I suggest being skeptical of anyone who claims to know your wants better than you do regardless of gender. That's usually a flag for someone who behaves in a controlling way. Perhaps we can ask, in a relationship, which gender tries to tell the other they know their partners wants better than their partner does? In most of my relationships I recall hearing, "No, you don't like to do x, y, or z, remember?" To which I often thought in response, "Erm, say what?" Then a debate begins on who has a better understanding on our inner workings. The irony being, our feelings aren't up for debate.