Ways to find your soul-mate
Ever wonder what makes people click? It's like you talk to a person and say, "YES, her thoughts match mine, Yoohooo!"
Sure, that happens very rarely since; experiences in one's life can take people on different routes. But, rarely do we meet such people who have turned RIGHT when a particular incident happened just like you did. What a co-incidence!
I would grab that person and not let him go. Why?
Because life is all about compromises and we have compromised in many ways such as in our Relationship, Friendship, Siblings etc. But, to find a person who speaks your language. Who can complete the sentence you started, is mind blowing.
I would also think DESTINY has an important role to play in this. Those 2 individuals were destined to meet, and thus destiny found "ways" to make them meet.
"Ways" are however, invented by intelligent humans.
If those two individuals are of opposite sex then we gotta say that they have found their soul mate. Many people go through failed marriages just in search of their soul mate. As, it is said that, "Marriages are made in heaven" Soul mates are out there and we just outta look out for them. But, it does not happen with a click. We humans have to work towards it.
Below are a few strategies
- Being at peace with oneself.
This feeling of resonance helps us attract other people towards us. IF I am irritable and have emotional instability then the opposite person can sense it and will avoid me. However, IF I have the sense of resonance then that helps me attract another person. This is a first step to click.
- Being vulnerable in communicating with others.
Individual has be vulnerable in his communication with someone and only then will the other person respond back. The principle of reciprocity follows.
- Close Proximity
Simply by being near someone, helps make a connection. Being near to that person helps spark a great deal of conversations. In this digital age where technology has gone overboard for our convenience, has brought our relationships into a dungeon. We tend to miss out on a lot of random talks amongst our special someone that it eventually hurts our relationship.
- Similarity between two people can help mount up the pile for attraction.
The quantity in similarities makes a huge difference.
- Joint Adversity helps in forming lasting bonds.
If people are from the same city or place; they go, "Wow" and have so many places to talk about. They will tend to share their memories of those places to the person who also has a common interest towards the place. A common environment sure, can help them bond.
So, single men and women venture out into this wild wild world with the above tips and go get your soul mate and start living this life on YOUR terms!
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