If you just give love and never get love.

Do you need to let love depart

When love isn't worthy of you

How many times have you been in a relationship and given your all and never gotten an ounce back.

He doesn't hug you or kiss you or want to be seen in public with you. She takes everything you do for granted and keeps wanting more but never gives you anything back. These are relationships that should make you run quickly.

In this day and age men and women seem to have forgotten what it means to love unconditionally. There is no reason why anyone should feel unloved or less than perfect to their mate.

If you are dating a married person my question is why? Do you feel you're not worthy of being loved one hundred percent and need to be shared with someone's spouse? But they love me you claim. Do they really love you? If they are willing to cheat on their spouse with you then what makes you think they won't do it to you?

I cherish my husband every single day and we love each other without conditions. Do we always agree? No but we don't argue either. We talk to each other like two adults should.

If you are constantly complaining to everyone about your significant other, then you need to take a hard long look at your relationship because those people you are complaining to are wondering why you don't just get out of it and leave that person alone if they make you that unhappy. They get sick of hearing it every single day of their life how unhappy you are.

Do you expect your significant other to do everything for you and yet you do nothing for them? Well if you do then let me just warn you that eventually there will be someone who will appreciate them and you won't have them anymore.

People get tired of just giving love and never getting love in return. If you are a giver and not getting in return then you need to find someone that treasures you for everything you are worth.

Love yourself first so that you may love others better. If you can't love yourself and do not feel worthy of love then it will be very hard to find someone to love you.

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Nakia Deon 3 years ago

Love...why does it have to be so confusing? I have been in every situation you have described. Except for the happy one.


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FreddyDeLaSalle 4 years ago from Ohio

It's all true but the hard part is learning how to love properly. If one is too 'nice' it can backfire. It is about respecting yourself and your partner and having strong barriers even though you are in a relationship.


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EZFITNESS 4 years ago from Dallas,Texas

I feel that's why when a lady find someone that truly love and want to treat them like a queen they find it hard to accept! !


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NiaLee 4 years ago from BIG APPLE

Yes Cheryl, that love has to be through you and your happiness, then you can love someone else.

Always take the time to meditate so you rely to yourself, relate to yourself and sustain your self. Love is great, the most powerful feeling that create and accomplish every and anything

We need to focus on ourselves to be a full person and be able to enjoy yourself, life and others and be able to love others.

Love love love is the key, the way, the purpose.

Love and peace to you.


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Author Cheryl 4 years ago Author

Yes EZ true love is wonderful


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EZFITNESS 4 years ago from Dallas,Texas

LOVE IS WONDERFUL !!!!


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Author Cheryl 4 years ago Author

Dashingscorpio while I believe that yes you need a deal breaker to a certain extent in order to get someone to be attracted to you, once in a relationship a person should not put demands on another in order to be loved. Unconditional love does not mean having boundaries it means accepting a person as they are and not placing uncomfortable demands on someone for your own pleasure. Some men and women thrive on making their significant other miserable and although we do have a choice in every relationship there are many who choose to stay and be treated other than they are worth. Some people have no self worth and settle for anything. There are many women and men who stay in unhealthy relationships for a long time because of the children, because its not the right time to leave and for many other reasons. Some people choose unhealthy relationships because that is all they knew growing up. Everyone has a choice but not everyone chooses the right choice. There is such a thing as unconditional love but too many times people come with too many conditions in order to be in a relationship. Those people are just needy souls that need some good old therapy.


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EZFITNESS 4 years ago from Dallas,Texas

I feel that love is the key to life !!


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dashingscorpio 4 years ago

If a person subscribes to the philosophy of Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself... then they aren't likely to stay in unhealthy relationships for very long. No matter what is going on in our relationship it is important to remember we are there by "choice". No one is "stuck" with anyone.

Each of us (selects) our own friends, lovers, and spouse. People change when (they) want to change. You are responsible for your own happiness. Too many times people are quick to point the finger at the person they are with instead of trying to figure out why THEY chose them to begin with. Hopefully with experience comes wisdom and we learn to make better choices or ourselves. To say there is such a thing as "unconditional love" means to me that a person does not have any "deal breakers". Anyone who truly loves themselves has "deal breakers" and boundaries in my opion.


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Author Cheryl 4 years ago Author

I totally agree these are important issues for people to understand. Love is about giving unconditionally always.


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EZFITNESS 4 years ago from Dallas,Texas

Now that is very bad that's is a terrible place to be !!!

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