The Greatest Revenge To a Girl That Steals Your Man is To Let Her Keep Him
How Could This Happen to Me ?
Laying in your bed while thinking in the back of your head "How Could this happen to me".You are feeling mad, hurt and you couldn't think well or even know what to do.
All you can think about that “I don’t deserve that”,
how could he do that to me when I was madly in love with him,
what did he saw in her that wasn’t in me,
is he in love or it was just a fling ,
All those questions are running in your mind and driving you CRAZY!!.
You start to isolate your self from the world, you don’t talk or meet your friends and not even answer your phone when your mum calls, because you are terrified from their reactions, when they will know.
The Two Scenarios
Now you have nailed him cheating with some other girl, but I’m sure you are not surprised; I also can't say it didn't hurt any less.
All of those hints and your hunch were telling you that there was something wrong going on with him.Late work hours, less phone calls and he is not paying attention to you like he used to, etc…You ignored all that and started to lie to your self, acting like everything was going well, but you had been hit by reality and found out that your man was a cheater.
Usually there are two scenarios, after a woman confront her man about his cheating;
He will react in regret and asking for forgiveness, following by the three biggest lies from a cheater guy's mouth,
- I’m not really that type of guy
- I won't hurt you again
- I'm sorry
He will apologize for his cheating but start to blame you and make you think that you were the reason for what he did, claiming that he had found what he needed with the other girl and end the relation.
In both scenarios, you are thinking of how to win him back and to not to leave him for the other girl.
Well take that out of your mind!! because he really don’t deserve you, and there is no excuse for cheating, he did it while he knew that it will definitely hurt you, and that’s mean that he didn’t care enough for your feelings, so why you are fighting to stay with someone who didn’t do anything to keep you.
Once a Cheater always a Cheater
Only time can tell what type of man do you have, because it’s not easy to recognize a cheater until he do mistakes, and you should thank God that he did those mistakes.
You don’t really want to end up with a man who don’t treat you right and play behind your back
Once a cheater always a cheater, it’s a moral thing, all the time when you were together, you may had the chance to cheat on him but you didn’t and that’s because you are not that type.
Don’t blame your self for his mistakes, just put in your mind that he wasn’t the type of man you would like to settle down with , and make your greatest revenge to a girl that steals your man is to let her have him, because a truly good man can never be stolen.
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