What Makes a Man Attractive?

There are very frequent and popular questions among girls which are: is that man charming or sexy enough? Why is he attractive? What makes a man hot?

Attractiveness is a unique feature, and as it’s impossible to learn how to become charming, it’s also very difficult to unveil the secrets which render a man attractive!

Despite all that, the attractive man always shines differently and is easily distinguished among his peers. That charisma magnetizes us spiritually and physically as well.

Depending on research and stereotypical concepts according to men, women are naturally considered charming because of the way they look, but the case is different to women when it comes to defining men in terms of attractiveness. While there is a focus on the appearance of men, there’s a lot more focus on many other things like the man’s personality, whether he pays attention to women or not and his tone with kids…etc

We should know that the look is not everything to recognize the attractive man as well as it’s not the money. I can define the attractive man in few words only: he is innocent, down to earth, manly and honest.

I will cite 10 reasons depending on a questionnaire conducted with experts plus normal women, but still, this remains a point of view from a different angle:

Main Characteristics of the Attractive man:

1-The attractive man likes kids. He knows how to communicate with children and understands them and he doesn’t do that to draw any attention; he does that naturally.


2-The attractive man has a genuine and high sense of humor.


3-The attractive man’s eye twinkles without a reason! He is always in search of the core of life. His eyes are sharp with eagerness to examine every single source of joy around him. These glimmering eyes can capture you, flirt with you and engulf you with tenderness.


4-The attractive man has an ever smiling face. He is not embarrassed to laugh his heart out without reservations.


5-The attractive man knows how to talk and control any conversation. His body is in harmony with his mouth and if he speaks, he will utter coherent sentences, and when the conversation heats up, it becomes fun just to listen to him.


6-The attractive man is a mysterious, enigmatic person. He is not ordinary in his clothing or the way of expressing himself. He makes you think that he always has plan B, and he is not the man of chances or accidents.


7-The attractive man is in love with the whole world: he chats with the grocer while shopping, he jokes with the cap driver, and he immerses himself in a pleasant chat with the neighbors!


8-The attractive man is captivating. He knows how to be a leader and knows what he wants. He is a man that you want to be with; to join and be sheltered by because he will show you things you’ve never seen in yourself and in the outside world.


9-The attractive man loves to interact with the four seasons of the year. He likes to wrap himself in winter and feel the wool on his skin, while in summer; he likes to wear as less as possible and enjoys sitting under the sun and taste the weather.


10-The attractive man loves food. He enjoys cooking and savoring every dish and sometimes, he surprises us with his cooking skills.

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Danext 2 years ago from Tanzania

Interesting article, looking forward to apply these tips...thanks


Johnb239 2 years ago

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svenster 3 years ago

Wow. This was a surprisingly good hub. Very well put. Usually reading these things are the worst but this was quite insightful. Thanks for the info.


just me 4 years ago

hey brian dude who commented,

sorta same here

only da girl doesn't lyk me

and im guessin shes lyk u described ur girl, mayb better :D

anyway the difference is i know im not good enuf 4 her

u actually hav her

and if u actually meant dat, it seems ur a sweet sensitive guy so dw!!!!


A guy 4 years ago

If you have to tell your self that you are all of these thing then you aren't an attractive man, you're a douche


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shamelabboush 4 years ago Author

hello rasen and thank you for the sweet comment


rasen 4 years ago

socially awkward guy reporting in.

im kinda nothing of this except for the fact that i actually smile, harhar! :D.

i often get said that im hot and stuff and the girls just are to shy to talk to me.

paradox life.

i dont like the fact that many females still believe in: 'the man has to do the first step'

just go over and say hi. we all like it :)


Anonymous 4 years ago

Women are all man hating psychos who if they find a decent guy have to try to destroy him by any means necessary. Cheat on him left right and center and say it's his fault because he was at the grocery store buying milk (for you). Or whatever. That's not what men look for in a soul mate.


sexysexyme 4 years ago

im all of those things!!!!!!!! yay me!


Brian 4 years ago

I feel very unmanly searching this and reading this Hub.( not that I'm all that manly yet I'm only 16). I've been together with my girlfriend for almost a year now, our 1 year is on the 4th. :D BUT ANYWAY that's besides what I'm trying to say. Maybe this is just a part of growing up to me... but sometimes i just don't feel like i measure up to my girlfriend in attractiveness.(SHE IS GORGEOUS. At least to my eyes) She says I'm hands down one of the most attractive guys at our school, but i just feel that ill never EVER measure up to her and that she'll lose interest in me and want to date other people. I love this girl and Id take a bullet for her, d take the blame for her mistakes , Id do ANYTHING for her... but i fear that she will lose interest in me because I'm not attractive enough :( I've already made a promise to God and to myself, that i would stop at nothing to spend the rest of my life with this girl. Maybe i should search "how to keep your girlfriend attracted to you" but this still helped :) ( it felt good to get this off my chest too , haha XD )


Someone 4 years ago

All the attractive, charismatic men I've ever liked are older than me and already have someone. :(

I really want to find a man who is just perfect for me, not universally perfect.


Guest 4 years ago

Well at risk of sounding a bit stuck on myself, I'm already attractive physically. I get looks from women and men wherever I go. This actually bothers me. What bothers me is that I am being "sized-up" and get approval based solely on how I look. There is a person inside this body. I believe the real desire is to find a handsome man who is great in the sack, and one they can "put up with". Trophy husband, stud, beautiful children. No pressure there! I can take care of myself just fine, I've given nobody the opportunity to make me homeless. I've built my castle and paid for it all by myself. I don't need liabilities like hangers-on who after a couple of years move on taking half of what I have created, which I consider "user status". I'll die unmarried and unattached but I'll keep all my property thank you. Ladies, don't want ya, and have proven I don't need ya. Look out fellas, I've told you what they want, you're just a work-horse, slave, doormat, and a source of cash. You have it, they want it and will do anything to get it from you. Be afraid. Be very afraid. This is why women don't like gay men. They wear shielding that successfully prevents them from being used by women and that goes against everything that's on their agenda. "I can't get ahead off you and you won't "scratch my itch", fix my car, buy me a house so I hate you, you destroy all my plans and all I wanted to do was "change you". Thanks. Thanks a lot. Keep looking for chumps, there seems to be an almost endless supply of them waiting to give away half of everything they have. Is it worth it? Not at all. I don't need my life left in ruins by blood-sucking leaches. Have at it boys, they're all yours!


Lisa 4 years ago

Interesting! Although I would love to go trough your reference list to justify the fascinating points you've made.


Ally 4 years ago

It's funny, I would have said that I have these traits. Which leads me to the depressing conclusion that, in fact, I do not. Damn you internet, you have foiled me again.


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kenneth avery 5 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

Hello, shamelabboush! Wonderful hub. Nice information. Just wish I could use this. But good to know in case the situation, legally, comes up. Voted up and away for YOU are an extremely-talented writer. Very creative. Honest and gifted. I am glad to meet you and now, FOLLOW you. I look forward to reading MORE of your hubs. Merry Christmas. Sincerely, Kenneth


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GL2814 5 years ago

I do most if not all of these things and somehow i still don'y have a girlfriend


Anon 5 years ago

It's amazing how attractive men become when they are rich.

Sorry, just thought someone would like a little truth.


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ubanichijioke 5 years ago from Lagos

The attractive man- all that for me. Ha ha ha, so awesome. I love this hub.


Michelle 5 years ago

Maybe we should try to appreciate the men we have, instaed of worrying about what makes a man attractive. We would rip out the eyes of our man , if we thought he was wondering what makes a women attractive.


Josh 5 years ago

Search for "How to be an attractive man" (A.Kisiel) on amazon.com

Pretty good common sense advices and tips


Deepti.p.Advankar 5 years ago

i would simply like to be with the one who loves me madly,immensely,truelyand forever....attractiveness doesn't mind to me much but love does....i believe in love and i am sure one day i will find him....


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Spike 5 years ago

Hey Scott... the solution to your question is to stop focusing on women. Focus on yourself instead to become attractive in the eyes of women. Women will then offer you their numbers without you needing to ask. This is the secret.

And by the way, most of your communication should be non-verbal... a woman will have decided if she wants you (or doesn't want you) before you have a chance to say a word to her. Men do the same with women. We know if we're attracted to her before any words are spoken - this works both ways.

Solution is to work on developing your attractiveness - attractiveness as perceived by women. The step-by-step process (i.e., formula) is in the Attractive Man Formula ebook. But you must really want to succeed with women for this ebook to be benefit to you. Bookmark the page, http://AttractiveManFormula.com, now even if you're not ready for it yet. It will come in handy when you're ready.

I hope to see you succeed and would be pleased if my book could help you.

Spike

http://AttractiveManFormula.com


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Scott  5 years ago

I think this has at least some merit I suppose. I'm a lot of these things. But only if you get to know me. The first time meeting me, these traits may not be evident. The dilemma is that you can only get to know me after a first date/encounter. Which may not happen given I don't make a good first impression. So that my friends is the kicker. How do you score a number?


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stoney 5 years ago

and love the lord


Spike 5 years ago

To help all you laides out there, I wrote a book (Attractive Man Formula) that teaches men how to become attractive. Bottom line is men need to take great care of themselves - mentally, physically (health, grooming, fashion), spiritually, etc. The result is all the things a girl wants.

Same goes for you girls, if you're not getting all the men you want and want to become more attractive, take great care of yourself, dress well, eat healthy and be beautiful, and us guys will be more likely to like you.

...Spike!


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what makes a man attractive is basic hygine, cleanliness, good dressing, sense of humor, confidence and master in a trade and high social status all this together makes a man attractive.


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some random guy 6 years ago

Yes this man exist..., but you women are too busy chasing douchebags


itisme 6 years ago

mmm let me say what makes a man attractive for me

-His naughtiness with thin lip simile

-His ignorance and distance from people like cats

-proportion of his triceps'and shoes

-Proportion of his pant style which shows his crock size

-Shaved face which still shows he is hairy face

-Masculine, deep voice

-Elephantine fingers with red/darkly skin

-Silted blue eyes

Please dont mix atractiveness and being a good man..lol


aishwarya vardhan 6 years ago

what makes a man attractive is basic hygine, cleanliness, good dressing, sense of humor, confidence and master in a trade and high social status all this together makes a man attractive.


juicy couture 6 years ago

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Ed hardy iphone case 6 years ago

A man can be drop dead gorgeous and have the brain of a rock and the the personality of an Ape! Sorry for all the spelling errors.


sunny  6 years ago

i think if man is attractive then to be handsome is not a big deal


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Gretchen 6 years ago

Black men are the most attractive men in the world.

Sex appeal galore.


ali 6 years ago

very good and thanks precsilla

actually to peraphrase precsiclla's speech is that like everything different the choice is different. maybe a man isn't handsome but for his wife or gf he is the best and vice versa. tanx


girl 6 years ago

all of it is so true. much better than the other sites. can you please make one of what makes a women attractive? there arent any good ones on that.


honey's girl 6 years ago

Really v nice hub shamelabboush..keep it up..


Virtual Frog Assembly 6 years ago

Besides, not only is that guy's mustache STUPID, he's randomly shirtless, has multiple tattoos, and is smoking. EW!(Figurative Language: Words or phrases that mean differently from what they say to have a special effect.)


HAMlett 6 years ago

I prefer turkeys. Their gobbling is SEX-Y! Woot!


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He remembers that I exist even when there is no special occation


LoriFarmer27 6 years ago

People deserve wealthy lifetime and mortgage loans or sba loan would make it better. Just because freedom is based on money.


Priscella 6 years ago

I think an attractive man depends on the view of the woman herself. Like the old addage "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". Very few of the things you pointed out above is what I look for in a man. I have grandchildren so naturaly I don't want them hurt. But the guy doesn't have to be handsome, rich, love the 4 seasons, doesn't have to be a leader or a fallower. The man I'm looking for accepts me for who and how I am, he doesn't look to change me nor does he deliberately seek to belittle me. He's not ashamed to be seen with me or to introduce me to family and friends. He knows there are times when I just need to be held while I cry out all the pain and sorrow. He laughs easily and knows how to play with adults as well as children. He doesn't do drugs, drink, or smoke because he needs no excuse for his own mistakes. He remembers that I exist even when there is no special occation (this 1 not so important because they tend to forget me even on the special occations). He knows that hurting me does not make him a man and he loves me enough to walk away. He may not be Mr. Universe or the worlds strongest man but he has a personality that all the money in the world can't buy.

This is what I look for but not what all women look for but then we all have different eyes, personalities, and experiences that make us see a men differently. A man can be drop dead gorgeous and have the brain of a rock and the the personality of an Ape! Sorry for all the spelling errors.


Anna 6 years ago

I know one very attractive, and I can't believe that: he's american! LOL


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Mark 6 years ago

Weird. You'd only know ALL those ten things if you followed him around 24/7, which is fine if you were dating him. Hopefully you'd have got past his attractiveness by then!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thank you all.


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carolina muscle 7 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

oh, thanks a lot myownworld, appreciate it.


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myownworld 7 years ago from uk

His 'eyes can capture you, flirt with you and engulf you with tenderness' - that sums it up for me! Wonderful hub....loved every word of it!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks a lot Green Lotus. I'm so glad you found your dream husband :) this is so exciting by the way and so great. Wish you both the best of luck and happiness.


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Green Lotus 7 years ago from Atlanta, GA

What a beautiful, well-written hub Shamel. I give it a thumbs up and will send it to my husband on his birthday. Save for his disdain for our hot weather, he is all you have described including being a handsome, brilliantly talented provider with straight white teeth. I visualized him long before I met him and although it took over 10 years he finally came into my life. We celebrated our 30th anniversary just a days ago. Thanks for a great post.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Poetlorraine, J. Depp is just a symbolic character (though he is a fantastic man). Any man can be attractive with some efforts. And thank you so much for your kind and lovely words poetlorraine, appreciate it :)


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Pachuca213, you have a great input here. Charisma is something essential in addition to chemistry. Thanks for your comment JJ.


poetlorraine 7 years ago

i love johnny Depp to look at. Finding a strange attraction in men that actually take the time to listen, I have to say some attractive men on here, in the listening, reading hubs and kindness department. You come way up there Shamel hi how are you.....


Pachuca213 7 years ago

I think you hit on a lot of good reasons why men can be found attractive. Charisma being numero uno! Whether they are Johnny Depp or your average Joe if he has that unique charisma and confidence it shines through whether he drives a Lamborghini or a Nissan...its all about attitude. Thanks for the photo up top, Johnny Depp is definitely a HOTTIE!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

:):):) Actually,I think I am thanks a lot Lee.


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Lee Thacker 7 years ago

for a man...you did very well...you must be keen to many eyes


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks ladyeagle, that man can be found. Just look carefully :) Thanks


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ladyeagle_cdc 7 years ago from San Juan City, Philippines

Good to be with a man who has a good sense of humor, and of course with a little of everything you have mentioned :)

Stay cool!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Very romantic Foureye.... True. It happended with me when you admire someone whithout seeing their face...


Foureye 7 years ago

An attractive man is one you could love if you are blind and have never seen his face. An attractive man touches the heart. Attractive is inside out.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi Matt, as you said, faithfulenss is a must, thanks.


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MattUSAF2525 7 years ago

Faithful should be the most important one. Above all. Very nice hub though. I agree with everything else, except for the man part. Haha.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks a lot chrissie123, of course, a man should focus on the treatment side as it's an important issue. it's all about being nice and understanding.


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chrissie123 7 years ago

This one is a thinker. A lot of things make a man attractive.

They way he treats a woman is the most though. Always been most important to me.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Oh, its an honour GH, thanks a lot :) Kuya :)


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GeneralHowitzer 7 years ago from Land of Salt, Philippines

Wow great HUB here pal hehehe I'm bookmarking this hehehe no wonder you have a Filipina GF with you thanks for sharing man hehehe, I'll keep on reading your hubs pal in the days ahead...


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Of course strictlydating, he should be faithful, always, otherwise, he is not the one I'm talking about here :)


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stricktlydating 7 years ago from Australia

Great Hub, You got me when you said "The attractive man’s eye twinkles without a reason!" It's so true for me to be attracted to someone like that. But 'the attractive man' must also be the Faithful type, otherwise he doesn't seem so attractive for very long!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Exactly Edju, this is the ideal man... Thanks


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks ed hardy.


Edju 7 years ago

appreciates all the things you do, cooks for you, takes you for an ice cream during summer, coffe on winter, brings you a biscotti for fall and gives you the most beautiful flowers on spring.


Edju 7 years ago

What makes an attractive men, is someone, who makes you laugh, reminds you how beautiful you are physically and internally, does his best to understand you, makes you happy even by telling you that you have pretty eyes, shoes, earing etc, most most importantly makes you feel safe :)


ed hardy 7 years ago

I will check your hub, thanks.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Well, maybe its telepathy :). I will check your hub, thanks.


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rider_tiger 7 years ago

Hmmm, I was wondering who got that website title :). Here is my hub with the exact same topic:

https://pairedlife.com/dating/Be-attractive-in-you...


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Bunchee, your'e correct, I love your idea. :)


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Bunchee 7 years ago from Dubai, UAE

what makes a man attractive?? no matter how silly he looks in other people's eyes, he will be perfect in someone else's ;-p


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks Sharing Insight...


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Sharing Insight 7 years ago

:)Enjoyed Re-reading this.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

You too kind MS Chievous and you deserve that speciall someone :)


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Ms Chievous 7 years ago from Wv

Wow Number three was right on for me. The Twinkling eyes! Love a guy who has a lust for life!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Correct louisvuitton, it can be anything depending on the woman's style. Thanks


louisvuitton 7 years ago

Every woman has there own perspective to find some man attractive sometime his snobbishness attract her or his physique or his smartness or his creative side it can be anything.

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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Agree with you dear kunika. Sometimes a small trait can attract us regardless of any other one. It's magic, nothing more. Thanks for stopping by.


kunika 7 years ago

Every woman has there own perspective to find some man attractive sometime his snobbishness attract her or his physique or his smartness or his creative side it can be anything.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Oh, WIndtraveller :) Thanks for stopping by. At least your husband has many of what mentioned here. Consider yourself lucky, and your pun is taken into consideration too :)


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Windtraveller 7 years ago from The Netherlands

Aside from the number 6, mysterious aspect, that pretty much describes my boyfriend. I'm so lucky!! (I don't much care for mystery so that works out well there too)

In addition I am a sucker for a well defined mouth (pun intended)


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Wow, at last I met a lady who has this husband :) Glad for you dear Kebennett1. Lucky you :)


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Kebennett1 7 years ago from San Bernardino County, California

WOW, you've met my husband ;)


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thank you dear sweetbunch.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hello sugarflower! Thanks for commenting. If we search well for that person, we might find!!! Who knows?


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sweetbunch 7 years ago

Wow, inventive :) Thanks


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sugarflower 7 years ago

I like the tips but this is a little too good to be true in real life.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

True dear Brenda! That's why I cjose him. Thanks


\Brenda Scully 7 years ago

Wow such an attractive man Johnny Depp...... it is in his eyes.... He has the wow factor x1000000


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Haha, straightforward Girl, I like that ;)

wish you the best Susan.

Shamel


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Susan Ng 7 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

I've had more than enough "mystery" and "enigma", shamelabboush. I like "up-front" men. Ahahaha! :P


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi Susan, please let me add # 6, or else your man will be boring :):) Thanks for the nice comment dear.


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Susan Ng 7 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

In my experience, I can't always pinpoint exactly what it is that makes a man attractive. But looking at your list, I would have to say a man with the characteristics described in #2, #3, #4, and #5 would be smoking hot! Haha! :D


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks dear Dr Nancy Kenyon, I appreciate it :)


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks payalnik for stopping by.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi Pix, physical look is nice but not a must! The beauty of the body vanishes in time and what remains is the spiritual attraction and good memories. Thanks dear for commenting.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Research Analyst, this is also an essential ingredient of the sexy man...


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi Ms._Info, I'm glad your husband has many of these! Thanks for sharing.


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Dr Nancy Kenyon 7 years ago from Orlando, FL

Thanks! You are unusually insightful.


payalnik 7 years ago

Jhonny depp is da best


Pix 7 years ago

nice hub, doesn't focus too much on physical apparence


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Research Analyst 7 years ago

To me what makes a man attractive is one that wears really nice, maintained shoes. That's really sexy!


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Ms._Info 7 years ago from New Jersey

My husband has many of these traits. My favorite is the fact that he loves to cook and does most of the cooking in our house!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

You bet I am SCStrat, thanks for the nice comment.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi JennCrain, I'm fine thanks!


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SCStrat 7 years ago from Seattle

Thanks for writing an article about me!!!


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JennCrain 7 years ago from Missouri

hey how r u


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi dear mumontherun, with constant reminders, your husband can improve and win the other five :) good luck.


mumontherun 7 years ago

My husbad owns only five of these which is perfect and I wonder what he would be like if he owns all the traits?


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks annvans for stopping by.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi ElizabethCasavant, hope you find the right man someday.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks Jinx for visiting. Indeed, manliness is the key thanks to Randy Behavior :)


annvans 7 years ago

Great hub, thanks!


ElizabethCasavant 7 years ago

Here, here! I recently divorced an a man who couldn't fit the bill!


Jinx 7 years ago

That's a very truthful info. I accept it. The very most and forerunning factor in this case will be "Manliness". Whatever a man looks like, whatever he does, wherever he is, the only thing which can attract women or even impress other men is his mainliness.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thanks Gin, this so nice of you.


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Gin Delloway 7 years ago

nice hub!!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

An attractive man is very rare yet the exist dear AEvans. Thanks for the visit.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Right MissMystery, this trait is very important and maybe the most important. Thanks for the comment.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

You have such a keeper, a nice husband dear TamCor, lucky you. My best to him and you. Thanks


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Of course dori, thanks a lot.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

His brain among other things Anamika S , thanks.


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fortunerep 7 years ago from North Carolina

Very Nice........... These are few and far.

dori


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TamCor 7 years ago from Ohio

Great hub, and I think your 10 points are right on the mark! My husband meets all but the last one--he's a lousy cook, lol--but I can forgive him that, since he has the other nine attractive features.

It's funny how you mentioned the twinkling eyes--that's the first thing that I noticed, when I met my husband...his twinkling eyes...they still make my heart skip a beat...


MissMystery 7 years ago

Attractive men in my eyes are considerate and good listeners~

He knows how to show tenderness at the right time and always acts as an effective listener.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There

My husband is an attractive man and I love him for that, you can have all of the wealth in the world but you also need your best friend at your side. Great read!!:)


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India

For me what makes a Man attractive is his Brains.


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India

For me what makes a Man attractive is his Brains.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

You are correct Rubesh, thans for your comment.


Rupesh 7 years ago

A man who have the power, ie: Society value him a lot, then he is very Attractive. 90% of the womens thinks my man(may be lover, brother , relative or husband) must be acceptable to the public and he must have a good position in society. Body style is not a most considerable part.

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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi nms, nice comment pal :) really something... If you wanna know women, just listen to them bcz you wil not have time to speak anyway hehehe. Thanks for stopping by.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hahahaha, good idea BC :) But, your'e welcome anyway...


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nms 7 years ago from Cochin

I would have bookmarked this hub if it was by some girl/women. No one knows what a women need, not even god, then how come you buddy shamelabboush, LOL...jus kidding yaar.....btw I enjoyed reading it


badcompany99 7 years ago

I like my men hunky, " jeez shud we be in here?" "Nooo, lets sneak out again "


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Ok Randy, as you wish, I will add manly :)


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Randy Behavior 7 years ago from Near the Ocean

Baby-like infers someone else I have to take care of. I don't need another child, thanks. Nice is paramount.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi Randy, but the term Baby-like doesn't conflict with the word Manly! A man should be nice right? :) thanks dear for the tip, appreciate it...


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Randy Behavior 7 years ago from Near the Ocean

Replace the "baby-like" with manly and you have yourself a winner.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

I totally agree with you Lady Rogue :), we meet nowadays people that we don't see or know, and yet, we heard that some people fell in love with a picture!!! Thanks dear for your kind comment.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Dear wittywriter, lucky you really as it's not easy to find such a person... He is a fairytale like Tamar believes.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

that depends on your judgment lindagoffigan bcz you're the only one who knows! Thanks


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Dear Tamar, of course this man exists but you have to delve more looking for him, and look beyond appearances! Wish you the best :) Thanks for your comment.


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Lady Rogue 7 years ago from Cleveland Heights, Ohio

I like and appreciate the noble attempt to define "attractive". I do agree with Brite that the whole idea is rooted in very primitive considerations. In current society, we have the luxury of considering things like being good with kids as well as superficial considerations like looks. "Attractiveness" has evolved right along with everything else. I'd like to think we have further still to evolve. Maybe someday, we'll be able to fall in love without ever laying eyes on a person... Wait! Haven't we already started doing that with the internet...?


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wittywriter 7 years ago from Concord New Hampshire

Shamelabboush, Yes, I married him. :)


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lindagoffigan 7 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

A man is attractive if he appeals to what I consider to be attractive.


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Tamar_Georgina 7 years ago from UK

Personally, i go for personality and i am even struggling with finding a man who has one of those! The qualities you listed sound wonderful, but are not all for me. Money isn't everything, nor are looks... and i dont think that man you discribe exists.. or..does he?!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

You are right Lisa, the above points are collectively considered the attractiveness traits. What I meant is that it's the combination of them all that render a man attractive, in addition of course to your points which are also a given thing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.


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Lisa HW 7 years ago from Massachusetts

Interesting read if this what a survey says, but I have to say that none of the points rings a bell as far as I what I find attractive goes.  (I really don't think an "ever smiling face" is something I'd find attractive; and I lean toward people, like me, who don't care much about food and who hate Winter, the way I do.   :)  )

My idea of an attractive man is one who has the appearance I find attractive (everyone finds something different attractive), one who is super clean, intelligent, and - most importantly - nice.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Strange choice nazishnasim, but it's ok if you like it :) Thanks dear.


nazishnasim 7 years ago

I'd say 'white teeth' :D. Interesting hub!


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

I'm sure every woman agrees with you wittywriter, but does that Man exist?


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Why Peggy W? I bet you're attractive yourself :) Thanks


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Hi BirteEdwards, there are lots of reasons on why we are attracted to someone! There are obvious and hidden signs, but eventually, we will follow our hearts. Thanks dear for visiting.


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shamelabboush 7 years ago Author

Thank you dear 3cardmonte.


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wittywriter 7 years ago from Concord New Hampshire

My attractive man: sure of himself, knows what he wants, loves kids naturally, someone you can trust with - you, loving, kind, funny, serious when need be and loves my querkyness.


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Peggy W 7 years ago from Houston, Texas

I couldn't vote because I do not want to be an attractive, rich or handsome man. Ha!


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BirteEdwards 7 years ago

Attractiveness is somewhat in the eye of the beholder. And still there are the general outlines.

I am convinced that what makes a man attractive in the eyes of a woman has a lot to do with our primeval being, that he must be a good provider, have good stronge genes, etc.

I also know that modern environment is changing the way we look on men, like the first parts about being good with children and smiling.


3cardmonte 7 years ago

excellent hub, smiling is very attractive!

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