I don't know about her, but what I would want them to know is that nothing is nver to late... Everything happens for a reason. And hoping through good and bad outcomes builds character, and will reap benefits if they put actions behind it. Any feeling can become a a tangible revelation of life, they just have to start striving for the efforts to hope, aspire, and love. Once the effort comes take advantage of it and start hoping, loving, and dreaming. Then the benefits and reasons will find their ways to them.
But the greatest of these is Love.