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Why is it so difficult to say "no" at the right time?


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Donna Hilbrandt (donnah75) says

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    Michelle Liew (midget38) 4 years ago

    It's an art, indeed. Mastering the "no" is really an art!

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H C Palting (Express10) says

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    Michelle Liew (midget38) 4 years ago

    Agree with that very much, Express10. We don't say no because we don't want to hurt. But it hurts more when our kindness is abused.

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Elena (Lady_E) says

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    Michelle Liew (midget38) 4 years ago

    True, Elena. We don't want to upset people, and end up biting off more than we can chew. Happens to me a lot too (that's why I've asked this question.) Think we should have an online assertive course!!

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IAmForbidden (unknown spy) says

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    Michelle Liew (midget38) 4 years ago

    That's true, myownlife. There is a time for a yes and a no. We just have to know when.

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