I met my bf 1.5 yrs ago, followed by long distance dating. He is 25, and I am 30. I have achieved a lot of goals, gone through the Rings of Saturn, and around 28 was ready to prioritize a relationship. He puts in the effort, driving 4 hours to see me, inquires about my feelings and checks in to "make sure I am feeling good/secure about things". He is about to move much further away. I suggested just going our own ways for awhile but this upset him and he wants to try. We've discussed my moving there/in in 1 yr, but I'm afraid he will change and I will have wasted my time. Advice?