WOW Great question!
I was at my job 20 years,in that 20 years I lived with an office romance for 2 1/2 years. We parted because I wanted a child and he couldn't have any more,even though he was willing to attempt a reversal I felt it was too painful and just too much.
When I did finally have my son,he and his son put together most of his toys,bikes,hoops etc.
He's since married and I haven't heard from him in years.
Hope he's happy,I am.