What To Do If You Don't Like Men Who Wear Women's Clothing
Not everyone likes the idea of men who
wear women's clothing and you know what? That's okay. The world is
made up of all types. On one end of the scale of wisdom and kick-assness we have the enlightened ones who understand on a
deep and personal level that all life is an illusion, matter is merely
condensed energy and we are one great consciousness experiencing, as
Bill Hicks once said, itself subjectively.
On the extreme other end of the scale we have those who live their lives in an unconscious stupor, blindly accepting whatever social morays and practices they happen to have been exposed to as children without question and getting very upset indeed when it turns out that not everyone agrees with their particular set of beliefs.
People like this are unable to comprehend the concept of being wrong. But more importantly, they buy into the idea that everything is right or wrong. They are unable to see that nature, which has borne man, is a lover of variety. Very few things in nature follow strict laws of duality, as those who would put clothing into “men's” and “women's” boxes would like.
These people lack the empathy to imagine themselves as they would be if their lives had been different. They seem to believe that, had they grown up in a dung hut in Africa, they would have naturally adopted a Western gender appropriate style of dress (without ever having seen it,) worshiped the Christian God they would have never heard of, and followed the model of the one man, one woman nuclear family, in spite of that being rare among many African tribes.
If you honestly believe that the culture and customs you grew up with have some divine moral backing, you're an idiot. Seriously and unequivocally. If you believe the styles of dress which are currently common amongst the people of your local geographic area in this particular era are somehow more moral and proper than any other form of clothing one's body, then I actually wonder how you manage to get through the day without swallowing your own tongue.
It is a big, wide world out there, and all cultures and customs are transient. If it does no harm, then what right have you to say it is right or wrong? If it brings joy to people, then what right have you to judge it against the template you were handed at birth and declare it wrong? Are you truly so blind? Or does your narrow focus give you a sense of peace in this wild and beautiful world which is rocked by constant change. Those who fear the nature of life itself are often unable to deal with variances from whatever was taught to them as being proper. They'll never question it, because questioning it would open the door to the chaos of the real.
So what should you do if you don't like men who wear women's clothing? I recommend taking the same approach to it as you take to the rest of this beautiful, chaotic and wonderful world. Put your fingers in your ears, squeeze your eyes tightly shut and shout 'LA LA LA LA LA LA LA' at the top of your lungs.
Oh look! It went away!
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