The "S" Word ending with "X"

Let's talk about Sex

People are often afraid to talk about sex as we either hide behind a curtain or act as if nobody has had sex. Sex is a natural thing amongst humans, animals and all life forms, so why is it that many still see it as shameful or sinful, and never want to try anything new? Sex is beautiful, and great sex is an art form that simply takes patience,practice and love. Sex without caring and feeling is empty and boring, but true intimacy is when two hearts beat as one and every breath you take brings your bodies together. When you love someone with all of your heart and soul ,orgasms are more intense and powerful then being intimate without feeling. Sex is not shameful or sinful as it has been going on for centuries and will continue after we are all long gone. It isn't a bad word it, is a beautiful word and hiding behind a curtain and pretending like you are not having it is ludicrious.

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Try New Postions and Communicate

Be open to trying different positions if you are used to  and playing different characters if that is your choice, just remember it is fine to be a lady in public and a sex kitten in the bedroom as men seem to stray if their needs are not met behind closed doors and gentleman that goes for the ladies too.

Talk to each other about your likes and dislikes and what you are comfortable with and listen to what he wants and in return let him know what your desire and wants are, if their isn't any communication boredom sets in.

Make Time for Pleasure

If you are new in a relationship or have been in one for years, we all know that through the hustle and bustle we rarely take time to romance the relationship, however this is a key to the success of pleasure and having a date night, or a sex marathon can heighten the relationship if both are ready, willing and able. Try to at least make time once a month for pleasure as it will keep your relationship strong and do not forget to respect each others needs, thoughts, desire and wants as Sex is not naughty it is a beautiful thing would you not agree?

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Eddie Perkins 7 years ago

I agree that sex is a beautiful thing in its place. 

I doubt that everyone is afraid to discuss sex though.  It may be an off limits subject though in some settings.  Personally, I steer away from the subject in mixed company.  At other times I feel the subject of sex is used in a way that degrades the beauty of it in its proper place.

God is the One Who created sex in marriage, so it has to be good in that context. 

A good thing can be turned into an evil thing though and I think you have addressed the bad side here as well so I will refrain from that.

Thank you. ~ eddie


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Eddie, I truly appreciate your comment and thank you for taking the time to read it, as people should not make it a dirty thing. :)


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jmichaels59 7 years ago from Hinesville/Savannah, Ga

agree with Eddie, it is a beautiful thing in the privacy or your house, yet it is so distorted by society that is is now main stream, used for selling everything from shampoo to cars!

Between a man and woman it is beautiful...

Interesting...


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I have to agree with you as I wish that they would not sell it like it was a cheap bottle of perfume, it takes away the beauty of what the true meaning is.:)


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LatexLeah 7 years ago

Men can be "sex kittens?" :)

Great hub.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I couldn't agree with you more.:)


LakeFrontDuo 7 years ago

I think you summed up what many men want in a woman "...being a lady in public and a sex kitten in the bedroom..."

Nice hub;)


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Don Simkovich 7 years ago from Pasadena, CA

I think it's tough for many spouses to truly share their feelings about sex with each other and I think this is a shame.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I couldn't agree with you more as intimacy in a relationship is always needed in order for the relationship to stay strong , and so many are afraid of open communication as many believe it is taboo which saddens me as well. :( I am so glad that you stopped by as I was just thinking about , cruising the fan list and stopping by nad saying hello. :)


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Kosmo 7 years ago from California

Sex kitten or sex dog, men can be anything you want them to be! We can even sustain a relationship, how about that?


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Kosmo, I think that is absolutely wonderful and I am certainly happy that men can speak up about the topic.:)


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goldentoad 7 years ago from Free and running....

Sex is great, but my wife has a different opinion. Seems that she is expecting way too much, she should focus like I do and she won't be so disappointed, right?


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

What is this "new positions" you speak of ?


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tony0724 7 years ago from san diego calif

Thanks AEvans now I need a cold shower !


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

GoldenToad: Focus???? Just get into it, no need to focus feel, and enjoy it and she should too.Lol:)

Pest: New positions? Which ones would you like to know about? Depends on where your intimacy takes place....:):):): you know what I mean use your imagination , which position would you like for it to be?:)

tony0724: A cold shower, don't forget the goodies..Lol:)


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

I only have two hands and I am not good with my left at all!

Whispers quietly... reverse cowgirl... :0


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I will help you with the left hand no worries ...Lol:) ooohh I like the reverse cowgirl mmmmm...come on cowboy!!!


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

jksloidffjijafj ajakslj ajlkja ij dooajj f aifulaj !!! Sorry my tongue got in the way! *wink*


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

You are suttering and I am all thumbs. You will have to show me the ropes...:)


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I will let me complete the article I am doing and I will show you...:) Check out running naked as you are mentioned....:)


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

Hmmmmm, I will go check that out.  i will await "the article".  :) Ummm your top is missing and is that mud?


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Oh My!!! I didn't realize it was missing , yes it is mud...:( Now I have to wash up.:)


Rainbow Brite 7 years ago

I totally agree, sex is beautiful and amazing and sin should be the last thought to anyones' mind when thinking of sex. I have recently discovered the difference in sex with love and sex without love and ooooohhhh wwwoooowwww um yeah my turn for that cold shower, pass the soap!


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Rainbow Brite: There certainly is a difference isn't there?":)


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

I loved this Hub and the comments...And it's score is "69" ironically... Bumping it.


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Mighty Mom 7 years ago from Where Left is Right, CA

LOL, Pest! Sure enough, the score is "69" -- did you do that on purpose?

You raise (no pun intended there, honest) so many excellent points it's hard (again, no pun intended) to pick one to comment on. I'm sure there are those who will argue the virtues of a good, no-strings-attached roll in the hay (aka, sport f$^king). But the bonding that occurs with a trusted lover is incomparable.

Thank you AEvens for bringing up the subject. Lots and lots to talk about!


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Pest: You are bumpin it up??? Oh nooooo , well o.k. if it is you.Lol:)

Mighty Mom: he bonding is certainly incomparable and wonderful there certainly is lots and lots to talk about. :)


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Jewels 7 years ago from Australia

How true, I'm looking forward to a new relationship where I can practice intimacy and all that goes with it. And I totally agree that sex without caring and feeling is empty and boring.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Jewels: I couldn't agree with you more and also check out Look don't turn away you are an adorable little star!!!:)


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

Trust for me is, "I will give you cab fare, trust me"  Is that what you all are talking about?

Jewels...Sex is never boring. I always have a good time. Trust me.


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

Pest

I sure hope your partner feels the same way :D


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Oh Pest , I will trust you , yes I will trust you ....*wink*


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Cris A: I wouldn't write it , if he didn't feel it.....Lol :)


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Mighty Mom 7 years ago from Where Left is Right, CA

Cris -- didn't you read about Pest's left hand above:-)?


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

Cris...Partner??? oh I don't know I never bother to ask.


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

MM

LOL He'd better use a mirror then, the left hand would like the right hand :D

Pest

yes, partner. You don't? Poor womans :D


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

MighY Mom: His left hand???? Oh dear that is why CrisA says he needs a mirror.Lol:)

Pest you better get a mirror just like CrisA says....Lol:)


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

Cris...Never thought to use a mirror...poor womans is right.  "You gotta be poor and desperate if you gonna git wit me"


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

Aww Pest, youre selling youself way too short. I'm sure Mable would have a different opinion :D


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Pest I agree with CrisA never sell yourself short .

CrisA: Who is Mable? I am jealous now...:)


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

Head on over to the crib if you like to find out who (or what) mable is :D


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

Don't worry... Yeah... there is a pic of her there.


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

But still a FEMALE horse :D


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I am heading back over there as I had to keep my eye on him , so I am on my way...:)Lol


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

i think mable's in the "spring" hub :D

i think i better get outta here b4 I fall from Pest's grace.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

mmm.... I was just there and Mable wasn' there , I know where you are CrisA, I will be right over there...*Wink*


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

Lol!  Never gonna happen Cris...

Be sure you all check my profile as I have changed it around a bit...

Mable is in the Spring time in the park Hub


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

He is in trouble isn't he??? He disappeared Lol:)


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Cris A 7 years ago from Manila, Philippines

Pest

Just checked it out. You cool cat! Thanks for the mention in your profile page! Btw, I'd rather be the left hand. If toady argues, tell him first come first serve. :D


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Pest 7 years ago from A Couch, Lake Odessa, MI

LOL! You spoke first...


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linjingjing 7 years ago

Very creative


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june688 7 years ago

it's beautiful


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

june688: Thank you.:)


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Tipu786 6 years ago

hi

superb


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AEvans 6 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Tipu786: I am glad you enjoyed! :)


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Harvey Stelman 6 years ago from Illinois

AE,

It's like NIKE; "just do it!"


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AEvans 6 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Harvey: I didn't even know this comment was here until I started looking through all of my hubs and updating them. Funny its like "Nike"! lololo


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zzron 6 years ago from Houston, TX.

You are absolutely right, this is one topic that a lot of people are just very uncomfortable talking about. I have always thought that anyone old enough to drive a car, has had sex or is at least thinking about it and kids today are learning about it earlier and earlier.


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AEvans 6 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

zzron: Kids certainly are learning it earlier and earlier but it is funny how people percieve it to still be taboo, when it is natural. :)


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meteoboy 5 years ago from GREECE

Very interesting and useful hub .I agree with you. Thank you for sharing with us .Greetings from Greece.


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ajayshah2005 5 years ago from Mid Asia

Useful hub to bring back fire in relationship.


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Yaduvanshi 5 years ago from Bharat Vrse

Fully agree with your thoughts however 1 month would be a long marathon wait lets cut it short a little to make it more bountiful and fulfilling. good one


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AEvans 4 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

meteoboy: I apologize for not commenting so long ago. Thank you for agreeing with me.

ajayshah2005: Thank you and I am glad you found it useful.

Yaduvanshi: I haven't read this in so long, I will have to read it. Glad you appreciated it.


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paxwill 4 years ago from France

I thought this hub was going to be about Skrillex.


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AEvans 4 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

paxwill: Mmmm... lolo! You brought one out of the ashes I completely forgot about.

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