"What do women want in the bedroom"

"What do women want in the bedroom"

Always ask for whatever you want in the bedroom and don't be embarrassed because that's the only way you'll get what you need.
Always ask for whatever you want in the bedroom and don't be embarrassed because that's the only way you'll get what you need.
Communication sometimes, get you a lot of love and a caring and loving husband.
Communication sometimes, get you a lot of love and a caring and loving husband.

"What do women want in the bedroom"

When I was young and in love, Having a sexual relationship was great at times and not so

great at other times.

If you're in a serious relationship then you both would want to please each other in bed.

Although, there are times when I wasn't satisfied in the bedroom and that was my fault,

because I was to embarrassed and shame to ask for what I needed in bed.

I know there are still women out there, that feels the same way, about telling a man

exactly what they need and want in the the bedroom.

Women should know that most men want to please their mates, and will try hard

to achieve that goal, no matter what it takes but sometimes they fall short.

This is the time, for us to forget about the embarrassment, and tell him what you want and how

you want it done.

We have to face fact's, all men will achieve orgasm one way or another regardless, even if you

do or not, so unless your man has heated up all your little hot spots; and has done his job

in the foreplay department, you won't achieve your orgasm.

For a women not to have a problem getting her orgasm, her man has to touch all her hot spots;

and light the flames deep within her, that will ignite as soon as he enters her and start making love to her..

She will soon feel the heat and passion of his in and out thrust that will cause her atomic

eruption to spill over into ecstasty, she will sigh with pleasure, and her man is happy because

he was able to give her what she wanted and needed.

We do have some very loving and patient men out there, that's not satisfied until you are,

then they can concentrate on themselves, how unselfish of them.

Women make incorrect assumptions that men know what we want, but they really don't

unless we tell them. They want to give us pleasure, but they're in the dark, unless we

verbally tell them, what to do and how we want it done; for us to succumb to their

passionate love making.

Since, I'm older, I know the ropes now, and if you want to enjoy making love and having

mind blowing orgasms, you have to tell the man what you want in the bedroom.

Believe it or not, a man want to know how to turn you on and how to give you what you want.

Men don't have a problem with telling us what they want in the bedroom. Why we're the one

with the problem, when it comes asking for what we want.

When we don't relay the message of what we want or need to our man, He is working in the

dark, so here's just a few tips on how to tell him exactly what you want in the bedroom:

1.Baby, put it here or put it there.

2.Kiss me here or kiss me there.

3.Do it slower or do it deeper.

4. Lick me here or lick me there

These are just few simple suggestions you can use or make up you own, and I think by telling

him these little things; it will be a great turn on for the both you.

Once you start telling him what you want, you'll start getting exactly what you want and need in

the bedroom, and that's a big promise.

Benny Faye Douglass


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

That you dear, hopefully that's good news for the women, thank you for stopping by my hubs. Godspeed creativeone59


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lesterd2009 7 years ago from Beaches Of Florida

Nice hub..learned a lot of how women brain work in the bedroom


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you for stopping by my hubs, I hope to see you again.creativeone59


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KwameG 7 years ago from MS

and I thought it was just "Everything and plenty of it" :-)

thanks for a nice hubs.


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creativeone59 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Hey we ar definitely on the same page. when yu learn better you do better. thanks again Chris. creativeone59


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Chris Eddy111 7 years ago from Ontario, Canada

I agree 100 percent with you that a woman has to speak up in the bedroom too. After all, it's her choice to participate so why be left out.


Howard 7 years ago

very well put togather, I see where I get most of my writing skills from.

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