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Best Answer savvydating says
savvydating: all true points you have mentioned!! Thanks for you comment!!!
Lor B says
Thanks Junegirl58: Glad you are so over the moon happy and in love with your husband. Glad that you found someone early on in life!!!
good for you!!!
That is great for your Auntie, Thanks for sharing!!!
Well you are right we all have our likes and dislikes and sometimes that can prevent us from possibly meeting someone wonderful . But if we don't follow our hearts and what it is we want we could just be settling for less.
"Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart." Simply "following our heart" often leads to forming "impulsive relationships" based solely on chemistry. That's not wise.
I wasn't saying to seperate your mind from your heart. Use your mind to decifer what your likes and dislikes are. What you truly want in a relationship and don't settle for less. That's what I was trying to say.
moneyfairy, I hear you. So many people I deal with tell me how they "follow their heart" and they mean they throw logic/thinking out the window when pursuing relationships. I talk about this in my book: My Cat Won't Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany)
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Petra Vlah says
I was thinking more along the lines of unconditional true love, not just tolerance but knowing the worst about that person and loving them anyway warts and all :)