Ever heard the phrase "You are crowding my space?" An relationship can take your breath away and not in a good way. Mates can be too needy; but, I have an saying and I don't care how much "I Love You"; I Came To This World By Myself and I Am Going To Leave It By Myself; Therefore, in between "Let Me Breath."

Like flowers can't survive without water; I can't survive without air. So have you ever met someone who has tried to suck all your oxygen and what did you do about it?

There is nothing more pathetic than to be clingy and would you want your mate to resent you? Women and men tend to be jealous hearted as well and this is another reason they want to absorb all your energy. I don't get it? An productive relationship is one that does not require an couple to spend every waking moment together. Spend time with friends and family, play sports or anything else of interest. Giving one another space, give you time to miss one another and enjoy each other fully when you come together. Any man or woman is happier when they want to be there and not because it's an requirement. Being in a relationship should not be an prison sentence and you should allow someone else their freedom.

God Bless. 2011

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breakfastpop 5 years ago

I have met people like this and I found a way to remove them from my life. I couldn't take the stress and the pressure and I didn't have to.

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SweetMocha-Monroe 5 years ago Author

Removal is the only way, if they insist on invading your space. The stress and the pressure is tremendous when dealing with people like this and you are right, you don't have to. Good to hear from you again, Breakfastpop.

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