Women: Why Do Men Easily Succumb to Infidelity?

Man is Adventurous

If there is one thing that bothers many women, it’s why many men find it difficulty to maintain a monogamous passion with one lover. In the initial stages of a new relationship, love making with the man you love is spontaneous and the woman is always anxious to have more of it with the same man. But man is adventurous and in continuous need of excitement in his life. The anatomy of man does not make thing any better – he easily gets s^xually excited.

Infidelity is Complete

With the passing of time, the spontaneous love making from your man starts becoming mechanical love making with little or no satisfaction and fulfillment. At this juncture, there should be every reason for the alert woman to get concerned. What your man need at this point is a chance to be in the right environment with another woman and infidelity will be complete. The moment a woman allows her man to be away from her love, she simultaneously creates a vacuum which can easily be filled by another.

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Spontaneous love making from your man starts becoming mechanical love making with little or no satisfaction and fulfillment
Spontaneous love making from your man starts becoming mechanical love making with little or no satisfaction and fulfillment

No Woman Can Forget Infidelity

Unfortunately, it is not easy for any woman to forget infidelity. She may forgive but will not forget and her passion will never be the same again. Passion is the secret that keeps a couple together. To remain a prisoner in a passionless relationship is not a choice that many people are willing to make. With the absence of passion from the woman, the man will becomes polygamous even after the woman has promised to forgive the first incidence of infidelity.

Hunting and Conquering Never Seems To End

Many marital problems originate from infidelity. When infidelity occurs in a marriage, the love that was exclusively shared ceases to be and trust is lost. What follows is a feeling of betrayal and very few couples are able to make it beyond here. When a man moves out of a monogamous relationship with another woman, he is unlikely to stop there but will continue having a string of women. To him it’s an adventure, always looking for excitement. As soon as he gets used to the new woman, he is on the hunt again, looking for more excitement. The hunting and conquering never seems to end.

Happy and Lasting Union

Monogamous passion in marriage is the number one requirement to a happy and lasting union. Many men do not seem to see the reason why monogamous passion is so important to women. When there is a monogamous passion, a woman instinctively feels special and loved. There are very few women, if any, that can have the strength to continue loving their men, when their men are having s^xual relationships with other women. Men who take on second mistresses know the problems they get into when the first mistress learns that he is having another affair. Few women have the capacity to share their man – they would rather leave than share him.

Passionless Relationship

Unfortunately, it is not easy for any woman to forget infidelity. She may forgive but will not forget and her passion will never be the same again. Passion is the secret that keeps a couple together. To remain a prisoner in a passionless relationship is not a choice that many people are willing to make. With the absence of passion from the woman, the man will becomes polygamous even after the woman has promised to forgive the first incidence of infidelity.

Man Should Lock His Attraction into His Woman

It may not be easy, but for a man to retain his woman, the man should lock his attraction fully into his woman. It takes years of commitment on the part of the man but finally your passion will only flow in the direction of your partner.

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Lyn.Stewart 5 years ago from Auckland, New Zealand

To be honest I believe these men either should have open relationships where they can both sleep with whomever they wish to or ...

They havn't found the right women for them. Different women like different men have differing drives (so to speak)

There is always a honeymoon period that lasts 3-6 months and then you will find out what the true (drive) of your partner is. Talking to each other and letting your partner know what your needs are can help. Doing this early is best.


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cathylynn99 5 years ago from northeastern US

women are just as likely to stray as men. in the US, the rate of infidelity is 50% for both men and women. half of folks in a monogamous relationship will honor their commitment. if you are honorable, chances are good that you can find someone equally honorable.

the best predictors of infidelity are high sex drive and low self-esteem, according to maslowe, who studied sexual behavior extensively.


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Wesman Todd Shaw 5 years ago from Kaufman, Texas

I'm with cathylnn99 on this one - I think it's a HUGE mistake to think for even a second that men are more likely to be promiscuous or unfaithful within the context of marriage.


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LeanMan 4 years ago from At the Gemba

100% women are as bad us us guys - after all who are the guys having their affairs with? There are as many women playing away from home as there are men (but probably a lot more men wishing they were!!!)

In my experience when I was a young single guy the married women were easier to bed than single women! (I was a bad boy before I grew up!)

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