I have read all your answers and I can see a bit of what each of you says in my boyfriend.
@dashingscorpio Thank you for your comments. It's uncanny how two girls can be wearing the same outfit but the boyfriend of one has a different view of how it looks on his girlfriend as opposed to another girl. I have known my boyfriend for over 2 decades and i have always dressed the same, but his opinion of how I dress changed once we got together as a couple.
@stanwshura and @MickS Thank you. We definitely can't ignore the fact that women do act the same way too. I guess a certain amount of possessiveness befells everyone when they get together with someone. There are some that don't want another to see the same loving beautiful characteristics in their loved one for fear that they may lose them.
@Silverspeeder I agree with you in the sense that my boyfriend has on occasion thought that I was flirting with others by dressing up. He has thought that I was trying to draw attention to myself.
@StarMom41 Insecurity that can lead to jealousy is another sign that I have seen. It's so wierd that each of your comments depicts a small part of what makes up my boyfriends character. I noted a possible red flag not long ago and thankfully have nipped it in the butt.
@iwriteforyou What you said about women becoming an object of sexual attention when they dress in certain outfits is true. Lack of communication between couples is not healthy for any relationship. Wearing sexy outfits can send wrong signals to your partner. In situations like that, the partner needs to open and upfront with their loved one. They need to talk about what bothers them and come to a decision.