How to Find Ways to women’s Hearts!

Besides our looks, money, perfumes…etc, the way to the women’s heart is not easy as many already know, but it needs smartness and tenderness. Yet it takes sometimes simple ways to capture that heart like a mere smile, or a nice whisper, but it doesn’t mean we don’t attempt to learn new techniques. Anyway and simply speaking, getting to her heart is all about sweet compliments and comments besides the below:


since women like to speak and no one can deny it, this skill requires a strong attentive ear. By listening carefully to what she says, you will get the chance to know and learn how to care and that when you pay attention to small details about her life because she likes telling details about her encounters and emotions. Thus, strong bonds will start to form consequently leading to gratitude, understanding and deep feelings. I tried this, it works.


No matter what she does, always be supportive and be there for here in all situations whether they are sad, frustrated situations or happy ones. A woman likes it when she feels that her man is always behind her to support, back her up, and protect her from any situation. This will give her a sense of strength and power in facing the troubles of life.


A woman loves it when her man does really like her and admire her for her way of thinking for instance, for her fashion style, her hair style…etc the man should pay attention to those small details because they mean so much to her. Try for example to admire her perfume or her personality, sense of humor, try to understand and admire her mind. This admiration doesn’t mean she doesn’t possess those traits! Every woman does and your job is to PAY ATTENTION and look for them. Your woman is a mine full of gold so start digging.


By giving your woman the attention she deserves, you’re making her the center of your universe. Many men are accused of not paying attention to their women, so you have to break this rule and find a way. When you do, you will find yourself having a lot of common interests with her, hence, bringing her closer to you and you to her. Eventually, you will have what people call: BALANCE.


Be proud of her because whatever we do, we are always in need for her. Women are the very core of our little lives and once they stop to be, we become the waste land. What I mentioned here is not everything and it is actually not a magical potion that I discovered somewhere. This is common sense and logic. I am sure everyone knows, but have you tried to work on them away from hypocrisy?

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shamelabboush 4 years ago Author

Thanks a lot.

4 years ago

thank you for spreading your knoledge

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shamelabboush 4 years ago Author

Sweet Brenda, it's true, I've been missing for a while. You know, life takes you away sometimes... I'm glad you're still around. have a nice day...

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Joy56 4 years ago

you are in tune, with us, about time someone understood, what we want,,,,,, spread the word.... so nice to see you around again.... Brenda Scully. Maybe you have always been around and it is me that has been missing..... who knows.

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shamelabboush 4 years ago Author

Oh, thanks a lot RB & DM, I'm so honored you liked it.

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Jay Rando 4 years ago from England

So true, great post. Very useful for many! I do all these toward my gf :)

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Randy Behavior 4 years ago from Near the Ocean

You are a wise man shamelabboush. :)

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DannyMaio 4 years ago from New York

very interesting hub! enjoyed it. Thanks

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