The Guy Who Dates Around

It is not until people are in their 30's that they find out who they one for them is. Some are in long term relationships when they are younger and with the same person for a long time. By dating around you see what you are looking for. What if you found the guy you want but he does not want a serious relationship?

If you like a guy and he just wants to date around than you have to accept the fact that that is what it will be. However in the future he could grow up and want a relationship and he could even chose you. It is all about timing.

In the meantime do not want around and wait. The more you wait and put all your eggs on him the more you are likely to get yourself heartbroken. The way he is dating other girls than you should date other guys.

You do not know maybe you and him are just meant to be friends or maybe down the road you will be together. Nothing is set in stone but you could do something about your situation.

He could care for you but want his freedom and if that is what he wants than you have to let him have it. Don't try to change because you think it is what he wants. Sometimes you can do anything but if it is not meant to be it will not work out.

If you have other guys in your life and they are ready for a relationship give them a try. If not than hang out with him but get out there and meet new guys. Go to bars, online or just anywhere you could meet someone. Try being friends first with someone. Sometimes the best relationships start off as friendships.

Most importantly be yourself. Do not change your values. The right guy will notice you and when the time is right you will be with that special someone.

Everything happens for a reason and what is meant to be will be. Love is out there and when you least expect it you will find that person who wants to date you and only you.

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Relationshipc 2 years ago from Alberta, Canada

It didn't take me until I was 30. Actually, around the age of 25, I had enough of losers and decided I wanted a good guy...and I found him shortly after. But I agree, I would stay with a guy who dates around and expect something different!

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