"When Love Fails Us"

"When Love fails Us"

When love fail us, we have to pick up the pieces and start all over again.
When love fail us, we have to pick up the pieces and start all over again.

"When Love Fails Us"

Sometimes, when we get hurt in a bad relationship; we become angry and bitter , because we aren't getting what we need and want from the relationship. We let the anger stop us from having a chance to heal and be whole again. When we want true love and we know we deserve it; we must take a stand to fight for what we belive in. what makes me upset is, some of us let the actions of others destroy any possibilities of us ever being happy with someone else, because we're ready to throw in the towel, because things didn't work out with the one you one love. This incident makes on want to give on on finding true love and living a happy life with someone. We shouldn't let one person destroy any hopes of us ever being happy with someone else, that's giving someone control over that they shouldn't have.

Sometimes, when we love to hard ; we take the attitude that if we can't have this person, we don't want anyone else but sometimes who we want isn't a healthy choice for us,but when the heart is involved: it hard to see sbefore your eyes. If you believe in what you and that person has is good and right; then stand on your decision to stay in the relationship and see where it goes, but if you know in your heart that it's not going to work, why waste your precious time on what could have or would have happen if you both stayed together. If you love someone; free them and if it's meant to be, they return to you but if they don't return, you know it wasn't meant to be.

 We cannot let the love we have for some unworthy person, destroy our chance of happiness with someone worthy of loving us. If you are misguided in relationships and really don't know how to choose the best mate for yourself; then pray to God for discernment to steer clear of less desirable people and go out and get you a good book on love and relationships, believe it or not, sometimes a good book can give us great pointers on the do's and don't's of a new relationship and point us in the right direction of true love. So, instead of worrying about what's wrong in our lives, we need to think about the things that are right in our lives and start counting our blessings and the rest will take care of itself.

Benny Faye Douglass (C) Copyright 2011 

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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Micky for you visit and comment and itis hard leaving a love behind, but sometimes, we have no choice. God bless. creativeone59


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Micky Dee 5 years ago

God bless you Faye. I've had difficulty leaving the past and a love back there. God bless you dear!


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you LG, for your visit and precious comment, I really appreciate you. God bless. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Ruby, for your visit and your words of wisdom, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Raymond, very well put, we must have the love of Jesus christ first before we can find true love from somewhere else. Godspeed. creativeone59


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lifegate 5 years ago from Pleasant Gap, PA

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Thanks for the warning, the advise, and the encouragement all in one hub. You put it together well.


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always exploring 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

We just have to pick up the pieces and rebuild, it's not easy but where's there a will, there's a way. Thank you.


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Raymond Tremain 5 years ago from Metro Manila Philippines

So very true creativeone, when we love and then some reason our love may become lost, most fall in a heap, as they feel that that love was the right one, the only true love that you can have is the love from Jesus Christ and God the Father, their love for you will never die


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you Genna, I truly appreciate you, your visit and comment. Godspeed. creativeone59


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creativeone59 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona Author

Thank you so much Donna, for your visit and comment. I'm glad I can help but there is a book that I know of that will help you. The name is: Knowing When It's Right By: Nancy Rosanoff. I hope it help you get a handle on things. God bless you. creativeone59


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Genna East 5 years ago from Massachusetts, USA

"We cannot let the love we have for some unworthy person, destroy our chance of happiness with someone worthy of loving us."

This is so true, and well stated. I very much liked your hub; thank you for sharing.


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donnatru 5 years ago from Danville, IL

Excellent advice! The best Ive related to in a long list of how to get over breaking up, or how to move on after the love is gone advise. Thank you for the inspiration do you have any paticular book in mind to help lead the way? I'm having some issues at this time and, appreciate any support or guidance.

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