1. You don't negotiate for love and affection.
(These things are given freely)
2. You can't manufacture chemistry.
(It's either there or it's not)
3. It's easier to maintain a fire than it is to reignite a spark.
(Keep that in mind for the future)
In the words of Bonnie Raitt, "I can't make you love me if you don't and you can't make your heart feel something it won't."
If your "boyfriend" doesn't want you as much as you want him then thank god you are NOT married!
Seriously, you deserve to know what it is like to have someone who wants you as much as you want them!
Best of luck!