My stepdaughter who recently had a baby girl, who is now 16 months has become the center of my wifes life now, and I'm hung out to dry. Her daughter (my stepdaughter) who lives with us, is 22 yrs old and only works part time in the evenings and weekends and my wife volunteers all of "our" free time away to babysit and is fine about doing it. Our communication and time together is minimal and its caused our marriage distress. But I seem to be the only one affected?? Anyone else have this happen or similar??