It is the one I've married, though at times in the past I had been in doubt. By the way being in doubt and sticking to the relationship is part of a successfult marriage.
these are the characteristics:
1-makes you feel loved
3-relies on your opinion
4-listens to what you say
6-helps out with the house work as far as he can
8-is outgoing [now this is not a characteristic of my guy today due to his work, but part of being a couple is understanding the 'whys' and going around the little negativities]
I hope you've found yours.