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Alecia Murphy says
Great answer and you are so right about people settling and so often lust is mistaken for true love. Thanks
LMAO You are just to funny and a definite tell it like you see it.
Isn't it funny how stating reality sticks out? I have 2 choices. I can tell it like I see it, or I can blow smoke up your butt. I answer ? honestly. Right or wrong, I keep it real. "Best Answer" doesn't always feel good.
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I'm so glad you married for love and found true happiness, but I didn't say he had to be old or even bad looking for that matter, just filthy rich.
So far it's appears to be a unanimous "true love" vote, but we shall see. Thanks
Dianna Mendez says
Very interesting point for both sides hmmmmm Thank you for sharing your personal experiences it definitely makes you think.
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Monique Graham says
What a great perspective on work and challenges. Your answer has inspired me to get to work on something. Thank you Your probably right about the true love in a relationship, but I just haven't found myself there yet.
Sometimes penny pinching is the way they got their money and another good point
. If you asked this same ? to those million Greek people, what do you think would be their answer? Daaah! Let's be fair. Cougar or golddigger? Your only 2 choices. Glad I'm a guy. Although, dirty old man or gigilo? We are all screwed.
There always choices - being screwed badly or being screwed well. Without your consent nobody can make you do or be anything - you don't want to be a cougar, a gold-digger, an old disgusting roue, a gigolo? Well, don't be.
Why is a cougar such a bad thing if it is two consensual adults who make each other happy then why are we so quick to judge? I am over 55 and do more from 3 to 7am than 4 or 5 men my same age put together. So if I want to date younger then why not?
Maybe the disapproval comes not for or from the age difference, but for being in the relationship for the wrong reason. It is the commercial aspect that is despised. Being a wealthy woman who made it past forty is not a crime. Nor is dating.
I believe that a fact is that some extremely poor people (esp. male) would opt for a rich union whether the spouse to be were old or unsightly. But this not a norm nor that common. Folk tend to listen to their hearts rather than the math.
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