Signs Your Man or men Might Be On The Down Low
The top 47 signs to look for....Does He Game
First I would like to state that gay people are indeed people just like us but with a different sexual preference, I do not discriminate. There has been a recent wave of gay men surfacing around and there are many down-low men said to be in one particular part of chicago more frequently, I wont mention names but most of the in the closet men are either married or have girlfriends.
Women need to protect themselves by knowing the tell tell signs because this subject is one of the leading causes of STD. So you say your boyfriend or husband has been acting strange ,here a some of the signs to look for. We're going to go with the does he game and if you find yourself saying yes to more than 15 of the questions or at least a majority,chances are he's definitely down low. Please don't by any means let this cause a problem in your relationship by taking too much into it, if you have suspicions just ask him and see what he comes up with and how quick he does come up with answers.
Tale Tell Signs
1. Does he show an interest in the way you style your hair by saying remarks such as that's hot,oh you're working that do,what kind of mousse did you use,did you wash your hair with a PH balance shampoo,or try to style your hair himself? He's probabyly not down-low but could be all the way gay.
2. Does he wear more colorful clothing than you or have a fascination with pink or rainbows or who your brothers dating or your brother himself?
3. Does he spend hours in the bathroom doing his hair or in the mirror flexing or posing?
4. Are his pants always seeming to get tighter and tighter?
5. Does he hug or touch his friends in weird kinds of ways when he greets them?
6. Does he look at other guys judging how they look or how something they have on looks,does he do it too much?
7. Does he watch weird or gay porn constantly? Okay he probably doesn't watch it in front of you
8. Does he listen to the divas such as Patti La belle,Celine Dion,Aretha Franklin or watch Americas next top model more than you?
9. Does he like for you to do weird things to him sexually that a female would most often prefer?
10. Does he watch soap operas knowing all the characters and what's happening in the storyline?
11. Does he get mad if he misses Oprah or another talk show?
12. Does he spend time at the shop getting his nails and feet done? Maybe he's just a clean freak but maybe some mans looking at those toes
13. Does he do facials a lot?
14. Does he smell the scented candles in Walgreen's or other stores?
15. Does he comment on your friends clothing a lot? His friends clothing?
16. Does he wear makeup,eyeliner perhaps?
17. Does he act unusually too happy when a hot guy approaches or passes?
18. Does he pluck his eyebrows to shape them?
19. Does he get nervous or offended when someone comments about a gay or down-low person?
20. Does he spend too much time with a single male friend?
21. Does he gossip about other people to you?
22. Does he ever comment on men looking good or being sexy in wet white T Shirts?
23. Does he have a best friend that is gay or people suspect of being on the down-low?
24. Does he wear thong underwear? Some men do wear them, maybe they like the feeling or maybe they secretly down-low
25. Does he seem not to enjoy sex as much with you?
26. Does he talk funny or shyish like when he's speaking to other men?
27. Does everyone else think he's gay or down-low?
28. Does he ever talk about ex girlfriends? Maybe he hasn't dated females in the past
29. Does he prefer shopping at the mall more than you?
30. Does it take him forever to pick an outfit to wear out?
31. Does he seem like a female friend you'd hang out with on a regular?
32. Does he watch a lot of romance movies,musicals?
33. Does he listen to a lot of love songs?
34. Does he get excited when the circus comes to town?
35. Does he perm or straighten his hair?
36. Does he own a set of flat or curling irons?
37. Does he trim his penis hairs?
38. Does he shave his legs often to have them smooth n silky?
39. Does he own a YMCA CD?
40. Does he have a magazine in his collection that shows gay men talking or in other situations?
41. Does he use any lip gloss other than carmex that has a fruity flavor?
42. Does he walk with sort of a switch like his butt hurts but still manly?
43. Does he choose the majority of your clothes when you shop together?
44. Does he like to dress up sometimes or role play with you where he gets to be the woman?
45. Does he have a fantasy about getting spanked?
46. Does he have male friends who's girlfriends you've actually met?
47. Does he act too masculine?
Again these are only a few signs that I have come across but if there is something I may have missed please alert me on it in the comment section so that I may add it, then we can finally get to the bottom of the down low subject and close it. Its not even what these men do that women care about or people in particular,sure it would hurt if you have been in a relationship or marriage for more than 5 years,have children or not, the fact is many women have dedicated themselves to men who are cowards,who couldn't face themselves by not letting the world know who they really are,but wouldn't change themselves to live the husband or boyfriend part they play. This is a dangerous game because in the end its the female that gets hurt and if those down-low men are so afraid of being ridiculed why not just come out? Society has learned to deal with the fact that there are men who prefer other men just like there are women who prefer other women and we're over it already, we're not throwing stones. Women really gotta be careful these days because most men will actually show no signs at all, but if you feel its what's going on in your relationship you must try your hardest to find out to protect yourself.
There is never anything wrong with being yourself,nobody in the world should have to pretend to be someone to be what others would prefer even if its your family.
More Interesting Reading On the Subject of Down-Low Men
- Double Lives On The Down Low - New York Times
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- Down Low--DL--Down Low Man
Get behind the down low, men who discreetly have sex with other men.
- Down-low (sexual slang) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
What it Really means, if you still dont know.
- When Your Man Is On The Down Low
Do you suspect your man is on the down low? Read this quick guide for women in relationships with men on the down low.
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