Relationship 101: How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

It doesn’t matter whose fault it was, and it really doesn’t matter what led up to it. All that matters is “How do you get your ex-girlfriend back?”

It's okay to be hurt and sad, and it's okay to be alone. It's okay to feel like you have messed up - accepting responsibility for your mistakes or shortcomings is healthy.

After breaking up your going to be a highly emotional and one thing to keep in mind is that you should have self control. Be Patient getting back to your ex-girlfriend won't happen overnight. Let the time heal all the wounds...

Before all else, if there is anything you need to apologize for, do it now without the expectation that it will bring your girl back. Apologize for the sake of apologizing then retreat and give her space.

STEPS:

  1. Use the “no contact rule” with your ex girlfriend for several weeks.

    Don't initiate contact with your ex girlfriend. In particular, you don’t get into any arguments or talk about the break up or getting back together.

  2. Create and Follow a Plan

    You need to have a plan to get your ex girlfriend back. The fastest - and most effective - way to create a Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Plan is to get relationship repair advice which outlines strategies and techniques you can use to help you get over a broken heart and re-attract your ex girlfriend.

  3. Carry on with your life

    Keep your self busy. Breakup is a huge blow to you emotionally, one of the most effective ways to get over a broken heart is to keep yourself busy.

  4. Increase your self-confidence

    Make yourself more attractive. Getting a new haircut or hairstyle. Working out or exercising. Losing a few pounds.

  5. Date other women

    It makes your ex aware that you’re okay about the breakup and you’re not desperate or needy to have your ex girlfriend in your life.

  6. Ask your ex girlfriend out

    In effect, you’re starting over again in your relationship. Keep your meeting casual.

    Remember: You’re going to have to re-attract your ex girlfriend.


The right and wrong things may be different depending on the girl. You will need to experiment with various tactics and strategies and pay close attention to how she responds. If she responds favorably, make a note of what you did and repeat it as often as you can without being annoying. It is important that you give her space right now. If she responds negatively to something you do then very simply don’t repeat the behavior.

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lady password 7 years ago

well.,good steps here to get your bf/gf back.if you still love him/her.,.,start now!! so you'll not be too late...

thanks for posting koyndotph!


harry 3 years ago

My name is Annie, i want o share my testimony about the good work of Dr Lawrees, I was in am relationship for the pass five years and it was very successful until my boyfriend went out one day with his friend, then after he has come back by evening i welcome him we both hung each other kill and lot more, then the next day morning he said he is was going to the shop, i said okay then he left for the shop not knowing that he did not go to the shop but went to his friend place who told him that i am not good for him that he should look for another girlfriend, when i was in the class receiving lectures i receive a call from my brother opposite to the house were his friend rented that he saw my boyfriend with a girl coming out of his friend room i hardly believe it cause i trusted him so much, really after the lecture i rush down to his friend house i found out the my boy friend was having sex with another girl which his friend chooses for him , then i went away from there with tears on my eye i could not resist it cause i love him like never before, i never love a man like that before, then i tried to stop him for going to the friend house but he turn against me and sent me away from his house, calling me all sot of names, then i have no were to go to cause i am an orphan, i went to my course mate house, i stay they for the past 8 month but still it was hardly for me to stop thinking of him i was almost frustrated all because i am thinking of him, i said to myself i can not resist it any more, i most get to the end of this, then i beg my friend to please introduce me to any of the spell caster she know about, then she introduce me to one spell caster called Dr agbala, i do not know that he can not even do any thing but just to eat up my money and run away, them i said since Dr agbala can not bring him back that means i can get him again, my friend again introduce me to one other spell caster, his name is Dr Lawrees i don know this man was gos sent to me to save my life, then i told him everything that is going on then he said that my boyfriend is been arrested by another spell caster which the other of his girl friend went to meet, then he said that is noting that he will bring him back within 2 to 3 days, but i hardly believe him cause i have contacted another spell caster nothing was done, really after he has commence on my spell work my run away lover called me at night and start begging on the phone that i should please forgive him that he did not know what he was doing that is the reason why he drove me out of the house, then i have no choice than to forgive him, then i forgive him ever since then we have been together with love cares, everything and he even propose a marriage to me now, please you need to try and help me to thank this man, and also if you have any type of problem please don not hesitate to contact him immediately cause he is God sent, him contact detail is: lawrees24hrspellhome@gmail.com please you need to contact him now on: lawrees24hrspellhome@gmail.com


mary snoop 3 years ago

THE GREAT DR ODUDUMOYOYO WHO BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME .

My name is mary snoop I live in USA, . My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now having another girl friend called jane, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in my house anymore because of this new girl friend. I became confused and didn't know what to do . So i became worried and stranded, , because I have never experienced a thing like this before in my life.

So I decided to visit a spell caster online, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone's ex lover back,odudumoyoyo@gmail.com so I email him immediately and I explained to him all my problems and immediately he reply to me that it will be very easy for him to solve, i have been helping people a situation like the one i have. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me immediately he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really believe him.

So it was 9:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband's call, and he told me that he was coming back home , and he apologized to me, and told me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some minutes later, he really came back home, and that was how we continued our marriage with lots of love and happiness again, and our love was now stronger than how it were before.

And he also told me that once my heart desire has been granted unto me that i should go and testify of his work right here on the internet. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth today as I am writing this testimony, and I want to really thank " Dr odudumoyoyo" for bringing back my husband, and for bringing joy and love to my life.

my advice for you out there who your husband or your wife is acting strange or behaving the same way like this, or you have any problem with your relationship or anything related to do with spell casting, is for you to go and visit this odudumoyoyo@gmail.com, and i assure you that he will be of help to you, and I am 90% sure that he will solve it out.

Thank Dr odudumoyoyo


Mr. Cardenas 3 years ago

My name is Mr Cardenas,my wife was having affair with a senior secretary in her office. I love this woman so much that i would not want to share her with any body. i told her to retire from the job and i would take care of all her needs but she would take it because she is been embraced by everybody in her office, this normally leads to quarrel every-time. i tried all i can to please her and she will promise to be good , some days later she will turn back to her normal way.

i was nearly loosing out, i could not focus in my job, my whole life was full of sorrow and i was thinking i should kill the other man my self and put an end to all this until i saw a testimony from a blog on how DR EDIONWE could cast a love spell to bring lovers back no matter what is behind the disappointment. so i decided to write him via email. edionwesolutiontemple@yahoo.com and now all my wishes are exactly as i wanted. She told me everything that has happened secretly in the past and i forgave her as DR EDIONWE instructed me to and she loves me and care for me as i ever wanted. i know there are many spells that do not work but i want to assure all you out there no matter what you have been trough to have faith and believe that this is the final solution to your problem.

Even if my job is taking most of my time, the little free time i have , i will share the good news to everyone in the world because i know that with love brings happiness and hope for a long life.

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