My husband and I never really got to be newly weds by definition. We were completely backwards. We had our daughter (The second child for both of us, he had a son, I already had a daughter) then bought our home and after 2 years we got married. Once married we got pregnant again. I think our greatest fear and challenge was losing that child while I was 5 months pregnant and then deciding to still try again. It was a very long and hard road but we came out stronger and closer in the end and holding yet another beautiful daughter (my third).