You don't receive anything unless it is time. The universe and the Lord (Don't mean to preach) have a mysterious way of bringing things to you. Sometimes, you have to look within yourself and answer the unappealing questions about yourself. Or you may not be the troubled one. If not, then you have to stop looking because if you're anything like me, you will find the biggest jerk within a fifty mile radius. Sometimes, you fail to see whats right in front of you. This mystery person may already be in your life. So take a good look at the people around you. Your wife may be your friend, or a friend of a friend. Step back and take a better look. Then, wait for the universe to reciprocate. In addition, paradigm you way of thinking. That's just a fancy way of saying, change your thinking and know that you are worthy of the gifts that the universe has in store.OK. Please keep me posted and tell me how it goes. I'd be more than happy to help you.