What will you do if your partner convert to different religion without your noti

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   loveorlostposted 12 years ago

   What will you do if your partner convert to different religion without your notice?
   
   

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   Clayton Fernandesposted 12 years ago

   i think i'd get to know my partner a little better than that, Rather than have something like this happen. Then again if it does happen without me knowing, Things are going to be very different when i find out!.

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   ronhiposted 12 years ago

   Changing a religion is a big decision..and if your partner makes such a big decision, it means there is the possibility of Him/Her making other big decisions without informing you first. The best predictor for future behaviour is past behaviour. You need to have a serious chat about this or it could ruin your realtionship

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   rajan jollyposted 12 years ago

   I don't know what I'll do but I'll be hurt surely.

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   TajSinghposted 12 years ago

   I'll probably ask her why she did it first.

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   soniacharanposted 12 years ago

   if you love your partner,
   whichever religion she believes in or starts believing in will not matter you much!!!

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   Flightkeeperposted 12 years ago

   I probably won't do anything, but I would ask what caused this major change in outlook and see if the relationship changes from there.

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   Zainnisarposted 12 years ago

   Such Things don't happen over the night but if someone did that in hurry he/she will be back sooner than you may expect.
   If that change is genuine that person will start showing changes in habits or daily routines, if that's not the case forget about him/her he/she is gone and not a partner anymore because such secrets are hard to keep from loved ones.

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   marshacanadaposted 12 years ago

   This secret religious conversion must be a big shock and a big challenge to the relationship. Maybe the partner wants out? was scared to discuss this conversion ahead of time? Has very good reasons?
   If you want to keep this relationship going it will require a lot of talking, openness and trust. Also a lot of listening to each other and trying to figure out why someone would take such a major step without letting their partner know.

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    advisor4qbposted 12 years ago

    I would want to discuss the reasons, and I would want to know if we were still on the same page with respect to our beliefs.  I think it is very important that two people who are together are "equally yoked."  Otherwise, there will be arguing.
    
    Namaste

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    xethonxqposted 12 years ago

    I would probably inquire as to why she chose to do this without at least mentioning it to me. I wouldn't have a problem with her choosing a different faith...unless of course it was a cult, then we would probably have an interesting conversation. I would hope that I would be a little more attentive to things though and it wouldn't be a surprise. I mean....what kind of partner would I be if I didn't have a clue about it?

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    NiaLeeposted 12 years ago

    I think that as a couple, we should discuss religious or spiritual views like so many others. Converting to most religions requires change in your way of life and the way you handle your relationships, especially personal and intimate ones!
    I will definitely wonder why? what? and how? and why not let me know before!
    Now, what kind of relationship the partner thinks he/she has to hide that???
    Let;'s remain calm and listen to the answers...

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    juiwei2000posted 12 years ago

    In general sense, honstly, I don't care.  I do not believe there is anything wrong about people of two different religion been together.  Everybody have difference in their believe, even couple.  So honestly, I don't care.  Of course, you have to make certain things clear.  For example, because I am not Christian, in relationship, I told my GF, if we ever get married, it would not be in a church and the children won't get baptise or have god parents.  If he/she choose to become a christian when he/she grow up he/she can do so, but you can't force him/her to be involve in a religion against his/her will or force him/her to go to church, if he/she don't want to.  My GF is alright with it, her very catholic like parents aren't Ok with it, they insist any future born children most be baptist since birth.  Which is why, my GF is now my Ex GF, but if her parents are alright with my end of the bargin, we probably would still be together

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