letting the words "I love you" come out your mouth. If you say it and don't mean it, you're a liar. If you say it and don't show it, odds are the one you "love" won't know it and will eventually move on even if that's not what they want to do. Sometimes, situations make you have to do things, make decisions that really hurt. I think we need to become more aware of what we are doing to people. Are we making them smile, or are we making them hurt? Are we beating them down, or building them up? If you love someone, you know what you should be doing; if you don't know what you should be doing, you should be trying to figure it out.

There's enough pain in the world...

It's time to bury the hatchet.

Love & Light,

Windy Grace <3

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justom 5 years ago from 41042

Windy Grace Mason good for you! This hub is incredible. I want to talk more about it but I need to get some sleep so count on me being back here tomorrow evening. You kick ass!! Peace!! Tom


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VAMPGYRL420 5 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A. Author

Thank you, Tom :) I'm just hoping that I haven't offended anyone...It's something that I strongly felt the need to express and I tried to do it as nicely as possible ;) Looking forward to hearing from you later :)

Love & Light,

Windy Grace


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justom 5 years ago from 41042

Windy Grace, if you've offended anyone by simply telling the truth then they are probably not the kind of folks you want to deal with anyway. Personally I was smiling the whole time I was reading it. There's nothing more attractive than a strong woman who won't except being treated like crap. I've only said those 3 words (I love you) to three women in my life and as much as I was kind of a ho as far as sexual things went I never said it to get laid. I also never found it cool to belittle women. I have, for as long as I can remember, been totally the opposite always telling folks (not really just women) how good they are and staying positive. Life is so much more fun helping and respecting folks than to be the one who never has anything good to say. I think those who choose to be mean spirited are not comfortable with their own lives. I could go on and on but I really like the way you stand up and tell us what you expect and I, for one, totally respect that. You deserve happiness! Peace and Love!! Tom


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VAMPGYRL420 5 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A. Author

You're absolutely right, Tom ;) That is where the finger pointing part of the game would come into play :P I'm so glad you enjoyed this...This is how I like to write, from within. The problem is it is usually a little over the top for Hubpages lol I'm working on modification ;) Oh...I'm no angel, but I don't walk around with a pitchfork either. There have been points in my life where I was beaten for years by the two ex's that I still have to contend with today. They still want to argue and try to control me. I just don't get it and I don't allow that in my life anymore. I will hang up the phone, slam the door in their faces and if need be kick their arses again...No problemo :P Though I really don't want to...I only want peace for myself and my children. They don't need to see the unnecessary chaos. From the time I was a little girl until the ripe old age of 29 :P, I saw no bad in the world, refused to see it. When I turned 30, reality knocked at my door. Is there a reason we cannot go through out entire lives with that peace? Why does something have to destroy it? Or, has life in America really changed that much since 2002? It is horrible out here right now though I think there are many of us who are trying the best we can to make the most of it...Going completely nuts while we're at it :P If I survive this Mercury Retrograde everything will be alright lol Thanks for reading, commenting and the kind words, Tom :) As always, you are a breath of fresh air ;)

Love & Light,

Windy Grace


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justom 5 years ago from 41042

I can't believe no one else has commented Windy Grace. I guess they're all reading the drivel on HP about dieting or how to make $ on HP. Sometimes this place makes me laugh. I just did a hub with being a pest to HP in mind. Nobody should get beat up and it always pisses me off when the kids get sucked in to the bullshit. I'm one of the most peaceful people you could know but I have 0 patience when someone messes with kids, physically or mentally. My neck gets that crimson shade :-P Always great talking to you Windy Grace... oh yeah the world has changed. People, in general seem more angry. I choose not to join them! Peace!! Tom


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VAMPGYRL420 5 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A. Author

Well, if it takes bland, dull and boring hubs to strike interest, I will never make it here lol I try to not write anything that I would not find interest in reading myself. I am so going to check out your hub!!! :D I have to take a trip over to the island (Chincoteague) here shortly to cover the opening of a new museum, but I will check for your new hub as soon as I get home :) I can't wait to read it! Hubpages shut down one of my hubs late the night before last for adult/mature content. It was art, the A Perfect Circle video for "Magdalena." I guess the lady's tush in the video was "over the top." I personally saw it as artwork. It really was not that bad. I'm really maintaining my composure with my children's father. However, I can not promise how long I can hold on to my positive thoughts ;) It really takes a strong mind to not do something that you know needs done, but would most likely land your sweet arse in the pokey for a night or two lol I'm not joining them either...I will recluse myself to a witchy little cottage in the middle of the forest if I have to :) I'll catch up with you on your hub in a little while...Have an awesome day, Tom :D

Love & Light,

Windy Grace


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justom 5 years ago from 41042

Looks like it's still just you and me:-P Isn't it funny you have to be 18 to be on here and they treat you like a child? The whole censorship thing in this country is out of hand. It just makes me more of an a=whole! Talk to you later! Peace!! Tom ***Going to jail over the shit is not an option but don't take shit!


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VAMPGYRL420 5 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A. Author

Thank you, Tom :) I won't go to jail ;) I'll plead temporary insanity caused by a preliminary pre-menopausal episode :P I hope you're enjoying this glorious day! :D

Love & Light,

Windy Grace


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justom 5 years ago from 41042

Haaaa! Sounds like a plan. It was a glorious day Windy Grace and I hope yours was also. Hope you're all doing well. Peace!! Tom


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VAMPGYRL420 5 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A. Author

Everything is good for today ;) The weather was absolutely beautiful and the children are all in very good spirits :) What more could a mother ask for? Have an enjoyable evening, my dear friend!

Love & Light,

Windy Grace


CHINONSO 4 years ago

i start this comment by saying:A blind man can't boast of crosing the road,all by hmself.A man can't sayz that he wants to clean the dust in his fellow's man eyez,unless he is able to clean his....Sometimes when people talks bad about some1,i dnt get surprise bcause i've lived wth people of different characters.......people look down on others or matreat othes for some reason:looks,educational background,financial status,alone.some individual who are low rated in all this,often fall victim of such situation.When an individual finds himself in such situation,he should consider,do,or work on the following in order to live a normal life:dnt try to please everybody,bring or relate closely wth people that value and apprecite u,believe in ur self.THANK U:-)


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VAMPGYRL420 4 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A. Author

Thank you for reading and commenting, Chinonso :) It is always a pleasure to hear from you, my dear friend :) I write what I feel, hoping that people will read my work and see themselves more clearly...When someone points fingers at others for small stuff, usually there is something major wrong in their own life and they want to punish the other person for it. It's not fair and it needs to change.

Love & Light,

Windy Grace

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