Every day, say this prayer. "Thank you, Lord, for sending the love of my life into my life. Thank you for showing me how to be ready to receive the love of my life."
Say the prayer as many times a day as you wish. Believe the love of your life is there and believe God wants the two of you to be together. And I agree with everyone else, stop looking. Believe he or she is already there and get yourself ready and prepared.