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How do I stop feeling unattractive and stop fearing my fiance' will find someone better?


I have always had self-esteem issues. They aren't as bad as they use to be but they are bothering me again because my fiance is going to some concert thing (Rover's Morning Glory) and I know there will be women there drinking and wearing little clothing. I just keep thinking he will be drooling over them girls and if one happens to like him, he may leave me for her. He tells me all the time looks aren't everything and he loves me and he's attracted to me but I can't compete with drunk girls who are practically naked. He's a man. I don't dress that way or drink. I want to stop feeling this :(

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    Charlu 4 years ago

    Totally agree and would only add to do a personal inventory of yourself listing all your positive attributes, along with some things you may want to work on.

    When your confident, happy with your inner/outer self your beauty will have him speechless


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  • NikiiLeeReyes 4 years ago

    lol--- every man likes porn. I like porn. how could you not like porn? I learned most of my moves through porn. Sorry D. of Matt, I stopped reading at "two girls together does nothing for him" ... but yes I agree; you can tell by the look in their ey


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  • CJ Sledgehammer 4 years ago

    Tom, did you just tell Brittles to have sex with her fiance before he goes out? If so, you seem to have your head in the gutter.


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  • NikiiLeeReyes 4 years ago

    always look forward to read what you have to say-- you're so insightful.

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  • NikiiLeeReyes 4 years ago

    the point is ( whoever voted me down) is that you cant be afraid to be a woman and you cant be afraid to let your man be a man. who are we really if we are not free to be ourselves?


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    Catherine Kane 4 years ago

    I don't know. I think that a relationship that starts out with mistrust and little head games is a relationship that's really at risk. From personal experience, you'd do better to talk it out with him.


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  • leann2800 4 years ago

    typo- I meant in the second paragraph where I say let him go, I meant let "it" go, like let the worry go. Sorry, I by no means meant to say to ditch the guy.

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