Example: When you are always there for your friend/family, advice or just listening to their problems. You may offer support by inviting them to join you for lunch or a special event to cheer them up. When things are great for them in their personal life, you never hear from them.
"Flying High, you don't hear from them.
Down in the dumps, they can't get enough of you!"
Solution: Keep your distance or tell them how you feel. In my opinion, not a true friend or in case of a family member....still a user!