You are the CEO of your Life

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☆҉‿Research has shown that the 5 people we associate with the most, influence the way we behave and we will be like those friends in a matter of years, as we gravitate toward their attitudes and even habits.

.People affect us in various ways:

  1. Some people make you laugh so much when they are around you.
  2. Some inspire you to be a better person.
  3. Some can make you lose your self esteem as they can’t see you being good at anything.
  4. Some see you hit rock bottom and kindly/patiently give a loving hand to lift you up. Non - Judgemental.
  5. Many are there when life is rosy - full of abundance and success.
  6. Some hide when you are going through difficult times and feeling so stressed.
  7. A few walk in and stand by you, when the rest of the world walks out on you.
  8. Some just give of themselves.
  9. Some just take and take.
  10. Some you think of and break into a smile.
  11. Some you think of and feel a dark cloud looming.
  12. Then there are those who are no longer friends because they are now like family to you. So close, you can share anything with them.


You know who is who.....

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Quote

~ “Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.” ~ Mother Theresa

(Ps.

Cutting people off doesn’t necessaritly mean not speaking to them. It’s spending very less time with them.)

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James-wolve 3 years ago from Morocco

Beautiful and wise words. Life is kind of like a party.you invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up really late. But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. and most of the time, they arent even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends in life. They are the ones who matter most.

Many Blessings to you.


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billybuc 3 years ago from Olympia, WA

I love the message in this one, Elena! Well done and a must read for anyone who wants to be happy in life.


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ComfortB 3 years ago from Bonaire, GA, USA

You are so right and on target! We are surrounded by people we can either do without or by those we can't do without.

Voted up and beautiful.


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Ruchira 3 years ago from United States

Beautiful message. So true.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@James - Wolve - Wow... you put that in such perfect words. I will quote it people when I need to. Wise man. :-) Thanks. I appreciate you sharing. Blessings to you too.

@BillyBuc - Thanks Bill. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Lovely of you to stop by.

Best Wishes.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@ComfortB - So true, but sometimes it takes a while to know who really is who. Good to see you. Thanks.

@Ruchira - Thanks Ruchira. Best Wishes.


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ImKarn23 3 years ago

Some will, some won't..

Some do, some don't..

Great reminder here, girlfriend - choose your friends wisely...they're not like family - we DO have a choice...lol

up and sharing on, hon!


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Mhatter99 3 years ago from San Francisco

Thank you for this. When one is in the charity business one moves to a whole new level.


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Dan Barfield 3 years ago from Gloucestershire, England, UK

Very wise words indeed! People often fail to recognise the massive influence the people they hang around with have on their lives and their choices and attitudes. If you surround yourself with positive minded people who support you when the going is tough, you become stronger, more supportive and positive minded yourself. Behaviour in groups forms feedback loops that intensify those behaviour patterns.


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Vacation Trip 3 years ago from India

Perfectly written. I agree with you. Good Wishes.


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Eiddwen 3 years ago from Wales

A wonderful share and left much needed food for thought .I vote up,across and share.

Have a great day.

Eddy.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@Imkarn So true - We should choose wisely. Lovely of you to stop by.

@MHatter - Very interesting comment. Thanks for stopping.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@Dan Barfield - Thanks for sharing those wise words. I appreciate you stopping by.

@Vacation Trip - Thanks. Nice of you to stop by.

@Eiddwen - Thanks Eddy. I'm glad you enjoyed it.


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Sunshine625 3 years ago from Orlando, FL

Hi Elena...I, for one enjoy being the CEO of my life. I can fire myself at any time, so I try my best to behave! :)


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MsDora 3 years ago from The Caribbean

I love the CEO concept. You make the final judgement. Thanks for the reminder.


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acaetnna 3 years ago from Guildford

Wow what a great message and very wise words indeed. What a brilliant write as always.


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HLPhoenix 3 years ago

A wonderful message, delivered perfectly... CEO of your life... one of those things someone else writes that hits you upside the head, you shake your head saying why didn't I think of that?

My favorite # ...

12.Then there are those who are no longer friends because they are now like family to you. So close, you can share anything with them.

One is born into a family, and makes friends early in life... other people marry into your family... you make the point that 'we' have the power to let the negative imput of others bring us down or take control... and limit the negative imput value. So wise, so true. Sharing.


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always exploring 3 years ago from Southern Illinois

Words of wisdom Elena. I love Mother Theresa's quote. Thank you for sharing..Hugs..


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Nell Rose 3 years ago from England

Ver wise words, I had a friend who I ended up calling a psychic vampire, she totally drained me. as you said, she took and took, but she was my best friend. sadly she passed away now I feel awful but I also know there was nothing I could do to help her, friends are the best thing we can have, but sometimes they can bring you down, nell


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@Sunshine625 - Lol.... Oh, you can't fire yourself. Thanks so much for stopping and for your lovely posts on Facebook.

@MsDora - True. You certainly make the final judgement. Thanks and Best Wishes.

@Acaetnna - Thanks for your kind comments. Lovely to see you.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@HL Phoenix - You made some very interesting points, particularly about marrying into a family. I'm glad you stopped by. Thanks. :-)

@AlwaysExploring - Thanks Ruby. Mother Theresa was an awesome Angel in Disguise. I'm glad you like her quote. :-) Lovely to see you. xx


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@Nell Rose - Aaawh sorry to hear about your friend. I'm sure you did the best you could for her. As you noted friends are the best thing we can have - they all have their unique ways. Thanks for stopping.


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lmpounds 3 years ago from St. Louis

Thanks for sharing. Look forward to reading much more of your work.


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teaches12345 3 years ago

Excellent outlook on taking charge of one's life. We must not let others dictate our thoughts, we have our own self to define as we mature and grow.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@Impounds. Thanks, I appreciate you stopping by.

@Teaches12345 - You are so right Dianne. Lovely of you to stop by.


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drpastorcarlotta 3 years ago from BREAKOUT MINISTRIES, INC. KC

Wonderful message my friend. I have missed you, I have been very busy counseling. I voted-Up! on your Hub. As always you have a very important message to share. Come visit me when you get some free time. God Bless you always!!!!!


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

@DrPastorcCarlotta

Lovely to see you again. I will definitely visit you. Thanks so much for stopping by and voting up.

Regards,

Elena


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Vellur 3 years ago from Dubai

Great hub. Wisdom in your every word. Thank you for sharing this wonderful message.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

Hi Vellur - thanks so much for stopping by.


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FSlovenec 3 years ago from San Francisco, CA

Love the Hub..this is so true and very much to the point...in many ways we become who we regularly associate with...thank you


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks FSlovenec

I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Best Wishes.


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Express10 3 years ago from East Coast

You've written an awesome hub, it's all very true.


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Lady_E 3 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks Expresso 10,

I'm glad you enjoyed it. :-)


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Treasuresofheaven 2 years ago from Michigan

You are always on target Lady E. I will assess the 5 people I associate with the most and make a decision based on your writing. Great stuff and great reminders.


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Lady_E 2 years ago from London, UK Author

@Treasuresofheaven Thanks. Lovely to hear from you. :-)

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