Does The Size Really Matter?

Like, we women have concerns about small breasts, the men also have some regarding the size of their member.

Whether its length or width, this can become a little kind of obsession for some men as they measure their degree of masculinity in direct proportion to the size of the member.

As a result they face permanent stress that they cannot satisfy the partner, which may even cause depression or impotence.

However, the only functions for a man's member are pleasure in bed, reproduction and urination, and size does not affect any of the mentioned things.

As we know, the way we think has a direct effect on how we behave and if we repeat continually that we are not good enough in bed when the whole system gradually blocks: you cannot excite anymore, can’t involve yourself, and start to think of completely different things, telling yourself that you lost a fight before you even starting it. That is a really wrong position.

Women simply don't care about size.
Women simply don't care about size.


Therefore people who have a strong character do not take into consideration this small inconvenience and cope with what they have. There is something to take into consideration that there are some positions that can lead to a greater degree of satisfaction without having the size that beats the world record. As they say, no matter the quantity but quality. And it’s really important how you use it and how to satisfy your partner not to focus only on what you feel. It would be great to discuss that with your partner and you will understand better what really matter.

But you should know, women simply don't care about size. There will be the odd ones who say it is very important. The most of the time, the focus isn't on size; we focus more on what you did with it. In all honestly, we will spend more time talking about whether your pleasant look, nice smell, rather than what it looks like.


Another point to take into consideration, women would undergo plastic surgery for several reasons either they are just unhappy with how they look, whether it is a necessary a medical correction, just to raise their level of confidence or to remove signs of aging.

But men began to discover the benefits of these surgeries and even use all the methods to increase the size of their members.

But if you are truly concerned about your member size, why not to discuss it with your doctor, you will see, after discussion you will feel more confident.

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Comments 11 comments

Kostas 6 years ago

Generally what ever you are saying applies to people that sex is jsut an act of instant pleasure and nothing more deep and senser!!

When there is mental connection the sizes and the ways do not matter!!1

the mind and heart can make the smallest penis look that best one!!! everything is our mind and heart!!!


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nikipa 6 years ago from Eastern Europe Author

Thank you for your nice comment, Kostas! I do appreciate your position!


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JannyC 6 years ago

Informative reading. I think I am the odd one out. Shame on me.


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nikipa 6 years ago from Eastern Europe Author

Oh My! :)

Thank you for stopping by!


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nirmal213 6 years ago from cochin

never knew such things!!!thank u boss!


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nikipa 6 years ago from Eastern Europe Author

Thank you, Nirmal! I am glad you found out something new.


S.P Singh 6 years ago

Congratulations Nikipa,for your Great Research revealing Fact Of True Sex Pleasure..


sean from RedGage 6 years ago

It was a very informative reading. I really enjoy it. I thought that it was an interesting subject to write about.

Well done!


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nikipa 6 years ago from Eastern Europe Author

Thank you S.P.Singh and Sean for visiting and commenting! Means a lot! :)


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Randy M. 4 years ago from Liberia, Costa Rica

Regarding breath practice, it takes practice outside of the intimate relationship to help one learn how to regulate the breath. This is internal work that each individual must invest in. So, don't just do it during sex. Then bring your practice and your increased consciousness to the union. Tantra is about consciousness.


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nikipa 4 years ago from Eastern Europe Author

Randy M. thank you for your valuable comment! Highly appreciated!

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