How to explain to your new partner why you have been single for so long?
When it's been years since you've had a relationship.
You shouldn't have to explain at all. That isn't something that should be a big deal in a relationship and if it is, then it's a relationship you shouldn't be in.
Oh this question used to offend me...I used to think of it intrusive especially coming from someone whom I do not know and knows me little. It implies many things.
It does not offend me anymore.
There is only one answer..I chose it that way. I would rather be single than settle..It means when I choose whom to be with, I am absolutely certain in my heart, mind, body and soul that that person is the one.
Choice is and will always be the privilege of the free.
I totally agree with you. Having a long history of singleness doesn't mean there's something "wrong" with you--just that you're holding up a higher standard. I'd rather wait for the right one than waste time with the ones that are wrong!
I used to think that was what they implied..is there something wrong with me?..I don't anymore. Some of them are just curious..that is all..
I agree with you msorensson. Its just a pity that so many people subject themselves to relationships they do not want to be in just so they can say that they are not single.
Msorensson, you are always so wise and honest with your words Thankyou!
Just tell them you were taking time for yourself. There's nothing wrong with that.
I think it looks worse when someone jumps immediately from one partner to the next, again and again, because they can't stand being alone.
"How to explain to your new partner why you have been single for so long?"
I was waiting for you. :-)
I love it, that's a very sweet explaination!
I wasn't ready for a relationship. That's not so unbelievable given that many whom I met were not ready either.
Just be honest. Tell the real reason why. If the reason is because you simply chose it that way, then say it. There's no harm in telling the truth, and I don't think it's a big deal. Your new partner should accept you as you are and should have no problem with that.
by Rosemary Amrhein 12 years ago
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by Laurel Rogers 12 years ago
Oh boy...that's all I can say at the moment-have you ever felt the same sort of thing?
by MJC 8 years ago
Making love with your partner every day, I mean every day, is it harmful?
by LindaSusan 13 years ago
I've recently seen that my long time domestic partner has himself as single on Myspace. And...about a month ago his profile here on HubPages had long term relationship, now that is no longer on there. So what, is he trying to tell me something?
by Rosemary Amrhein 11 years ago
This is sort of a touchy subject for me.I have been in relationships non stop for about 15 yrs until 2 yrs ago.I have spent time with myself but I still find it challenging to be completely alone.I don't know why. It's like so strange and so weird.I've always had a man to fall back onbut I don't...
by LoliHey 7 years ago
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