When do you give up ?

When do you give up ?

When do you give up o a relationship that is heading nowhere? When does a person who tries their all to love someone quit when love isn't returned? Alt of my friends ask me that question because recently I have gone through it and I haven't given up and in my opinion when you truly love someone even though it truly hurts when the love isn't returned in the way you wish it was it might still be returned in different ways. I was ready to give it up last week but after really thinking about it the love I was seeking wasn't returned but the love I was receiving was being given to me in a different way. It takes two to make a relationship really work and when you feel your other half isn't trying before you blow up at them like I did with mine think about what they do do in the relationship then sit down and talk without yelling and try to resolve the issues that your are being bothered with. Alot of times we can give good advice but when it comes to us to follow it we push it off. So when do you give up? when do you finally call it quits? The answer is different for everyone and every relationship. If you are in an abusive relationship it's time to quit now,if you're in one that you can sit and try to work things out,then try and keep trying. The key question before you can say you love someone is do you love yourself? IN order for any kind of relationship to work each party as to love themselves first. If you don't,you'll never have a good relationship. Another way for a relationship to work is let the past relationships go. Sure you've been hurt and have built a wall so you don't get hurt anymore but you want to be happy and until you let the wall down and try to trust with your heart it'll damage the relationship. I know that from experience. God says he will never leave you nor will he never forsake you, when you find that right person you'll know it in your heart so do your all to make it work. So back to the question; When do you give up? I would say when you've exhausted all possibilities of making it work.

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freenwild2002 6 years ago from Ocala, Florida

YOU NEVER GIVE UP IF YOU BELIEVE IN THE PERSON AND IF YOU LOVE THEM ENOUGH. IF YOU BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART THAT SOMETHING IS MEANT TO BE AND YOU TRULY KNOW THAT GOD IS A PART OF IT THAN IT WILL BE.


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dotty1 6 years ago from In my world

I totally agree with you...you cant let go at all...

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