Wedding Traditions in Different Countries around the World

Weddings Worldwide

Wedding traditions vary from country to country.  Even within a country, there could be variations among regions based on tribal, ethnicity, cultural and religious affiliations.  As I went over wedding traditions from all over the world, I got so amazed with how diverse people’s beliefs, cultures and traditions are and yet commonality was very apparent.  Despite differences, wedding traditions from all over proved that humans are social beings supporting one another towards the success of society, especially in the formation of its basic unit-- the family, which starts with the union of husband and wife. 

In fact in many cultures, wedding is demonstrated as the merging of two families and not just the newlyweds.  Regardless of the wedding rituals performed, everybody wishes the newlyweds the best in their new journey…happiness, prosperity and fecundity/fertility.  The bride and groom promises continued love, support and fidelity to one another. 

Let us travel to the different parts of the world and have a peek at some remarkable wedding rites

Traditional Japanese Wedding Ritual
Traditional Japanese Wedding Ritual

Japanese Wedding

Traditional Japanese wedding ceremonies are usually performed in Shrines or Chapels. Visibly declaring her maiden status, the bride-to-be is painted in pure white from head to toe. She wears a white silk kimono and an ornamented headpiece inviting good luck. A white hood is attached to the kimono which a bride wears like a veil to hide her ‘horns of jealousy’ from the groom’s mother. Japanese groom wears black silk kimono. The wedding ceremony itself is either Shinto or Buddhist.

During a Shinto wedding the earth’s natural spirits are asked to bless the newlyweds after a purification ceremony using a special branch called harai-gushi. In a Buddhist ceremony, the bride and groom walk down the aisle holding a juju, which is a string of 21 beads representing the couple, their families and Buddha. The string of beads also symbolizes the joining of the two families. The couple then bows in front of either a Buddha image or a lama and recite prayers, and light incense and candles. They then make an offering, which can be anything from food to medicine. If lamas are present, they also wear loops of string, and recite blessings for the bride and groom. Finally, red paste is applied to the foreheads of the couple.

For both Shinto and Buddhist weddings, san-san-kudo is performed.  While the bride and groom exchange vows, their families face each other.  The bride and groom drinks sake, rice wine nine times to signify their promise to be dedicated to each other before they are considered united.  Families and friends also drink sake then the father of the bride and groom introduce their respective family members.

During the wedding reception, the bride changes into a red kimono and again later into a western-style gown to participate in games, skits and karaoke with family and friends.  Guests are expected to offer the couple goshugi or money in a festive envelope.

Japanese money envelope (courtesy of Gregjapan's moblog)
Japanese money envelope (courtesy of Gregjapan's moblog)

French-Canadian Wedding

On their wedding day, the groom and his friends and relatives meet the bride at her house.  Together with the bride’s parents, they travel to the church in a procession of cars, some of which are decorated for the wedding celebration. Honking their horns and yelling out the windows, friends and relatives will be telling everyone about the wedding. The people they will come across will shout their good wishes back, and offer advice and friendly kidding as they parade through the entire town.  The entire wedding assembly enters the church together upon arrival.

During their reception, unmarried brothers and sisters of the bride and groom performs a quirky dance wearing elaborately colorful or ugly socks, to the accompaniment of a special tune.  Guests will throw money at the dancers as they hop and move around comically. The money is then given to the bride and groom, to help them start their household.  It is common to find the words “presentation only” in the invitation.  This means that the bride and groom request the guest to bring money for the couple instead of other forms of gifts. 

Bridal Henna Design

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mehndi-designs/ / CC BY 2.0
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mehndi-designs/ / CC BY 2.0

Egyptian Muslim Wedding

Up to this day, many weddings in Egypt are still arranged, but that is starting to change in the more metropolitan areas. The suitor’s family proposes to the bride and upon agreement of the two families, the groom-to-be pays an amount of money to the bride-to-be’s family.  The money is called Mahr which will be used to purchase furniture and jewelry called Shabka.  The groom-to-be puts a wedding ring on the right ring finger of his fiancée who is usually wearing a pink or blue gown.  The wedding ring traditionally symbolizes the immortality of the old and new world. 

Just before the wedding, women get together at the bride’s house for a ‘Henna Party’ where they dance and sing.  Mosaic designs in henna mark the hands and feet of the bride.  The next day, the marriage contract is signed by the groom at the ceremony along with the family of the bride and other witnesses.  The bride waits in another room for the contract to be brought to her for approval.  Passages of the Quran and Kitbah (formal betrothal) are read during this ceremony which may take place in a mosque, in a hotel, or at the home of one of the couple’s family. 

After sunset, the wedding party starts and the couple wears their best dresses and jewelry.  The ring is then shifted from the right to the left hand.  Egyptian women pinch the bride on her wedding day for good luck.

Traditionally, the bride’s family does all the cooking for a week after the wedding so the newlyweds can relax.

Dutch Wedding

Traditionally before the wedding day, families of the Dutch bride and groom host a party.  They have them sit on a throne, beneath the pines, as their guests come to bless them and wish them happiness.  Pine tree is a symbol of fertility and luck for the Dutch.  On her wedding day, the bride wears the traditional white dress with veil and gloves, while the groom is clad with an inherited outfit passed on through generations.  Contrary to western practice of having the bridegroom wait for the bride in the church, Dutch bride and her party enter the church first and it is only then that the bridegroom and his parents can enter.  Two traditional items served at a marriage celebration in Holland are sweetmeats called, "bridal sugar" and spiced wine known as "bride's tears."  After a Dutch wedding, newlyweds plant lilies-of-the-valley around their house. This tradition symbolizes "the return of happiness" and the couple can then celebrate and renew their love with each blooming season.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/66164549@N00/ / CC BY-SA 2.0
http://www.flickr.com/photos/66164549@N00/ / CC BY-SA 2.0

Filipino Wedding

Most Christian marriages in the Philippines are not arranged. The bride wears a white wedding gown with veil and the groom wears a Barong Tagalog, the traditional Filipino dress. As the newlyweds exit the church, they are showered with rice and/or confetti and then they release a pair of white doves to signify a peaceful and harmonious marital relationship. Doves are sometimes released in the reception venue. Prosperity dance or money dance is performed by the couple while relatives and friends pin peso (or dollar) bills on their clothing. Oftentimes, the families of the bride and groom make this a contest as to which family can pin more until the end of the dance but the newlyweds are always the winner for they bring home all the money given to them :D

Hindu Wedding

There are many fascinating ceremonies and symbolisms in Hindu wedding traditions but my three favorites are the following:

Let us start with Mangalphera wherein the bride and groom walk around the fire four times in a clockwise direction representing their four goals in life: Dharma- religious and moral duties; Artha-prosperity; Kama- earthly pleasures and Moksha- spiritual salvation and liberation.  The bride leads the Pheras to signify her determination to stand first beside her husband in all happiness and sorrow. 

The next ritual is called Saptapardi wherein the couple walks seven steps together to signify the beginning of their journey through life together.  Each step represents a marital vow as follows:

1)      To respect and honor each other,

2)      share each other's joy and sorrow,

3)      trust and be loyal to each other,

4)      cultivate appreciation for knowledge, values, sacrifice and service,

5)      reconfirm their vow of purity, love family duties and spiritual growth,

6)      follow the principles of Dharma (righteousness), and

7)      to nurture an eternal bond of friendship and love.

The third one is called SindhoorThe groom applies a small red dot of vermilion, to his bride’s forehead, between the two eyebrows and welcomes her as his partner for life.  The spot where the ornamental mark is placed is considered a major nerve point in human body since ancient times.  This red dot or bindi is arguably the most visually fascinating of all forms of body decoration, applied for the first time to a woman during her marriage ceremony by no other than her groom.  It is an auspicious sign of marriage and guarantees the social status and sanctity of the institution of marriage.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/gorigirl/ / CC BY-SA 2.0
http://www.flickr.com/photos/gorigirl/ / CC BY-SA 2.0

Polish Wedding

During the wedding reception, there are two unique traditions done by Polish.

1. The bread and salt blessing is an old and most popular Polish wedding tradition. The parents of the bride and groom greet them with bread slightly sprinkled with salt and a goblet of wine. With the bread, the parents are hoping that their children will never get hungry. Salt reminds the couple life’s difficulty and that they should learn to cope. It is also believed that salt has the power to heal and cleanse, uncover thieves, protect houses against fire, dispel storms and hail, and drive away evil spirits. With the wine, it is hoped that the couple will never go thirsty, and that their life will be filled with health and happiness. After the bride and groom each taste a piece of bread and sip the wine, they break the plate and glass for good luck.

2. The unveiling and capping ceremony, called oczepiny represents the rite of passage from young woman to married woman. The bride’s mother and female relatives unbraid her hair and cover it with czepek or white bonnet. At this moment, the bride is officially considered a married woman.

Korean Wedding

Modern Korean women would prefer wearing the western white bridal gown for her wedding ceremony, but will change later into a hanbok to participate in Korean wedding customs during reception. 

The hanbok for women is made of two basic pieces: the wrap-around skirt or chima and the jacket called jeogori. Together they are often referred to as the chima-jeogori. For ceremonial wedding attire, the bride would wear a lime-green wonsam or hwarrot, also known as the flower robe over the hanbok. On the bride's head is a black cap studded with gems. She wears white socks and embroidered shoes on her feet. Her makeup is simple, except for three red nickel-sized circles on her face called, yonji konji. These circles, traditionally made of red peppers, supposed to ward off evil spirits, are now often drawn on.

The groom wears traditional pants and shirt called paji and cheogori, respectively. The paji  had wide legs as baggier pants so he can comfortably sit on the floor. Two straps of cloth, called daenim bound the cuffs of the paji around the ankles, which leave the black cloth boots called mokwha, exposed. A jacket usually of blue or maroon is tied by a belt called gakdae. Competing the attire is a samo, a stiff cap with wings on the sides.

Highlights of the Korean wedding customs include sharing of a special white wine called jung jong.   Traditionally, this wine is poured into cups made from two halves of a gourd grown by the bride's mother. The couple sips from their separate gourd cups and then the wine is mixed together, poured back into the gourd cups and then they sip again. This is kunbere, the wedding vow.   The groom offers a goose to his mother-in-law as a symbol of his fidelity to her daughter.  Live goose is now replaced with wooden one called kirogi.  Goose is said to take only one partner in its life.  The bride offers her in-laws dried dates and ­jujubes that represent children.  Towards the ceremony's conclusion, they then toss the dates and chestnuts at the bride, and she tries to catch them in her large skirt. The number that she catches represents the children she will bear as fruit of their union.

American Wedding

An American wedding, like other weddings, is a happy, joyous occasion where people witness the sacred bondage of love and life. Traditional American wedding is about bridal shower, bridal party, the veil, kissing the bride, the groom's cake and the honeymoon, which most people are already familiar with. What I want to share is the wedding entrance dance of an American couple who are admirably courageous to break from the norm and produce this remarkably entertaining video.

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BkCreative 6 years ago from Brooklyn, New York City

I had the pleasure of attending Korean weddings when I lived in Seoul. What I like most about so many that you mentioned is that they are family events - the uniting of two families. And so many people have roles. I think the American wedding is one where the bride takes on way too much by herself and is left burnt out.

One more thing I noticed about marriage in other countries is that the woman does not change her last name - Korean women do not. But American women often still do despite the fact that this is an oppressive archaic tradition.

Great hub - thanks!


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Mama Sez 6 years ago from Canada Author

Good observation on American brides BkC. Some Filipina brides are also becoming like that. Maybe it stemmed from wanting to be independent and in control :) Modern brides should learn how to delegate to stay relaxed and beautiful on their special day...not exhausted. After all wedding at the very least is a family affair and not a one-man band.

You are right, Korean brides retain their last name. Others (non-Koreans) have the option to retain their last name but still opt to use their husband's for varied reasons, deserving another hub, lol.

Thanks for the insightful comment, luv it :)


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habee 6 years ago from Georgia

Wow! This is really fascinating!


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Mama Sez 6 years ago from Canada Author

Yes Habee. Thanks for stopping by, mwahh!


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prasetio30 6 years ago from malang-indonesia

those are great information and very informative. My country have many wedding ceremony, like Javanese wedding, Sundanese wedding, Balinese wedding. Those are very unique. You can find out more. But this hub is totally great for me. Thanks


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Mama Sez 6 years ago from Canada Author

Your right pras, lots of remarkable wedding traditions all over. I am thinking of writing a second part for this hub. I should be consulting you then :) Thanks so much!


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prettydarkhorse 6 years ago from US

very nice hub and it is amazing and fun to see many traditions specially in the Asian part of the world, Thanks mama, Maita


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Mama Sez 6 years ago from Canada Author

I love the symbolism of every cultural and religious tradition. Thanks Maita :)


wedding 6 years ago

Thanks for sharing those information..I'll be looking forward to some interesting topics here, so I'll be sure to keep on coming back here.


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Mama Sez 6 years ago from Canada Author

Thanks for stopping by wedding and please do come back...more wedding traditions will be posted in the second part of this hub.


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electricsky 6 years ago from North Georgia

Weddings; they are wonderful everywhere aren't they?

I especially like wearing the cover on the japanese heads to cover the "jealousy horns" from the mother-in-law.


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Mama Sez 6 years ago from Canada Author

I couldn't agree with you more electricsky. Thanks for stopping by :)


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IntimatEvolution 6 years ago from Columbia, MO USA

Great hub! I loved it.


peter lau 5 years ago

wedding, great day and best moments, hope all wedding in this world will live longer and forever


Genevieve 5 years ago

I was looking at this because I heard of this thing where the bride and groom swap blood, and I wanted to know what it was called? Any one know?


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Thelma Alberts 5 years ago from Germany

Very informative hub. It is good to know about the wedding traditions of other countries. Voted up. Thanks for sharing.


Jennapsyche 4 years ago

The informations about French-Canadian(Quebecois) traditions are really confused and most are just plain wrong...


wendy Boezer 4 years ago

Everything about the Dutch wedding traditions is wrong, expect the bridal sweets. The rest is not even close to the truth.


SevenPromises 2 years ago

Hey!! you covered Indian wedding Tradition very well. There are some communities in Indian Where Bride Groom's father is also made dressed up like a Lady, It is really interesting event. you can see more Indian Wedding Article in http://www.sevenpromises.com

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