Where Are The Men???
Seriously, Where Are They???
This might ruffle some feathers, but I have to take a moment to vent. Don't get me wrong, I know that there are some good men out there, somewhere, but lately it seems harder and harder to meet a real man. When I was in my twenties it was so much easier. Two people would meet, if they liked each other they would go for it and date, and either it worked out or it didn't. Now it's a LOT more difficult. Now, guys seem much more indecisive and don't seem to know who they are, where they came from, where they're going, or what they want. I've met some "men" who appeared to be really great at first, but then they didn't stay that way. After a point they turned out to be married or chronic liars and game players. What happened to the days where people just had fun and really got to know each other. Why do people marry someone they don't even know or like and then wind up cheating? Then there are the one's who meet somebody really great and sabotage it because in some sick, twisted way they've convinced themselves that they're not worthy of happiness. Unbelievable, we're all worthy and deserve to be happy!!! To me it's shouldn't be so hard. We've all been hurt before, but love is a risk worth taking because if you open up to the right person at the right time, magic can happen. I'm open, but not willing to endure any b.s from anybody. When I meet a real man whose honest, considerate, not afraid to express his feelings, and knows exactly what he wants then I won't hesitate to give it a shot. Again, I know that all men aren't bad, there's just a lot out there that could be doing a whole lot better. In the meantime I'll continue loving and enjoying myself as much as I can and appreciate everything else that I have in my life. I'm alive and I have a lot to be thankful for.