What To Do If She Tells Everyone You Wear Women's Lingerie
A great fear for many men who wear lingerie is that not only will the woman in their lives not support the lingerie wearing habit, but she'll promptly break up with them and proceed to tell everyone about it.
This is a possibility for any male who tells his female partner that he likes to wear lingerie. You can minimize the risk by not choosing a vindictive witch to partner with, but men seem to have a weakness for this type of woman so as long as there are men who wear lingerie there will probably be women telling on them.
In the words of the immortal Douglas Adams 'DON"T PANIC'. This is not the end of the world. So she told your family, your friends and possibly even your children that you wear women's lingerie. This may be your particular worst nightmare come true, but it doesn't have to be.
Take a step back, breathe deeply and remember that most people think about themselves, not others. It's what you're doing now, it's the reason why you're panicking and it is the reason why others may not care as much as you might think they will.
You have several options now that your little secret is out of the bag.
Denial - Not Just A River In Egypt
You can deny the whole thing. Unless she has any solid proof (like pictures or video) you might very well be able to pull this off. If she is the type of woman who would tell on you in the first place it is very possible that she's been whining about you for a long time and people have stopped listening.
Of course, if you go the denial route it is going to be much harder to reveal your secret later on. Then again, your family, friends and kids aren't people who need to know this sort of secret anyway, so feel free to deny if you feel that this is the best type of damage control you can muster.
'Yeah, So What?'
You can confirm the rumor and behave as if it is a perfectly normal thing, which in many respects, it is. Most people would not like their bedroom secrets revealed to the masses. You can bet that among your friends and family there are naughty secrets hidden in almost every closet. Unless they are enitely boring puritan types who become viciously jealous at the mere idea someone might be having a skerrick of fun, you're more likely to find yourself among friends than you may imagine.
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