Top Five Things a Guy Notices About You Immediately

Is physical attraction always there? It is to some degree.

One of the most interesting things about this list is the fact none of these attributes are related to the things most women feel men care about most. Your chest size, how tiny your waist happens to be or even the size of your backend are not high up on his wish list. After the head turn from him, he will usually find out how good a head she has on her shoulders and go from there.

Physically men and women are drawn to one another. Though, more than the physical attraction there has to be something to keep each enticed to build a healthy relationship.

Ever wonder how couples stay together for long periods of time? This is where "something" other than the physical appeal comes in. Think about a sense of humor, how sexy is the voice or even the same outlook on life.

What he wants and what he thinks align more than you imagine.

Men and women see things differently, but in countless ways they see a lot of things the same. Amazingly there are more than a number of features or details seen by a man when he looks at a woman. He has a list of specifications in his head of what he perceives in a woman that attracts him to her. In a matter of minutes he has “sized” her up and determined if he likes what he sees and if there is enough appeal for an approach, conversation or more. Although there are a number of factors, knowing the top five will give you tons of insight into what he thinks and feels about the opposite sex.

These are the main factors as a rule men tick off a checklist carried around in their mind. Depending on where you fall means in a matter of the first few minutes he determines if he asks you out or not. Several of these are surprises to lots of females.

  1. Hair

    He does look at you from top to bottom. He spends his first few seconds on your hair. Did you know how thick and luscious hair appears will make a man stop in his tracks?

    This attribute has been on the agenda since caveman days. The thicker and lusher the locks the more likely the chance of getting a second look from him. Invest time in making it look great to get his attention. Do more than simply hopping out of bed with "bed head" and making the club rounds. If you have a special guy in mind and imagine him getting a flip flop in his tummy, work with what you have.

    This doesn’t necessarily mean they all enjoy only long hair. Women with styles other than long are also appealing, but it has to be healthy looking. The shine and bounce makes it alluring to a man.

  2. Smile

    An authentic smile is more enticing than a sexy grin. Smiles moving across your entire face and into the eyes are more honest and real. Men know the difference between what is true and the ones that are false. Fake ones turn him away quickly and he is on to the next smile.

    Women full of excitement and feeling relaxed sport a genuine one while forced or faked ones relay boredom and no attraction.

  3. Eyes

    Eyes are the windows to the soul and men know it. They focus lots of attention on the eyes. Your peepers tell him quite a bit. They say more than any other body part. They actually put more emphasis on these than your waist size or the width of your hips.

    Nice, healthy and shiny eyes are fascinating to him no matter what color you were born with. Be careful of how much effort you spend on lashes, mascara and other makeup around them. Lots of fake things surrounding them like lashes or colored contacts say high maintenance which no man likes to see. They have a tendency to stay away from any woman with high maintenance oozing from her.

  4. Healthy glowing skin

    How much your skin shines says something about you. In fact, men associate a healthy glow with great mental health. Whether they subconsciously know this or not, it actually does say something about how you feel mentally.

    Anxiety and stress on the body reacts to create lifeless and dull skin. Additionally, these issues cause unnecessary breakouts on the face and other areas of skin. All those extras women put on like lotions, moisturizers and even a little bronzer is worth the trouble. If you do not have the healthiest looking skin, give it a small amount of help.

  5. Group size

    Women traveling around in larger groups are less likely to be approached individually. The perfect group size in the mind of a man for coming near a single woman is no larger than three.

    Tons of women go out in bigger group sizes, but it is difficult for him to come in for the approach. Larger clusters typically are terrific for security's sake. Though, a group of three makes him feel safe moving in. While he visits with you the other two are capable of keeping each other company. They do not need to move far away from you and him to make him come near. Simply having their own private conversation while he visits with you is okay.

In conclusion

This sums up what makes his head turn around or swivel back to you. It outlines what a woman knows a man is seeing and likes about her immediately. It is not always how pretty your dress is or what the name is on the back or bottom of that uncomfortable high-heeled shoe. These are a variety of attributes making lots of women very eye-catching to the opposite sex.

Review this list and see if you have any attributes falling in it. If so, the chance of catching his eye is increased without a lot of work or know how. Half of the battle is to know what is on his mind and now you do.

Makeup is one way to stand out. Most admit the best kind is unnoticeable.

A simple change in the look of an eyebrow makes an enormous difference in how someone looks. Going for a small change to upgrade? Think about the brows.

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Minnetonka Twin 2 years ago from Minnesota

Thanks for the fun and useful hub. I agree that the eyes are important-and that goes both ways.


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ChitrangadaSharan 2 years ago from New Delhi, India

Interesting hub!

I believe Eyes are the first thing, a person notices in someone, whether boy or girl. Then perhaps Smile, everything else then follows.

Thanks for sharing this interesting one!


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dashingscorpio 24 months ago

As a man I would say these items get noticed but not necessarily in this order. Body type and fashion sense usually come before eyes and group size. When a man says a woman is "hot" he's not just talking about from the neck up. One man's opinion! :)

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